Operation White Panther

[ML]

Surprising that not even some English.

I think Putin even became fairly good with English.

Maybe he will be looking for an English gal.
Does he have enough money to meet the minimum standards?

[krimster2]

so Pat, is "mostly English" the language you two communicate with?
what about in the future?

if she lives in Francaise, she'll have to be a "Fransuska"
what's yur plan for that?

I speak Amer-Russ
another patois language I know

I taught my wife essential English, like "bring me a beer"
proper training is important

[Patagonie]

Surprising that not even some English.

I think Putin even became fairly good with English.

Maybe he will be looking for an English gal.
Does he have enough money to meet the minimum standards?

 

[Patagonie]

so Pat, is "mostly English" the language you two communicate with?
what about in the future?

if she lives in Francaise, she'll have to be a "Fransuska"
what's yur plan for that?

I speak Amer-Russ
another patois language I know

I taught my wife essential English, like "bring me a beer"
proper training is important

 
No
NO
 
English? Not a word
   
No only Russian.
   
I am still improving my Russian language. 
Hoping I will make make some significant progress in the next months. 
I have restarted some lessons. I hope to have at least 20.   
My vocabulary is better but my weakness is the verbs. I lack a lot of them. 
And still making mistakes in the cases. For the moment I have skipped perfective and imperfective, that's a real PIA. 
 
Krim, I don't make plan, I don't plan anything. Since page 68 I keep repeating this. Except the next line.
I am just aiming stage 3 and work on stage 3. Nothing more, and enjoy my life day by day.

[Patagonie]

The only thing that I plan for the future, for certainty, 
is to bring my Russian level to a B2, which means a real proficiency communicating in Russian
especially during conversation. 
Of course proficiency depends on the topic and associated vocabulary. 
That's the real deal in the future. 
Something I have always wanted.   
   
I remind everyone that this story would have never start me not speaking Russian. 
Simply because my ad was half Russian/English and she would have discarded me in less than 3 seconds if it was not with some Russian and me telling "I am ready to live between 2 or 3 countries".   
     
Of course it offers the most complete world you cannot even imagine in the dating sphere.
Because now you can meet any FSU women, even the ones who were not considering foreigners (basically most FSU women are not considering foreigners). 
Because of this ability you can live, full time or part time, everywhere in the FSU countries, and have a relationship with anyone.   
Additionally, all the dating industry, and that's a prerequisite, MUST speak English (I have spent enough time studying their business). So when you leave the English path you therefore statistically leave of lot of potential issues. 
   
To tell you more, girls who speak English have less power and control on you because you could "escape", because you instantly could broaden your dating scene. How do I know? Reactions of girls. It happens to me at least twice. THEY KNOW.I just had the chance to catch the reaction and to understand it. 
   
Additionally you are more attractive. There are interested to know why you speak some of their language. 
And there also something else. It's far easier to be not labelled as a "sex tourist". 
   
I cannot encourage more to learn Russian. Especially the youngest. 
Start now!!!
You think that you smarter and skip this by just coming and "stealing" a lady? This journey will be far longer than you think. Additionally learning the language is a plus for your work, not speaking about traveling.

[krimster2]

as you have noted, if yur "lingua franca" isn't YOUR language, it puts YOU at a disadvantage
in addition, it also puts extra burdens on you while removing them from her

I hope Monsier Willy appreciates all the sacrifices you make on his behalf

you better figure out how to get some Russian Channels on yur TV or she's gonna be bored out of her mind
worst case UTube has a lot of Russian shows I watch, starry kino, etc, try those
I have no idea what kinda cable or satellite TV ya'll got there, other than Brigitte Bardot stuff
can you imagine meeting someone like the 1956 Brigitte Bardot? hmmmmmmmmm
I would "lose it" if a Francophone who looked like Brigitte was flirting with me

and, how is she gonna go to the market, and do the shopping?
drive, etc
if yur gonna have a long term relationship IN FRANCE
she has a lotta stuff to learn and do

also note, your maison better be "white glove clean" or you will learn new Russian words
very...unpleasant ones

PS
sooner or later, YOU HAVE to make plans...
I can see where at the moment, due to so much uncertainty, NOW isn't the time

but someday...

how does her VISA work?
can she travel to EU states as well
what about French Territories, like Tahiti and French Guyana?


FROM each, according to their ability
TO each, according to their need

Russians understand this concept...for some reason...

