Life Changes...Part Deux

[BillyB]

Change in plans. Mom will sign a contract to work in Poland in a few weeks but she won't start until A has left with me to America. I sent A $500 4 days ago but she hasn't picked up the money yet. I asked why and she said she didn't ask for it and feels ashamed. I told her that I was going to take care of her while she's in Ukraine and I would feel ashamed if she's cold and hungry. I suspect she still has money left over from last month and currently doesn't need any. I'm not surprised by her actions or her conservative spending habits.

Come on Billy,  now you've got all the lurkers wondering where a mid-40's man goes to find a 16 yr old girl on the Internet. 

I see you're making up more stuff on me. What can I do? You're going to get some people to believe you just because they have your attitude and have reading comprehension problems. When I visited A I had a 22 year different in age with her. Now you're telling everyone it's close to 30.

Do I bother you? Are you bothered when RW of all ages enjoy communicating with me, inviting me to the FSU and enjoy dating me? Are you bothered that the RW's mothers, friends, and friends of the mothers all like and dance with me at the disco? Are you bothered that RW mothers like me so much that they encourage me to have a satisfying love life with their daughter and give me tips on sex and nutrition advice to improve my libido?

You say I'm a predator yet women I've communicated with don't think so. It seems many of you guys here don't understand what a woman wants and if her heart wants a certain kind of man, she will be thrilled when she finds him and A is thrilled with me. In another thread Gator said his gf has a 22 yo daughter who likes men in their 30's to 40's. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. If guys in that age bracket can stimulate her mentally and physically, then who am I to say she's wrong? The only guys that could tell her and A they're wrong are the young men and you critics who have no chance because you're too immature and emotionally unstable.

There's no doubt in my mind some you guys have zero experience and confidence issues going out with high quality women that may seem out of your league. I've gone out with very young ladies, older women, gorgeous women, engineers, doctors, and taller women with no problem at all. I feel none of them are out of my league and if they are thrilled to date me, make love to me, marry me, then you can get upset and cry or you can do something about it and improve yourself. Putting me down to bring yourself up is not going to cut it. I can do this over and over successfully. Can other man here say that?

It's interesting to see young guys like Harb and old married men, make up stories that they know A personally and put her and her mom down, download my photos, spend hours looking through thousands of my posts for dirt, making up lies about A's age and my background, and spending hours of potential family and intimate time with wives to post in my thread to tell everyone over and over and over that you don't approve. I bet some newbies reading are going to hesitate to talk about and post photos of their special lady all due to your antics.

Kuna, you need to relax and take a breath man. You really are starting to sound like a broken record.  You really need to not take this so personal and its quite obvious that you are.

If A's mom and A are fine with Billy marrying A, then its their decision and their lives to either fail or succeed. Not everyone can conform to your life views. If we all did this would be a very boring world indeed......

Kuna's wife has educated his young kids daddy spends every night in the computer room after work trying to protect RW virginity and save the world. They think he's a hero...for now. One day they'll find out he's a drama queen. Lord help his wife if she ever does anything bad to Kuna such as leave him. He calls me a predator and fabricates stories. I wonder what kind accusations and choice words he used on his past girlfriends and wives? It's very important for women to choose an emotionally stable man and one that values family over the internet.


Besides those who are having reading comprehension problems, I will now help some of you who are mathmatically challenged. Al_C has a birthday coming up soon according to the calender. he is 53 yo now. 12 months ago he was 52 yo. 16 months ago he was 52 yo. 23 months ago, almost 2 years in time, he was 52 yo although he's 53 now. Think about it.

[Vaughn]

Are you bothered that RW mothers like me so much that they encourage me to have a satisfying love life with their daughter and give me tips on sex and nutrition advice to improve my libido?

[AsH]

Geez.....................some of this is getting too personal i feel...........................

[BC]

Geez.....................some of this is getting too personal i feel...........................

That's just the effect you see.  The cause is TMI.

Really, less is more.  The play by play isn't needed.

[Faux Pas]

Bizarre

[Muzh]

A asked me to buy her a kitten when she's with me. I agreed but I told her I don't give animals much attention and that is why I don't have any except some fish in an aquarium. I think the kitten will keep her busy when I'm at work so she doesn't get too bored. When she gets a drivers license, she'll be free to get out of the house but until then, we have to find ways to keep her from being bored.

So she's going to be playing with her pussy while you're gone?

This is not good!

[Turboguy]

Bizarre

I am sure some think so and that is why this thread is going well over 1000 posts.  I am sure Billy thinks everything he talks about is completly normal and the issues he discusses are things we all discuss and face.  Nothing bizzare at all. 

[Muzh]

I am sure some think so and that is why this thread is going well over 1000 posts.  I am sure Billy thinks everything he talks about is completly normal and the issues he discusses are things we all discuss and face.  Nothing bizzare at all. 

