Life Changes...Part Deux

[Muzh]

Really nice pics Billy.  She looks happy in her new life.  I do think on of the advantages of younger women is they adapt better to a life change.  It sounds like things are running smoothly and hopefully she will find the happiness that she dreamed of.
 
I do think if a relationship or move to be with a man has problems they start early and just get worse as time goes along.  It sounds like there are no problems yet so that is most likely a good sign.

Boy TG, I really hope for their sake you are correct. My observations so far have been quite the opposite. I'm referring to teenage girls marrying older men.

[Hammer2722]

Great to see that A is adjusting well Billy. Her smile says it all. I think more than anyone it will be you that will wear yourself out trying to make sure she is ok. Relax. One thing that FSU women are good at is telling you whats on their mind. 

[ML]

Thanks for sharing the pics Billy.  In the last photo, she looks somewhat like Taylor Swift who is on about every TV show now.

Her big smile tell alot about how she is feeling being with you.  Can't fake that type of smile.

And congrats on your Photo Shop skills for your fantasy also.  Pretty neat superimposing her pic over that of the Seattle Space Needle!!   

[Avis]

OMG is she even 15? 

[OlgaH]

What place a woman has in a man's heart and life when the man says:

If she leaves me over a few words said here, then it's her loss. I can go back to a robust dating life and someday come back and amaze people with another wonderful woman.

I guess it is not so important place. She is not first and not last in the life of manly man with narcissistic machismo  who only tries to amaze and impress people 

   Still cheaper then marriage 

Do you think BillyB has something valuable to lose?     Sure Ukrainian virgins are already piled up 


Bear you are so to the point saying

BillyB's problem s no one can love him as much as he loves himself.

Yes BillyB I have done my share of investigations into a variety of criminal activities and usually when I am interviewing/interrogating someone and I smell B.S I gather the facts then I call them on it...
 
 Recently you come across as arrogant, pompous and egotistical- you like to brag and boast about your accomplishments and conquests, you like to tell everyone that you are the greatest thing since sliced bread and god's gift to the female population- this tells me you want attention...
 
 There is a difference between confidence and bragging and in my experience I have found that the truely confident men do not need to brag about themselves in order to impress others.   

Recalling some of Billy's posts  on sex I also recall Erich Fromm :"Very often if the masculine character traits of a man are weakened because emotionally he has remained a child, he will try to compensate for this lack by the exclusive emphasis on his male role in sex."

Yes, Bear, a mature person will look for a mature partner, when immaturity will seek satisfaction of  lack of maturity in a less experienced and more immature partner.   

[Turboguy]

Boy TG, I really hope for their sake you are correct. My observations so far have been quite the opposite. I'm referring to teenage girls marrying older men.

I was not referring to teen aged girls marrying older men, rather expressing my belief that the younger someone is the easier it is for them to adapt to a different life.  Most young children for example don't even have an accent after a few years where an older person may have trouble even becoming conversant in a new language. 
 
As far as the age difference and her age I have no problems with it but it is not something I would recommend.   Of course some of the more negative people might actually think that A shows more maturity than Billy so perhaps the age difference is more perceived than real.  Again, to me it is his business and her business and I am more than willing to just wish them a happy life together. 

[Muzh]

OMG is she even 15? 

It's been said she was once seventeen.

[Muzh]

As far as the age difference and her age I have no problems with it but it is not something I would recommend.   Of course some of the more negative people might actually think that A shows more maturity than Billy so perhaps the age difference is more perceived than real.  Again, to me it is his business and her business and I am more than willing to just wish them a happy life together.

TG, I don't think this is a negative expression nor people doing a put down. I think this is how some people veiw it. Actually, percieve it. I believe it to true. We'll see in February 2014.

[pitbull]

 
So far no crying and I suspect I won't see it from A unless I turn into a monster. Her cooking needs improvement but she tries. I'm going to have to be patient on this issue.

How about sex? Does she need lots of training and improvement? Have you introduced her to the ball-grabbing technique yet? Was she a virgin, as promised?
 
Inquiring minds need to know 

[Hammer2722]

How about sex? Does she need lots of training and improvement? Have you introduced her to the ball-grabbing technique yet? Was she a virgin, as promised?
 