BTW, last time I tried to get a VISA for a Russian woman for the USA it was REJECTED
first time that ever happened to me...and I KNOW I did the VISA application "correctly" becuz previous ones all sailed through

you might wanna check "le Google" to see if there's some "current" issues with Russians getting visas pour Francaise
of course she'll blame YOU if this gets tossed at the French Embassy...merde!!!

[Patagonie]

as you have noted, if yur "lingua franca" isn't YOUR language, it puts YOU at a disadvantage
in addition, it also puts extra burdens on you while removing them from her

I hope Monsier Willy appreciates all the sacrifices you make on his behalf

you better figure out how to get some Russian Channels on yur TV or she's gonna be bored out of her mind
worst case UTube has a lot of Russian shows I watch, starry kino, etc, try those
I have no idea what kinda cable or satellite TV ya'll got there, other than Brigitte Bardot stuff
can you imagine meeting someone like the 1956 Brigitte Bardot? hmmmmmmmmm
I would "lose it" if a Francophone who looked like Brigitte was flirting with me

and, how is she gonna go to the market, and do the shopping?
drive, etc
if yur gonna have a long term relationship IN FRANCE
she has a lotta stuff to learn and do

also note, your maison better be "white glove clean" or you will learn new Russian words
very...unpleasant ones

PS
sooner or later, YOU HAVE to make plans...
I can see where at the moment, due to so much uncertainty, NOW isn't the time

but someday...

how does her VISA work?
can she travel to EU states as well
what about French Territories, like Tahiti and French Guyana?


FROM each, according to their ability
TO each, according to their need

Russians understand this concept...for some reason...

BTW, last time I tried to get a VISA for a Russian woman for the USA it was REJECTED
first time that ever happened to me...and I KNOW I did the VISA application "correctly" becuz previous ones all sailed through

you might wanna check "le Google" to see if there's some "current" issues with Russians getting visas pour Francaise
of course she'll blame YOU if this gets tossed at the French Embassy...merde!!!

 
Yep don't speaking French in France is a big disadvantage knowing the low proficiency Frenches have in foreign languages.
   
But who have talked here about a LTR in France? 
   
I don't read any post like this since page 68. 
   
I don't receive any channels in my house.
   
The 4K TV I have is exclusively for films and for displaying the computer on a larger screen.
   
There are better things to do with a woman when the light is off. 
   
Plan is simple: organize stage 3. When stage 3 is completed, time to figure out stage 4 (already figure out this one, I will return to Thailand whatever happens in stage 3). 
I don't see any reason to masturbate my head with the future. You don't think about the future, the future is to have a relationship with this woman and to make her emotionally focusing on you and assess if you are compatible. 
         
The visa starts after tomorrow dropping my documents to the local city hall, so soon I will retrieve the private invitation, first step for the visa itself. 
I am communicating with her to prepare all, because it's not when you are about the interview in the embassy that's time to figure out how to translate the documents.
I know what they want to know in the Consulate and what they also don't want to see, so I am preparing this visa with the details accordingly. 
   
Now there is a risk, the political risk, I heard from a friend that Russians are not welcomed. But he hasn't specific. He will call me soon I think .
Visa for the Schengen space don't allow you to go to the US. So that should be a different visa, and I would have to deal with the US local embassy. That's not the case.
 
Concerning Tahiti and French Guyana the visa is a little different, these territories are not embedded the same in the Schengen space, France has more sovereignty I believe.   
 
   
"BTW, last time I tried to get a VISA for a Russian woman for the USA it was REJECTED
first time that ever happened to me...and I KNOW I did the VISA application "correctly" becuz previous ones all sailed through"
Is that happened after the war had started?   
"also note, your maison better be "white glove clean" or you will learn new Russian words
very...unpleasant ones" 
Yep you are right of this one, I will take care of this of course. 

[krimster2]

yur own...personal.... Maginot line...to keep the world out...
they shall not pass
well...you know what happened right?

impressive fortifications are nice...but....
you also need to let each person have their own personal space
plus, nothing will teach her French better than French TV
I'm addicted to the show where they bring out a person who has a secret admirer
very emotional
plus I like Alizée Bardot, etc c'est le bombe

oui, rejected visa was after Ukraine war
no explanation...just no

if Every man has two countries - his own and France
and you already be livin in France HOMEBOY!
so why you leavin?
grass is greener...some other place...?

cyprus, spain?
both are nice
cyprus has good mountains, even skiing!!!!!
at Lake Tahoe you can look down slope and see this big blue lake
in Cyprus, it's the MED!!!!

be careful of the Russians there, stick with the Anglaise...mostly retired teachers and the like

this woman of yurs, does she have "hobbies" "interests" that you observed in yur time with her?
if so, you need to facilitate that for her in France

I'm sure without any doubt you are a much better lover than Cassanova, yur French, you got a reputation to uphold
but...
other than those 10 minutes...
what's she gonna do?

cool stuff to do where ya live?
cool stuff to see?