Remember the old saw: He who talks the most does the least.

[Turboguy]

Over the history of RWD we have had a lot of people who would have fit the bill of talking the most.  Some did the least, but I am not so sure about Billy fitting that. 

We just have to remember down the road a long time when Billy has posted his 5th, 10th and 20th anniversay photos of him and A and photos of their half dozen rug rats running around and growing up that sometimes people fool us and end up happy.  Hopefully he will never have the occasion to hear us say "I told you so".

[Faux Pas]

I am sure some think so and that is why this thread is going well over 1000 posts.  I am sure Billy thinks everything he talks about is completly normal and the issues he discusses are things we all discuss and face.  Nothing bizzare at all. 

Very bizarre

[sudz]

Mom will sign a contract to work in Poland in a few weeks but she won't start until A has left with me to America.

Maybe I'm missing something but how do you get a job without a definite start date?

- Sudz

[TomT]

Are you bothered that RW mothers like me so much that they encourage me to have a satisfying love life with their daughter and give me tips on sex and nutrition advice to improve my libido?

Perhaps mom mentioned the most obvious way to improve one's libido: get involved with a teenager.

[BillyB]

Maybe I'm missing something but how do you get a job without a definite start date?

Can happen right here in America. If you sign up for the military, you can delay your entry until the day you want. If you're a white collar professional in high demand, you can sign a contract stating you will start work after you finish other obligations. Mom is going to contract negotiations in 2 weeks and she may change her mind and start earlier if they make an offer to good to pass up but she does want to spend a significant time with A and see her off before she comes to America so she will need serious vacation time promised this summer if they convince her to start early.

Perhaps mom mentioned the most obvious way to improve one's libido: get involved with a teenager.

Are you saying that because that is how you think? You think I'd have relations with any young woman no matter how stupid, overweight, ugly, and bitchy she is just because she's young? Some of you make more out of age than I do. Maybe because it is important to you more than I?

After A and I made a commitment to each other, mom did tell me she feels I'm serious and won't play games with her daughter, after all, we will be separated for a long period of time. She told me her daughter is beautiful, smart and a very good woman and a man would have to be stupid to leave her. She didn't mention anything about A's age as a reason for a man to like A. I told mom I'll be back for A.

As far as libido and sex goes, one reason I talk about it a lot is because women talk to me about it a lot. They would not do so if they felt I'm a pervert. Most women are comfortable around me for a good reason. The men reading here can compare their lives and interaction with women against mine. Sex happens within relationships and is an important topic for most people and it needs to be discussed. I discuss everything with A including who's going to wash the dishes. I suspect most men are afraid to talk to their woman about what they want since they want to get married first and then hammer out the details on how the marriage is supposed to work but if a woman greatly respects her man, she will want to please him and I have been pleased. I will tell any woman who wants to make a life with me what I expect out of them and if they can't accept it, I will not marry her. I will also ask the woman what she expects out of me and if I can meet her requirements, I will not marry her.

Most people like sex, right? Physical needs are important so most people wish their children will have a great sex life, right? Mom cares about her daughter so much that she had a personal talk with me to figure out my bed habits and how much I desire it. Mom recommends sex twice daily. Once in the evening for a woman's pleasure and once in the morning for a man's pleasure so he can relax and not be so aggressive before he goes to work. Mom knows A is inexperienced and knows I will have to be a good teacher. Mom told me she doesn't want her daughter to suffer without a good sex life in her marriage.

At a restaurant mom will take the parsley off her and A's plate and give it to me since parsley is good for a man's libido. She tells me I should eat it everyday when I go back home. Another RW I once dated gave me her parsley too. How many RW have taken parsley off their plate and passed it to you in an effort to show they care about your performance? If any of you guys are in the search phase for a woman and she's always hesitant to talk about the physical part of a relationship, she either thinks of you as a friend not a lover, don't care about intimacy, or is getting bad vibes from you and is uncomfortable talking to you about it.

[Hammer2722]

I will also ask the woman what she expects out of me and if I can meet her requirements, I will not marry her.

I'm thinking you meant to say that you would marry her if you met her requirements, yes? Just wanted to point this out before the "anti-Billy" vultures swooped in on this one statement to make a mountain out of a mole hill.

[Turboguy]

I'm thinking you meant to say that you would marry her if you met her requirements, yes? Just wanted to point this out before the "anti-Billy" vultures swooped in on this one statement to make a mountain out of a mole hill.

You surely are not going to tell me that any members of RWD would stoop so low as to make a mountain out of a mole hill?   

[Hammer2722]

You surely are not going to tell me that any members of RWD would stoop so low as to make a mountain out of a mole hill?   

Oh! Perish the thought!!!!! 

[Gator]

I will also ask the woman what she expects out of me and if I can meet her requirements, I will not marry her.

