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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #200 on: July 14, 2008, 12:22:02 AM »
Possum,

I don't know where you live, but if an Eastern European who won immigration via the DV lottery were the biggest immigration problem in my community I'd shout for joy!  A whole year's worth of DV visa winners is matched in just five days by those who don't put their name in for a legal visa..they just come on in anyway and help themselves to whatever's in the fridge.
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« Reply #201 on: July 14, 2008, 12:43:33 AM »
Did you see the URL I've posted?    DV lottery invites specific professions into the country, versus "family reunion" brings anybody and everybody.   See the difference? 

I know there are professional requirements for the DV lottery, but either there's a way around them or there not enforced as strictly as some people think.. otherwise only a tiny portion of the winners would be getting into the country, and AFAIK that's not the case..
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« Reply #202 on: July 14, 2008, 12:50:07 AM »
Possum,

I don't know where you live, but if an Eastern European who won immigration via the DV lottery were the biggest immigration problem in my community I'd shout for joy!  A whole year's worth of DV visa winners is matched in just five days by those who don't put their name in for a legal visa..they just come on in anyway and help themselves to whatever's in the fridge.

Right, so an Eastern European bum is better than a Mexican bum because there are more bums from Mexico than from Eastern Europe.. I get it.. ;)
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #203 on: July 14, 2008, 01:17:28 AM »
and AFAIK that's not the case..

I, personally, know (though forums) only few DV winners from FSU, but all of them have professions that let them start anew in US pretty much soon after arrival.   I also have read about some DV winners from Russia that wouldn't even leave Russia because they were not sure about their future in US. 

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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #204 on: July 14, 2008, 01:41:53 AM »
Possum...It sounds like you're putting a whole lot of opinion on the back of one situation.  If that's how you form judgements...knock yourself out.
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« Reply #205 on: July 14, 2008, 02:10:11 AM »
I, personally, know (though forums) only few DV winners from FSU, but all of them have professions that let them start anew in US pretty much soon after arrival.

I'm sure they do.. Most people have skills of one sort or another that would allow them to get a job in a place like the US, where there are more jobs/job types than anywhere else in the world.. My argument, however, is that in the DV program skills are not as important as the nationality(and health, in some cases) of the participants, and as a consequence more mediocre people 'get lucky' each year than 'people of outstanding ability', or whatever they call them, do in a decade.. In what world does that make sense?. ;D

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I also have read about some DV winners from Russia that wouldn't even leave Russia because they were not sure about their future in US. 

Yes, people get cold feet from time to time, what's your point?. :P
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« Reply #206 on: July 14, 2008, 02:15:17 AM »
Possum...It sounds like you're putting a whole lot of opinion on the back of one situation.  If that's how you form judgements...knock yourself out.

Tell me something, Ronnie, do you think average/mediocre people should be let into the country at a faster rate than those with outstanding academic and other credentials who apply for a visa the 'old-fashioned way'?.
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #207 on: July 14, 2008, 02:19:49 AM »
My argument, however, is that in the DV program skills are not as important as the nationality(and health, in some cases) of the participants, and as a consequence more mediocre people 'get lucky' each year than 'people of outstanding ability', or whatever they call them, do in a decade..

Health?   I've lost you here...   What exactly are you talking about?   Mediocre?   You gotta be kidding!   The whole society is built on "mediocre"!   

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« Reply #208 on: July 14, 2008, 02:28:46 AM »
Health?   I've lost you here...   What exactly are you talking about?   Mediocre?   You gotta be kidding!   The whole society is built on "mediocre"!   

Yeah, I know, but what do we do the scientist/professor types who are trying to get into the country?. :D

Last I checked, all DV lottery winners were subject to a physical before they could enter the US.. Things like AIDS and TB used to be deal breakers, but I'm sure that's changed now..
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #209 on: July 14, 2008, 02:30:04 AM »
Tell me something, Ronnie, do you think average/mediocre people should be let into the country at a faster rate than those with outstanding academic and other credentials who apply for a visa the 'old-fashioned way'?.
Possum, in any high developed society there is an abundance of well-trained and high-skilled individuals. On the other hand there is a lack of workers who want to do simple and dirty jobs. To fill that gap, the society needs people who are not academics or have specialized skills.  There are not that many needed, and the society has enough already.
As a result, there are ways to attract the lower and middle class workers. One way is by not guarding the borders to receive immigrants that will do the lowest paid jobs. Another one is by giving chance to people who are not educated, but are willing to work hard for their future.
America was built on immigrants, and not the intellectual type of them. Instead everyone who was having trouble to make a living but was willing to take a risk and work hard was invited. There were many immigrants who did not have a job at home, never went to any school or were running from the law. These were the people who built a country, while the intellectuals were sitting in their comfortable castles in Europe.
Instead of being envious of those people, forget your brains and intellect and start to work.
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #210 on: July 14, 2008, 02:41:28 AM »
Things like AIDS and TB used to be deal breakers, but I'm sure that's changed now..

I'm sure it didn't.   

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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #211 on: July 14, 2008, 02:45:31 AM »

Instead of being envious of those people, forget your brains and intellect and start to work.

That is a very bad advise (the one about forgetting your brains and intellect) !    :D   

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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #212 on: July 14, 2008, 03:00:23 AM »
That is a very bad advise (the one about forgetting your brains and intellect) !    :D   
I usually forget them myself  ;)
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #213 on: July 14, 2008, 03:03:39 AM »
Instead of being envious of those people, forget your brains and intellect and start to work.

LOL.. I'm not the jealous/envious type, I just seem to have little tolerance for injustice and stupidity.. :P
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« Reply #214 on: July 14, 2008, 03:07:35 AM »
I'm sure it didn't.   

There has been a push for an AIDS waiver for certain visa types, not sure which though..
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #215 on: July 14, 2008, 03:49:59 AM »
LOL.. I'm not the jealous/envious type, I just seem to have little tolerance for injustice and stupidity.. :P
Most people care only about injustice if it involves them.  :P
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Re: On Line Dating Sites
« Reply #216 on: July 14, 2008, 03:52:59 AM »
Most people care only about injustice if it involves them.  :P

Generally, yes, but in my case it's righteous indignation.. :D
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« Reply #217 on: July 14, 2008, 03:56:50 AM »
There has been a push for an AIDS waiver for certain visa types, not sure which though..

Which one?   Otherwise it's OBS - one babushka says.   ;)   

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« Reply #218 on: July 14, 2008, 10:48:38 AM »
There were many immigrants who did not have a job at home, never went to any school or were running from the law.
Or were indentured servants (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indentured_servant), or convicts (subsequently shipped off to Oz after the 1775 'troubles' ;)).
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