French lifestyle stuff like restraunts, fashion (beaucoup euros in France, 5000 euros for a child's jacket, but WOW!!)
Giverney, Monaco....
how far are you from a train station?

are you going to introduce her to yur mates, family?
will she be bringing one child with her, or will she stay in Russland

tell us...more...
I'm not really totally ready to give you my approval YET
unless you fill in the missing pieces
and give Willy some kinda Willy tranquilizer, to calm him down

d'accord! you French, truly do live up to yur "hot blooded" stereotype
I thought it was some kinda myth, like which cheese stinks the most, and it's some cheese nobody ever heard of
and it was actually just a madeup name

[Patagonie]

Krim.   
I have lived abroad until my 19 most of the time. I like my country but as the time passes by she makes me sick more and more.
So moving from a country to another and spending time abroad if the real stuff.Spain is very nice, Chypre is an island I don't know. But they all belong to the Schengen space, they don't help
with the problem of visas today if your FSU lady is from Russia.
Also as much as possible you don't want to marry in any western country nowadays and that includes the Schengen space most of the time.   
   
If everything is ok she should come alone for two weeks. She will have a whole floor for her so everything will be very comfortable.and she will feel no pressure. I bring a lot of information to make her comfortable and secure.
And you are right, one of the way to do this is to send her some personal stuff. Maybe I sent not enough in the beginning.     
We didn't spend time enough to assess deeply what she is looking for. But she is curious and that's a very good thing. She wants to know more about the art of wine and she wants to explore mountains and nature.
   
So I wrote a crazy program that I cannot detail but basically here are the lines:   
The first days will happen around my place because she will be tired and suffer from 6 hours jetlag.   
And to go on the next stages she needs to get some training with electric scooter and motorbike.    So we have exploring one day an historical city aside a lake and visiting a castel hold by the same family for 27 generations.We have a whole day including nice restaurant, visiting one of the most medieval important catholic center, then visiting a prehistoric cave, than testing wine on a boat.   
We are going to visit another castle nearby which is entirely furnished (quite rare)Visiting with electric scooter the biggest city 30 km away from me. The same in Paris with the Art Modern museum, Trocadero, Tour Effeil, Champs Elysées, plus two little museums about the French mode and normally we cross (if the weather is good enough) with electric scooter most of the interesting places (quartier du Marais, Jardin de Bagatelle, Petite Trianon, Ile de la cité and so on) on an axis East - West back and fourth.
The bonus could be a promenade with a boat that navigates on the Seine
 
There is also a full day in the Alpes exploring the highest roads and lakes in motorbike. 
I want to come back on how riding motorbike with a woman is speeding everything between you and her. And that's not an Harley that close to a sport bike. The ones who ride know. 
   
And after we will leave for at least five days in the center of France. So one night in the tent is scheduled beside a lake at 1000 altitude meters. One day of canoe on a wild river. Hiking in the moutains. Visiting Albi, his incredible cathedral, Toulouse-Lautrec museum, riding  some funny hand car on a railway, visiting some little chapelles lost in the hills, jumping from rocks to another along the river, bathing  ....   
   
I am 1 hour and 40 mn away from Paris by fast train and 35 minutes from an international airport. 
 Fashion is not part of the french life style, that just a pure product for exportation. If you want to see women beautiful dressed go to Russia or Ukraine. Not FranceThe same for Monaco, Cannes, there is nothing to do, nothing to see except the aquarium in Monaco which is worth of a visit.   
Monace is Monaco, it's not France. It's a small area for fortunate people. So if you are not fortunate you better to not waste your time. 
Fortunate people spend their money in the same shops and same malls all over the world, I don't see here any specific difference related to the culture of the country.