I'm thinking you meant to say that you would marry her if you met her requirements, yes? Just wanted to point this out before the "anti-Billy" vultures swooped in on this one statement to make a mountain out of a mole hill.

With BillyB, who knows?  His statement could be correct - maybe BillyB has stretch goals, or considers easily satisfied women tedious, or loves a challenge,..... 

[BillyB]

With BillyB, who knows?  His statement could be correct - maybe BillyB has stretch goals, or considers easily satisfied women tedious, or loves a challenge,..... 

No, no. Hammer correctly corrected me. I wrote that post late and my brain doesn't work too good after midnight and I was too tired to reread before submitting. But Im not afraid of a challenge. Mom is a strong woman and she told me A will be stronger than her and asked if I would be able to handle that.   I certainly wouldn't be able to handle or even attract a young lady like A in my younger days.

[TomT]

Are you saying that because that is how you think? You think I'd have relations with any young woman no matter how stupid, overweight, ugly, and bitchy she is just because she's young? Some of you make more out of age than I do. Maybe because it is important to you more than I?

You are the one who is foolishly pursuing marriage to a teenager, not I.

I can't help but notice your attempt to cloud the issue with your comment about "stupid, ugly, overweight and bitchy." At the risk of stating the obvious, any fool is aware that youth = fertility = beauty. A much more productive topic to ponder is why a young, fertile, beautiful girl might settle for the likes of us, Billy.


p.s.

I hope that you didn't buy into that BS about parsley being beneficial for a man's sexual health. I would have a much higher opinion of mom if she had told you that losing 10 kilos (or so) of interabdominal fat would be far more effective than eating herbs.

[BillyB]

You are the one who is foolishly pursuing marriage to a teenager, not I.

Cmon, Tom. If the communication with the 19 yo and you blossomed and you ended up visiting and marrying her, you'd be a different man today. You'd be telling everybody to lay off Billy and that him and A are both adults and can make up their own minds.

I hope that you didn't buy into that BS about parsley being beneficial for a man's sexual health.

Google "parsley" and "aphrodisiac" and see what you come up with.

Tom, even if you don't believe parsley will help you physically, just the fact a woman puts parsley on your plate and whispers in your ear it's benefits should psychologically stimulate your hormones. Don't rebuke it. Just do it. Bon appetit!

[TomT]

If we build cases on things that didn't happen, we could conjure up all manner of ridiculous crap. One thing that is going to happen, however, is that A's brain will develop.

[BillyB]

If we build cases on things that didn't happen, we could conjure up all manner of ridiculous crap.

Where were you at earlier when people were building up cases on me due to reading comprehension problems and lack of math skills when computing age?

One thing that is going to happen, however, is that A's brain will develop.

If it's true the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, then I'm going to be a very happy man because mom adores me. How's your in laws feel about you?

[TomT]

If it's true the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, then I'm going to be a very happy man because mom adores me. How's your in laws feel about you?

Unlike your mother-in-law-to-be, they behaved like normal parents and weren't very happy about their daughter marrying a much-older foreigner. They were polite enough but they didn't give me any advice about how best to pleasure her. Had I brought up a discussion about my sexual prowess and coitus interruptus, they would probably have thrown me out of the sixth floor window to my well-deserved death. After approximately a year, they resigned themselves to the fact that their daughter was an adult and could make up her own mind. There is the small detail that Nessi was 31 by then, but nevermind.

[mies]

At a restaurant mom will take the parsley off her and A's plate and give it to me since parsley is good for a man's libido. She tells me I should eat it everyday when I go back home. Another RW I once dated gave me her parsley too. How many RW have taken parsley off their plate and passed it to you in an effort to show they care about your performance?

"PARSLEY SIDE EFFECTS AND CAUTIONS

Parsley oil may cause dermatitis in some people. The oil is very toxic and should only be handled by professionals.
Parsley is occasionally used in large amounts for medicinal purposes. If you are pregnant, you should not take such large amounts, as parsley is a uterine stimulant. Individuals suffering from inflammatory kidney disease should also refrain from using large amounts of parsley." (http://www.herbs2000.com/herbs/herbs_parsley.htm)

I'm sure as a doctor or nurse, A's mom knows about effect and risks of regular consumption of large amounts of parsley. So as a good medical worker, she should probably at least try giving you an idea on what amounts are safe, or dangerous. Did she?

[Gylden]

Here is an excerpt from the web site you make reference to mies.

"Although it is not commonly eaten in quantity, parsley herb is a good natural source of carotene (provitamin A), vitamins B1, B2, and C, as well as iron and other minerals. Parsley is therefore a good nutrient, especially when combined with bulgur and other ingredients in the tasty Lebanese salad, tabbouleh, but as a medication, the herb is of little worth."

I wonder what they mean when they say "large amounts"?