Blondie thoughts about everything....

[Sia]

I guess everyone gets in what believe .
I do not believe in this site and did not believe in the effectiveness of online dating sites. Most likely in my version this would not work. What I did not come out of print, or if I am just not an attractive object for men, or something else ...

[Gator]

I met my wife thanks to mamba  However, it does require that you be proactive and send out large numbers of messages and that you be capable of sifting through profiles to find good people. In other words, it requires time and effort.

And how many men know the Russian language as well as you?  Imagine if one had to rely on electronic translation.

[LAman]

no Mamba,,,,its catastrophe

Mamba, mamba,mamba....tooooooo much time and effort to be asked for $$$$. Many girls just cut out the middle man.
I wonder how many girls there would really be interested in a foreigner? Great site to socialize and in my case to practice russian language. Only met 1 girl worth anything. There is a saying, you get what you pay for! 

[Gator]

...or if I am just not an attractive object for men ...

Sia, you are a fine looking woman, very attractive.  Even the simplest photo will reveal such.  What you do not want to be is an attractive "object."  Intelligent women do not want to be objectified.

Consider how many men converse with you here without trying to get into your panties.  You intrigue them.  I would think you would want someone who intrigues and stimulates your mind as you do to his.  Physical attraction is very important, yet not as important as being able to talk-talk-talk with someone, to have fun, to share dreams, and to build a life together.

If you are not shy, perhaps you should share with Misha and others the past narratives you have written about yourself.  Frankly, if a man only takes 30 seconds  to read your profile, you could come off as bizarre if not spacey, and he would miss your fascinating and enlivened free spirit.  

[Maxx2]

 Frankly, if a man only takes 30 seconds  to read your profile, you could come off as bizarre if not spacey, and he would miss your fascinating and enlivened free spirit.  

That was the impression I got when I read it, "There is no good and bad in the universe". That all one has to do to make something happen is to think it is so. It has a 'New Age' mystical quality about it. Practical men want a potential wife who is rock bottom practical. They think if a woman is a etherial butterfly she might someday fly off at the slightest wind in their marriage.

[Misha]

And how many men know the Russian language as well as you?  Imagine if one had to rely on electronic translation.

Same principle, you will merely have to send many more messages to find those women who speak your language. Success requires effort

[Shostakovich]

That was the impression I got when I read it, "There is no good and bad in the universe". That all one has to do to make something happen is to think it is so. It has a 'New Age' mystical quality about it. Practical men want a potential wife who is rock bottom practical. They think if a woman is a etherial butterfly she might someday fly off at the slightest wind in their marriage.

I did not get a chance to read the profile but agree here, though at the same time think Sia guns for an odd pocket.  My guess is she is not going to be happy with a 'practical man' with monkey-wrench and boy-scout mentality.  Perhaps it is a bit difficult to reconcile ones self to the fact that not many in the world are really going to be a good match.  That is the thing about the 'road less traveled': It's less traveled.  That's the deal though, and if you look at the lives of creative people, isolation is a gauntlet they all run.  Good and sad news is - once you succeed then everyone wants to be like you.  Fear of loneliness is really a powerful motivator.

[Misha]

I guess everyone gets in what believe .

What you get out of life is dependent on the effort you put into life.

I do not believe in this site and did not believe in the effectiveness of online dating sites.

Online sites are a tool to meet people you would not otherwise meet in life. It should not be the only method used, but it can be a useful method.

Most likely in my version this would not work. What I did not come out of print, or if I am just not an attractive object for men, or something else ...

The thing is, you have to kiss (metaphorically) a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. You have to contact/meet many men before you meet one man who will be right for you. You can't expect to meet one man and have him be the one, nor can a man contact/meet one woman and expect to live happily ever after. Rarely does life work that way 

[Sia]

People Hello! This is me again!
Have a question....very very important to me.
Soon.. here in my place I will meet My Special Man,yes yes yes-pls NO applauses.
Question!
ta-ta-tammmmm!
I want to make for him something special,something fantastic,something miricale!!
Have some idea but not sure this is will be enough?
he Is American...from South part and I like him ..really like.
There are a couple of options, kidnapping(lol), and bringing the Spa for relaxing treatments, then a romantic dinner at an expensive restaurant with the Russian national cuisine. The second option-do all the things that he himself will propose to do, excursions, walks, movies, dinner, just be his little grumom.And on  the next day to spend time outdoors with friends and bbq
my brain blow up aghrrrrrr

[Rubicon]

definitely spa and romantic dinner!!

