Identity

[Sreiko]

Greetings all,

is there any method or way to check out somebody's identity?

Thanks

[BC]

Greetings all,

is there any method or way to check out somebody's identity?

Thanks

Try google, both web and if you have pictures do an image search.  Also check social media sites like facebook etc to see if things add up correctly.

[Sreiko]

Thank you for kind attention and reply. Yes, I did all of this, including finding IP address and it prove that person really contact me from place she state. Problem is that I get from her twice images in work dress and I notice that name (hard to read) on work dress does not suit to her name. Maybe I can ask additional question- what medical personals have from inscriptions on their uniforms? In Serbia in all known cases it is the name of person and it is individual.

This is only point I can suspect, all the rest look just fine.

[BC]

Thank you for kind attention and reply. Yes, I did all of this, including finding IP address and it prove that person really contact me from place she state. Problem is that I get from her twice images in work dress and I notice that name (hard to read) on work dress does not suit to her name. Maybe I can ask additional question- what medical personals have from inscriptions on their uniforms? In Serbia in all known cases it is the name of person and it is individual.

This is only point I can suspect, all the rest look just fine.

Have no idea about medical uniforms nor their name tag system, sorry.

[Sreiko]

No problem, thank anyway, you are so kind

[Shadow]

Thank you for kind attention and reply. Yes, I did all of this, including finding IP address and it prove that person really contact me from place she state. Problem is that I get from her twice images in work dress and I notice that name (hard to read) on work dress does not suit to her name. Maybe I can ask additional question- what medical personals have from inscriptions on their uniforms? In Serbia in all known cases it is the name of person and it is individual.

This is only point I can suspect, all the rest look just fine.

Note that there can be several reasons. First of all the text would be in Cyrillic, you woud have to be sure to use that alphabet.
Second het official first name can differ from the one used in daily conversation. A woman named Ludmila can adress herself as Luda or Mila. Lastly if it is supposed to be her family name, in order to maintain some privacy many women will use their patronym.

If this is the only thing you noticed, why not remove all doubt by visiting her? From Serbia you can book a weekend flight, have dinner with her and see if there is chemistry.

[Sreiko]

Good words Shadow  Well, I am Slavic and we use Cyrillic, Ukrainian and Serbian are not the same but I can recognize it. So the label does not look as expected. And I do want to go and visit her. Already check out what could be places in Nova Odessa and Mykolaiv to visit. I just want to avoid broken hart again (this will be first time with foreigner).

Do you have any advice for cheap flight? Or any flight, if she want to come and visit my country (as she state) it will be good to avoid visa zones.

[BillyB]

Yes, I did all of this, including finding IP address and it prove that person really contact me from place she state. Problem is that I get from her twice images in work dress and I notice that name (hard to read) on work dress does not suit to her name.

Send her more photos of yourself and ask more photos of her. If she likes you, she will share her life with you and honor your request. Ask to talk to her on Skype and phone. No need for detective work yet.

And I do want to go and visit her. Already check out what could be places in Nova Odessa and Mykolaiv to visit. I just want to avoid broken hart again (this will be first time with foreigner).

We recommend a guy visiting a woman in her hometown first and save the romantic vacations for a girlfriend/fiancée. Many guys get used going on romantic vacations for their first dates. If the lady doesn't share photos with you or let you communicate with her on Skype or the phone often, you shouldn't be visiting her at all.

[Shadow]

Good words Shadow  Well, I am Slavic and we use Cyrillic, Ukrainian and Serbian are not the same but I can recognize it. So the label does not look as expected. And I do want to go and visit her. Already check out what could be places in Nova Odessa and Mykolaiv to visit. I just want to avoid broken hart again (this will be first time with foreigner).

Do you have any advice for cheap flight? Or any flight, if she want to come and visit my country (as she state) it will be good to avoid visa zones.

To avoid a broken hart it is simple. Do not allow high expectations until after the first meeting. In general you should be the one that travels to her, but if she lives in an area where that might be dangerous you could deviate, or meet on neutral ground like Kiev.
Flights should not be very expensive, and what I know of Serbian you might be able to understand Ukrainian, it is not that far apart.

[Sreiko]

Yes, I did it, I send all my photos and keep her updated and she send me her. I have contact with many womans and she is first one to send high resolution images (basic feature of scum is sending small images). She have no PC so no Skype. Work hard for living, small salary but she also proud. Must say, I respect her. She say she regret because she can not arrange passport by her self. But I think that she also expect from me as man, to take her, keep and protect. This is all right, we are made to love and protect womans.