I am sure that she has only dated few, and I would say very few men in her life, all Russian. It gives me a large spectrum of ways to explore. Sexuality included. Yes we have a reputation and for the moment she seems to like the way I push seducing her. There is the cultural bonus, she could had been repelled if it had been done by a Russian guy, but I am not.
So I am gonna to take my time to explore her body and raise the temperature in her panty before removing it. I need to do a mix between taking my time so she is enough ready, arouse her as much as possible, approached her conventionally but make unexpected stuff also. 
But you know, women can surprise you because you never know what to really expect in the sex department, they are very different and they unveil themselves the last moment. 
   
When, during the first meeting, I told her that I could organize a party during her time being, she seemed reluctant.Lets say I don't mind to introduce her to people I know, but the first thing is to have a relationship.

[krimster2]

the motorbike is great
my "touring" bike was a Moto Guzi, opposing cylinders like a BMW, and a SHAFT DRIVE
customized with a more comfortable "bitch seat" designed for two and a small luggage carrier
high end italian cars and motorcycles have very smooth mechanics that I really like, but are not "robust"
so ya have to be a "tinkerer"

long ago I took my girlfriend (a "nature" girl) on a North-South ride through the Sierras - took 2 days
we camped overnight in the forest

my wife's idea of "roughing it" is to stay at a "four star" instead of a five star
"somebody" spoiled her

I like yur style Frenchman, too bad you guys lost yur North American war with the English
course, if you won, we'd have Napoleonic law now, which would suck!
cuz I'm ALWAYS guilty

[ML]

So I am gonna to take my time to explore her body and raise the temperature in her panty before removing it.

I have indoor/outdoor thermometers in my houses.
Leave a sensor outdoors in the shade (use lithium batteries for all weather performance), and you can read that temperature indoors as well as in actual indoor temperature.

So put one of these sensors in her panties . . . then you can observe temperature there conveniently.

[krimster2]

you can check body temp for a fever, however you want
my wife presses her lips against my forehead to check MY temp
forehead, foreskin amputation stub, it's all the same really

[Patagonie]

the motorbike is great
my "touring" bike was a Moto Guzi, opposing cylinders like a BMW, and a SHAFT DRIVE
customized with a more comfortable "bitch seat" designed for two and a small luggage carrier
high end italian cars and motorcycles have very smooth mechanics that I really like, but are not "robust"
so ya have to be a "tinkerer"

long ago I took my girlfriend (a "nature" girl) on a North-South ride through the Sierras - took 2 days
we camped overnight in the forest

my wife's idea of "roughing it" is to stay at a "four star" instead of a five star
"somebody" spoiled her

I like yur style Frenchman, too bad you guys lost yur North American war with the English
course, if you won, we'd have Napoleonic law now, which would suck!
cuz I'm ALWAYS guilty

     
I am aware that going into one night in a tent into the wild with a woman from Moscow could be a NO NO but, she will tell later about this. You can trust them if they dislike, they will tell you.
Now, is she accepts the challenge, means that she is open to new experiences.
There are two type of people, the ones who always try to keep every on the same lane to avoid discomfort   
And the other ones who are ready to move out their comfort zone.   We will figure out this summer in which kind of metal she has been forged.

[Patagonie]

I got her on the phone directly, which is a kind of new record 
And I needed to call a Russian female friend I know here in France to sort out 
a little bit what to expect about the flights between Moscow/France 
Someone else also helped me to figure out. 
So basically we have connections from Pegasus/Turkish Airlines/Erevan airlines
 
The way-points are Erevan, Tbilissi, Istanbul and Belgrade and it seems that there is a line 
between Moscow and my city during the summer passing by Erevan. 
 There are many obstacles, one of them is the stupid reservation for flights.
   
And of course, Russians are not on the top of the list so I hope that the one who will supervise 
the visa at the French Embassy will not screw up my request.

[Patagonie]

I have indoor/outdoor thermometers in my houses.
Leave a sensor outdoors in the shade (use lithium batteries for all weather performance), and you can read that temperature indoors as well as in actual indoor temperature.
 
So put one of these sensors in her panties . . . then you can observe temperature there conveniently.

There are some mystery around this science.   
My ex was already at the right temperature just touching her few seconds.   
I remember a female friend I met, she cheated on her boyfriend with a guy who just touched her behind the knee and she was already wet, and she get laid in a sort of premise where you store wine bottles a little after. Premise who was located in a bar full of people.     
Another female witness told me that one girl came in a bar while people have gone and very quickly the action took place on the desk, something like that.       
That's very personal         
But I suppose that ML can describe at least one hundred ways women behave in this department

[krimster2]

wait...
you don't know yet, which kind she is....

it's risky to try and force a square person into a round hole

[Patagonie]

wait...
you don't know yet, which kind she is....

it's risky to try and force a square person into a round hole

   
это лучше делать оборот

[Patagonie]

So now I have considerably cooled down now about this story. 
     