Inquiring minds need to know 

I think Dan has already stated the need to keep the sexual details out of the thread. Or were you not reading?

[OlgaH]

Pitbull, do not excite his sexual imagination and fantasies in public     

[pitbull]

I think Dan has already stated the need to keep the sexual details out of the thread. Or were you not reading?

I think Billy really wants to tell us. Do you really want to deny him the pleasure and glory of a full report?

[Nat]

I think Dan has already stated the need to keep the sexual details out of the thread. Or were you not reading?

She isn't asking for graphic details, she's asking about a very important piece of information! I'd also like to hear a few words on this topic Billy dedicated a lot of time talking about this stuff and his story won't be complete without updates on this topic as well!!!

[pitbull]

She isn't asking for graphic details, she's asking about a very important piece of information! I'd also like to hear a few words on this topic Billy dedicated a lot of time talking about this stuff and his story won't be complete without updates on this topic as well!!!

Exactly, sister!
No graphic details necessary, just answer my questions BillyB. You see how RW of this forum want to know?

[Muzh]

LMFAO
 
 

[Ranetka]

Yes!
 
I want to know if the relationship has been consummated and also if the famous eye-opening technique of ball grabbing had been succesfully applied

[kmin]

How about sex? Does she need lots of training and improvement? Have you introduced her to the ball-grabbing technique yet? Was she a virgin, as promised?
 
Inquiring minds need to know 

Can't help but wonder  if this is really a woman talking here ^^^^^^    Only know guys to talk like this.


Note:  A man walks on very thin ice when he talks about another mans wife and sex in the same sentence.

[Ranetka]

Note:  A man walks on very thin ice when he talks about another mans wife and sex in the same sentence.

BillyB put his fiance, MIL and sex in the same sentence plenty of times, he should not be surprised now.

[Faux Pas]

Can't help but wonder  if this is really a woman talking here ^^^^^^    Only know guys to talk like this.


Note:  A man walks on very thin ice when he talks about another mans wife and sex in the same sentence.

pitbull is indeed a woman, a RW, I have no doubt. Billy initiated the ball fondling, other sexual discussions and the inclusion of the RW on the forum to this thread, he has commented at length as to their positions or his feeling as to their positions. Billy opened that door, he'll now have to close it or let them continue to go through it.


I would remind all however, do not let this get obscene.

[OlgaH]

LMFAO
 
 

just keep your popcorn away from the screen and get extra clorox wipes just in case 

[kmin]

pitbull is indeed a woman, a RW, I have no doubt. Billy initiated the ball fondling, other sexual discussions and the inclusion of the RW on the forum to this thread, he has commented at length as to their positions or his feeling as to their positions. Billy opened that door, he'll now have to close it or let them continue to go through it.


I would remind all however, do not let this get obscene.

   Ah ok, now it makes sense.  ^^^^^    sorry pitbull didn't mean to ? you, I understand now your post.


Billy,

Really dude, what you and your wife do in the bedroom is a private thing and if you expect to have a happy marriage you should stop with the details.  If you need more fun, just rent a couple of porns and do a "simons' says" session where both of you do what they do in the porn, that should open things up to all kinds of different ways of being physical.

As to your relationship; the biggest risk I see from her age is typically women change in wants, expectations, and life goals from the age of 16 to 22 and again from 22 to 25.  You should be receptive to these changes and be flexible as she grows into a mature woman.  Other than that you two appear to be doing well together, just remember to Love and Cherish her, (that includes you respecting her completely). 

From some of your posts it appears you are "more into the physical side and if things don't work out between you to then oh well" (paraphrasing)  Not a good attitude toward your wife who you should be planning on being with for life.

Once the passion wears off there must be something deeper to bond the two of you in a spiritual way.  This is done through the pillars of marriage "Trust, Endurance, Commitment, and Oneness."  You must fully let go of the me, I  and replace it with Us, We, the family.

Wish you two all the best and hope you have a happy life together.

[BillyB]

Wow, she will be good looking when she grows up. But she doesn't look like your daughter though, for obvious reasons. Who is she? The daughter of a friend?