[Faux Pas]

Pack a good lunch, pick up a few bottles of piva and take him to a banya for an afternoon

[Sia]

Pack a good lunch, pick up a few bottles of piva and take him to a banya for an afternoon

about Russian Banya...Im not sure,.;(
I have a friend she is married for a long time on American Gentleman and she said-YUlia, NO WAY<u will kill him LOL

[Sia]

definitely spa and romantic dinner!!

well:) I will try dont forget about your favors:)friend

[Faux Pas]

about Russian Banya...Im not sure,.;(
I have a friend she is married for a long time on American Gentleman and she said-YUlia, NO WAY<u will kill him LOL

Well there's plenty to do in Tomsk, you can entertain him I'm sure  . I enjoyed the banya. If it is any consolation, I am American and from the South. You might be surprised

[Sia]

oh yeah
I impressed...well...if the South Gentleman said that-I will pick up him with me in real Russian Banya.My grandfather made it mor then 18 y ago.We will go to my native place for exotic things-Taiga,Banya,Russian Vodka and Russian Borsh and Pirogki

[Faux Pas]

oh yeah
I impressed...well...if the South Gentleman said that-I will pick up him with me in real Russian Banya.My grandfather made it mor then 18 y ago.We will go to my native place for exotic things-Taiga,Banya,Russian Vodka and Russian Borsh and Pirogki

Now if he doesn't enjoy that, theres something wrong with him.   

[Sia]

I dont know
life so strange and not nice with me last years and I not assured about I will do all the right?

[Rubicon]

Make sure he puts a towel on his head if you take him to a Banya.  We have an authentic Russian Banya here where I live and it is HOT!!  Much hotter than American saunas.  I was there with a guy from Norway and he warned me, put a towel on your head or your brains will fry!!

[Rubicon]

I dont know
life so strange and not nice with me last years and I not assured about I will do all the right?

Don't worry, be happy!!  You will have a wonderful time...

[Sia]

Make sure he puts a towel on his head if you take him to a Banya.  We have an authentic Russian Banya here where I live and it is HOT!!  Much hotter than American saunas.  I was there with a guy from Norway and he warned me, put a towel on your head or your brains will fry!!

Can I ask you?
what did u doin wi Norg man in banya)))))lol

[Rubicon]

Can I ask you?
what did u doin wi Norg man in banya)))))lol

ha ha.  We were talking about women, if you must know.  I told him I was in love with a certain Julia from Russia with love...  but it was unrequited.

[Sia]

Very very funny joke. Its not true.And u are never loved her(this Yulia from Russia).
I suppose U only making jokes about her FB list and comments and nothing more,Im right?

[Daveman]

ha ha.  We were talking about women, if you must know.  I told him I was in love with a certain Julia from Russia with love...  but it was unrequited.

But, did they beat you with the tree branches?       


Sia, if this is your first meeting with this gentleman, I'll say to you the same as I would say to any of the guys... be yourself, be natural, take him to do and see things *you* enjoy doing so he'll get to know the real you in person..  relax... it's just a strange and adventurous first date.

[Rubicon]

Very very funny joke. Its not true.And u are never loved her(this Yulia from Russia).
I suppose U only making jokes about her FB list and comments and nothing more,Im right?

I don't know what you are talking about!!  she's actually from Ukraine, and I was in lust with her!!  I mean love!!

[Sia]

But, did they beat you with the tree branches?       


Sia, if this is your first meeting with this gentleman, I'll say to you the same as I would say to any of the guys... be yourself, be natural, take him to do and see things *you* enjoy doing so he'll get to know the real you in person..  relax... it's just a strange and adventurous first date.

Actually I know him for a long long time.We have met each other in Cancun last January at vacation.Had been there at the same hotel.
Life so interesting sometimes.We continue our friendship after come back home and now he will be here like a special guest.This is why I SO WORRY!He is not virtual BF or just a nice man.I want to make celebration  for his name here:)