I came back to the communication we had had (it doesn't take so long) and jump on something I didn't really notice before.
   
And this one is really curious, she wrote (or she copied it from a translation) in English. The solely time she wrote a whole sentence in English was this time.   
And the reason was simple. 
 I was asking about the "friend" who came for two weeks, and at the time I was writing this "friend" should have already left.
And the reason why she used English (so she knows probably more than she wants to confess IMHO or she got some advice from someone) is that in English you cannot know if friend is masculine of feminine. 
Russian don't allow such thing, you mandatory use a whole feminine pronoun+noun or a whole masculine pronoun+noun. 
Even in French we have a feminine or masculine form, at least for the noun. 
       
So a man came between our two meetings.   
   
The only mystery is: was he the ex husband or another guy who succeeded to ex hubby? 
 
But, on another hand. She was repeatedly asking me the first rendez-vous: "are you old enough", wanting to know my age and wanting to know if I was old enough and she felt more than happy to finally know that we had a significant difference, me being older. 
As she gave birth around 25 and got married, I suppose her husband was the same age, and they followed the usual path: marrying, making children, a family.  So this version gives more credit to a second guy.
     
But she also told me that her ex husband go back and forth between Russia and Thailand.
   
I don't have the final answer. But one day I will know.

[krimster2]

so what's worse?
she's 'schlepping'  her ex-husband
or she's deceiving you about it

you are Patrice, leader of the local Resistance Francaise
who has a STRONG fetish for Teutonic aryans
someone radio Toulouse, and tell mission control, we may have a 'choot choot' problemya

the jealousy you feel, that's yur EGO phuqueing with ya
ignore that

but never ignore a lying Russian woman - EVER!

[Patagonie]

so what's worse?
she's 'schlepping'  her ex-husband
or she's deceiving you about it

you are Patrice, leader of the local Resistance Francaise
who has a STRONG fetish for Teutonic aryans
someone radio Toulouse, and tell mission control, we may have a 'choot choot' problemya

the jealousy you feel, that's yur EGO phuqueing with ya
ignore that

but never ignore a lying Russian woman - EVER!

   
First of all I don't feel any jealousy for the very simple reason that there are still no relationship. 
Real relationship start when intimacy happens. 
So at this exact moment we are free to do whatever we like.   
"We" means that I am also free.   
   
"she's 'schlepping'  her ex-husband 
or she's deceiving you about it" 
Yep, the tchout tchout problem is around this topic. 
     
 If her husband was the last guy we have a problem of her having not  totally solved her mourn and also practical problems with a divorce that looks like to be not obviously not completely solved. 
   
If it's a second man, problems are worse, considering that she can play two men at the same time. Me and a Russian guy gravitating in different countries. Of course the other guy has more weight than I. 
   
I am very analytical about this Krim, studying, learning, memorizing datas. 
But I do agree that when you spend your time to arrange your answers or denying answering MOST of the time, all of this becomes a global LIE. What are the reasons behind this? I will know. 
     
For example she should come in August, just before returning in Thailand, before the kids board to school. These time spent together will tell a lot. Because if she still spends her time being emotionally involved with another man, or she don't go forward mourning enough the previous guy, I will feel it from the beginning in August.   
So like when you play poker, I pay to see the real incoming cards in August. 
   
I just need to be patient and complete the visa. The visa procedure will be a good indicator of her involvement and is already bringing back useful information. 

[krimster2]

isn't ALMOST EVERYTHING shutdown in France in Augoost?
why then?

the four things I greatly admire about my wife

1. her beauty
2, her honesty
3, her work ethic
4. her loyalty

in 25 years of marriage, I cannot recall her ever lying to me
at worst, she's withheld information, that if I had known, would've been more favorable to me than to her
but never once practiced to deceive me

considering her background, this is extraordinary

monsier...
I believe you are, as they say in English, "Barking up the wrong tree"

I would urge you to make a journey to die vald immer Oozebeckystan
and look for a sweet innocent village girl (with BIG TITS!)
and try some of them 'local grits', them's good eatin...course I ain't no gourmet, more like gourmond

but a really cool place
locals will intercede if Russians hassle ya
un garcon francaise is a pretty rare bird in Oozezbeckystan
if you learn how to play that card...it can open some doors fer ya

anyway, AFTER this blows up
ya gotta immediately jump up and get back in the saddle