Read on Andrew, read on. You're a smart guy. It won't take you long to figure this out.
 

I think more than anyone it will be you that will wear yourself out trying to make sure she is ok. Relax.

Yeah, I was worried A was going to go into culture shock and I'm the one that's mentally drained by worrying too much. A has assimilated into American culture with no problems. She's tough. I should have known. Thinking back, I remember when she had to evacuate Libya and lost everything, she soon sent me photos which I posted here, smiling and enjoying the snow in Ukraine.
 

One thing that FSU women are good at is telling you whats on their mind. 

RW can be direct with their thoughts. A does that to me. I've taken her to a few restaurants and asked her to try various foods and she said "I'm not hungry and I will tell you when I want to eat what I offer. I tell her "I don't care if you're not hungry but at least take a bite of some of my food for the experience and maybe you'll find some things you want to order in the future.
 

she looks somewhat like Taylor Swift who is on about every TV show now.

I don't watch much tv but I checked out Taylor's photos and A does look similiar to her.
 

How about sex? Does she need lots of training and improvement? Have you introduced her to the ball-grabbing technique yet? Was she a virgin, as promised?
 
Inquiring minds need to know 

I'd also like to hear a few words on this topic Billy dedicated a lot of time talking about this stuff and his story won't be complete without updates on this topic as well!!!

Yes!
 
I want to know if the relationship has been consummated and also if the famous eye-opening technique of ball grabbing had been succesfully applied

Ladies...Calm down!!!
 
I promised Dan to back off the talk so you have to register your complaints with him. As for now you are free to use your imagination and most likely everything is as you imagine.    Keep in mind, you haven't made any promises to Dan so please share your first experience, your feelings and what happened in detail. Inquiring minds need to know plus your experience will be educational!
 

As to your relationship; the biggest risk I see from her age is typically women change in wants, expectations, and life goals from the age of 16 to 22 and again from 22 to 25.  You should be receptive to these changes and be flexible as she grows into a mature woman.  Other than that you two appear to be doing well together, just remember to Love and Cherish her, (that includes you respecting her completely). 

From some of your posts it appears you are "more into the physical side and if things don't work out between you to then oh well" (paraphrasing)  Not a good attitude toward your wife who you should be planning on being with for life.

Once the passion wears off there must be something deeper to bond the two of you in a spiritual way.  This is done through the pillars of marriage "Trust, Endurance, Commitment, and Oneness."  You must fully let go of the me, I  and replace it with Us, We, the family.

Wish you two all the best and hope you have a happy life together.

Thanks for your thoughts Kmin. Earlier in this thread some of us did talk about how young people change especially as they grow towards 25 yo. I'm aware of the risks but I also know A has some strong personal and religious convictions about marriage so I'm not worried she's going to trash the marriage for selfish reasons. She's also a good person and good people tend to change for the better as they grow.
 
I'm not into the physical side of things as much as you think. I've talk about it because RW have talked about it with me and I know it's important to them. It's certainly not talked about much on the forum. I've also talked about the qualities in a woman I like and I'm probably one of the few guys who can marry a woman based on her inner beauty alone minus sex.

[Nat]

Ladies...Calm down!!!
 
I promised Dan to back off the talk so you have to register your complaints with him. As for now you are free to use your imagination and most likely everything is as you imagine.     

Now that's mean of you, Billy!!! Did you also promise not to PM any updates on this topic to those who asks?

[pitbull]

 I promised Dan to back off the talk so you have to register your complaints with him. As for now you are free to use your imagination and most likely everything is as you imagine. 

Aha, the manly man has chickened out! After all the great built-up for this of the story! I can only imagine things are far from great in the sex department.
 
Dan only asked not to include "graphic details of sex play". I'm asking for a general update, no details 

[BC]

Yeah, I was worried A was going to go into culture shock and I'm the one that's mentally drained by worrying too much. A has assimilated into American culture with no problems. She's tough. I should have known. Thinking back, I remember when she had to evacuate Libya and lost everything, she soon sent me photos which I posted here, smiling and enjoying the snow in Ukraine. 

Just remember that the assimilation / adjustment process is a long one and not just the first few days, weeks or even months.