My visit will be in her hometown, I also insist to met her parents and she say this will be obligatory. She is in Nova Odessa, south of Ukraine. True, never expect anything. At least, Ukraine is beautiful country, I will definitely visit museums and if there any archive. I agree about language, it should not be problem. When she use some term, I do recognize Serb term.

Thank you for attention friends, you did great things, maybe this will help to make one big happy family, you never know.

[Sreiko]

Here is source of my doubts...

[BC]

The first and last seem quite consistent.  The second is totally illegible.

Based on this alone I would not be inclined to have doubt and proceed accordingly.  If this is your only doubt or inconsistency.

Just remember you can't get scammed without first opening your wallet

Heck I didn't even know the last name of many women I dated. LOL   

If you do end up shelling out for a flight ticket she will have to give you her correct name.

[Sreiko]

And non of them match her name. No idea what to think, this is only thing what does not match story, the rest is very good. No problem about my wallet, I take there on my own and if all is fine, I can give her my wallet

[BC]

And non of them match her name. No idea what to think, this is only thing what does not match story, the rest is very good. No problem about my wallet, I take there on my own and if all is fine, I can give her my wallet

In any case, I would not suggest posting her name here which would not be proper, but feel free to send a private message if you want.

[Shadow]

Here is source of my doubts...

MrsShadow has just tried, but she can not read anything. Apart from that it looks consistent, nothing to make from it.
No PC and no Skype... well she should have a mobile phone. Nurses need one for things like standby shifts.

[Sreiko]

BC, no problem, I can send private message.

She use Internet caffe and I proof this by IP search even find image of the place. I am sure she have mobile but wonder which one, not all of them are able to have good Internet feature. She send me one selfie, definitely made with mobile and image is small, better say, standard size for low end mobile phones.

[Faux Pas]

And non of them match her name. No idea what to think, this is only thing what does not match story, the rest is very good. No problem about my wallet, I take there on my own and if all is fine, I can give her my wallet

Why not just ask her? Here's the thing, if there is this distrust on this level this early the relationship, it doesn't stand the chance of a snowball in hell to lasting anything significant.

My advice is to believe everything she tells you until you have a good reason not to. If you are just this suspicious and/or jealous naturally, you really need to get over that. There is likely a good reason why the name is not readable or recognizable or completely different that what it looked like before. Or not.

[Sreiko]

Thank you for input Faux. Definitely not suspicious or jealous, I feel problem is other on side. She is so good and real and I can't believe this happen to me. This is all. I don't mention her anything, care her as princess and talk with respect. Yes, I ask everything and she answer polite. Also talk open from my side, I open my life to her like a book.

Maybe I am fall in love and become too sensitive. I guess she have same feeling, regarding to some sentences from her emails. I accept your points at wise, thank you for support.

[Shadow]

The good thing about ay phone, even the low-end ones, is that you can make phone calls with them.
Find some excuse, like you want to hear her voice or want to know if you could understand each other using your own language, and make a call. Incoming calls are free for her, and by getting the number you would have made a huge step forward.

[Faux Pas]

Thank you for input Faux. Definitely not suspicious or jealous, I feel problem is other on side. She is so good and real and I can't believe this happen to me. This is all. I don't mention her anything, care her as princess and talk with respect. Yes, I ask everything and she answer polite. Also talk open from my side, I open my life to her like a book.

Maybe I am fall in love and become too sensitive. I guess she have same feeling, regarding to some sentences from her emails. I accept your points at wise, thank you for support.

Yeah okay but, STOP right there. You are not in love with this woman. You haven't met her. You can like her a lot but you don't know her enough to even declare that. Until you have met her, you are only her pen pal. And she yours. If she is professing love for you in her emails or on the telephone there is a problem. Has she asked for any money?

[Sreiko]

I will have her phone number, I did not need it before.

No, she never ask money, she always mention she will do but never explain details. Finally I make pressure and she said about her salary and she accept my support for documents. But she want to see me.

[Faux Pas]

I will have her phone number, I did not need it before.

No, she never ask money, she always mention she will do but never explain details. Finally I make pressure and she said about her salary and she accept my support for documents. But she want to see me.

You should go meet her as soon as possible. Then all of your worries/questions will be answered

[Sreiko]

I have announce my arrival from mid March. I hope I will be back with good news

[Faux Pas]

I have announce my arrival from mid March. I hope I will be back with good news

Sweet! Then my advice to you going forward would be to forget this suspicion about her name tag. It's not something that you need to venture into given the differences in your languages. If something isn't right, you'll know soon enough after you meet her. Enjoy the ride and the warm fuzzy feeling she gives you.

[Sreiko]

Thank you very much Faux, you are so kind