I need help about a woman from Ukraine

[brave girl]

In RW mentality, it is your fault, not hers, because you ALLOWED her to take money from you.

EXACTLY !!    brave girl

[JR]

Kudos to you Spunk, you went...)

[Fashionista]

So now the relationship is stopped. I don’t know about I should turn her into a gold digger site, so other men from the west not will have the same experience like me.

C'mon dont be so judgmental  . Consider possibility that she also asked on some forum what western men like and how to treat them, and then followed them to the letter. Internet is full of free, oops I meant valuable advices  .

[kievstar]

You really can not turn her into a gold digger site as she does not speak fluent English and you talked about supporting her.  She may have misunderstood you and thought you were going to support her now and when you did not give her money she had to ask which led to the end.  A little advise never talk about throwing around money just do it.  That way you give money when you want and she will never get on you as you never said you would give money.

You learned a good lesson.  It all about learning so move on and learn from mistake like the rest of us.

[Faux Pas]

Spunk,

From reading your description it seems to me this girl may have thought she was holding up her end of the bargain. You visited, were "taken care" of in maybe every sense of the word physically. I would see it as you owing her a debt of gratitude that she didn't profess love, marriage and all the trimmings, nor did she (to our knowledge) proclaim you a sex tourist.

I am going out on a limb here and suggest perhaps your early communication with this lady wasn't very clear. From your posts there is nothing indicating that you were lied to or taken advantage of or that she is a gold digger. She asked for gifts. Nothing really women the world over don't do although may not be so direct.

If this isn't the type relationship you seek, you should change your mod-is-operandi. Don't start talking or even implying that you are looking for a woman to support or take care of. In essence you caught the type of fish for the bait you were using. Even with all her misgivings, she was pretty upfront and honest about it. Don't waste anymore time or energy looking to harm her in some way. What's the point?

[BillyB]

I am going out on a limb here and suggest perhaps your early communication with this lady wasn't very clear.

I'd say the same thing and would estimate Spunk made the same mistake a lot of men make. Failure to communicate.

Spunk, there is very little you said about this woman identifying her as a high quality marriage material woman yet you made the decision to visit her and hoping luck was on your side.

What was clear in communications is that she lived or continues to live a lifestyle that makes you uncomfortable. Into anal and group sex and one night stands. Nobody should force to have a relationship with a person they look down upon.

Unless there is much more you're not telling us.... you should not report her to anti scam sites. She took care of your manly needs and you were exepected to take care of her needs. I hope your next woman needs you more than your money. You seem to be a man that's willing to give to the woman you love but like most of us, you want to be loved more than your money.