[Patagonie]

isn't ALMOST EVERYTHING shutdown in France in Augoost?
why then?

the four things I greatly admire about my wife

1. her beauty
2, her honesty
3, her work ethic
4. her loyalty

in 25 years of marriage, I cannot recall her ever lying to me
at worst, she's withheld information, that if I had known, would've been more favorable to me than to her
but never once practiced to deceive me

considering her background, this is extraordinary

monsier...
I believe you are, as they say in English, "Barking up the wrong tree"

I would urge you to make a journey to die vald immer Oozebeckystan
and look for a sweet innocent village girl (with BIG TITS!)
and try some of them 'local grits', them's good eatin...course I ain't no gourmet, more like gourmond

but a really cool place
locals will intercede if Russians hassle ya
un garcon francaise is a pretty rare bird in Oozezbeckystan
if you learn how to play that card...it can open some doors fer ya

anyway, AFTER this blows up
ya gotta immediately jump up and get back in the saddle

   
I am very happy for you Krim,
That's four outstanding qualities. 
My ex wife had only two on four of them, but had had some other ones. But the twowhich were missing were fatal for the marriage.

[Patagonie]

Now what I see here is less than a dozen of people are expressing themselves. 
And they keep repeating the same stuff that had worked for them.     
Since then 15, 20, 25 years has passed away.
     
And two majors events has happened:
   
The first one is that the dating world has considerable evolved since. 
I don't want to develop, but we could write pages. 
     
Secondly while the world has shifted (the dating world has changed in itself but a lot of other parameters have changed in the FSU, for example just think about the war for example) 
you are OLDER of 15/20/25 years
And that changes all again. 
     
Because if you are in the real situation of searching a mate NOW, it means that you are just out of a divorce 99.9% of time.
       
So these two parameters are totally changing, in a very personal way, each case of human being and the approach that will follow accordingly.
   
     
So Krim for example you talk about the village girls.   
I know you have been living in the countryside in Crimea. Ok 
     
Do I want to live in the FSU countryside? No. (countryside I insist, didn't say that I refuse to spend time in the FSU or in another place, outside the west)   
Do I want to bring in my house a woman from the countryside? No     
Do I want to bring any woman from anywhere in my house in France now, in the next months, in the next year?  No

[krimster2]

non monsier non

I married my wife, because I discovered she had those 4 qualities....
I didn't marry her, and then discover she had them...

before then, I endured what you had endured
entitled selfish women who were not fit to have a relationship with, the kind who always ended their relationships in divorce
before I met my wife, I thought this kind of strife was normal and unavoidable with women
 
that's cuz we get brain washed into accepting it
thinking we have no choice

I think you must have some kinda predjudice against village girls
I have a preference

I always liked the outdoorsy, "nature girls" over ultra-femminine "Barbies"

you have some kinda idee fixee which I think is wrong
you've over analyzed and made complicated
what intuitively is a simple problem
because you don't want to accept the outcome yur intuition feels

oui...
I understand the nuances of time

but I also understand how to win games of chance, by improving my odds
as Alan Turing said, "I'm really very good at solving puzzles"

instead of freeing yurself, you have trapped yurself in yur own desires and fixations
you are like the little mouse, stuck in the glue trap, you can't move...

honestly, I don't know why ya wanna do that to yurself

the rest of us, who have survived!
did follow the path, of bringing a woman to us
and found someone suitable for that purpose

yur goal is ambiguous and full of uncertainties and contradictions
and ya wonder why it ain't workin? well.....

only the superficial details change
the part that is essential NEVER changes

as your age climbs, so to does the age of the women you seek
in certain demographics yur current age is an advantage, cuz less available alternative competition
all is relative regardless of yur age, it's just another parameter

I'd jump on a 40 yr old Elizabeth Hurley look-alike faster than a Mantis on a fly
for me, much better her bein a country girl, compared to a city dweller
cuz she can take care of the chickens and NOT me

if you don't invest in yur future
don't expect to receive the dividend

[ML]

Now what I see here is less than a dozen of people are expressing themselves. 
And they keep repeating the same stuff that had worked for them.     
Since then 15, 20, 25 years has passed away.
     

Pat, you are right.

My procedures of only contacting and communicating via email would not work today.
Maybe I should just shut up on here.