My story of Russian women with pics

[BillyB]

I learnt from my mistakes and will not repeat it again.

What do you feel are your mistakes? If you really feel you aren't made for marriage, don't do it. Be yourself but also let the ladies you're communicating with know you're not interested in marriage. It's like going to a job interview and telling the manager you need a job but you don't like to work and the manager says he needs an employee but doesn't like to pay. Chances are you're not going to be working together but there are enough girls out there that will enjoy meeting a foreign man and having fun with him for a few days without any promises of anything long term.




Also, on the issue of affection, do you need a woman to cling onto you 24/7? As you get older like the rest of us, those puppy love displays of affection aren't as important. Although the virgin was new to men and relationships, she may have been extremely devoted and loyal. She was young too and showed jealousy instead of maturity but you ran instead of being a leader and trying to grow with her. Surely you knew she wasn't a very affectionate person which is a deal breaker for you before you slept with her.

[Welder]

Dude has her pics plastered elsewhere.  Claimed would never cheat on her etc etc.....  A lot has changed in two weeks dragonkid???? Perhaps you should remove her pics.  If she wasn't your cup of tea then why leave the pics.  They serve no purpose other than possibly feeding an ego. 

[Gator]

The term "kid" in your name is appropriate. 

Please act like a man with self-confidence and take down her photo. 

[dragonkid]

What do you feel are your mistakes? If you really feel you aren't made for marriage, don't do it. Be yourself but also let the ladies you're communicating with know you're not interested in marriage. It's like going to a job interview and telling the manager you need a job but you don't like to work and the manager says he needs an employee but doesn't like to pay. Chances are you're not going to be working together but there are enough girls out there that will enjoy meeting a foreign man and having fun with him for a few days without any promises of anything long term.




Also, on the issue of affection, do you need a woman to cling onto you 24/7? As you get older like the rest of us, those puppy love displays of affection aren't as important. Although the virgin was new to men and relationships, she may have been extremely devoted and loyal. She was young too and showed jealousy instead of maturity but you ran instead of being a leader and trying to grow with her. Surely you knew she wasn't a very affectionate person which is a deal breaker for you before you slept with her.

Before i knew her she was affectionate, quickly changed after i told her i didn't want marriage. it is cool now, i moved on, and i need to do me. she was a great woman, but i am not ready for this at the moment. i will just have fun, get into relationships with people i respect, and see how it goes.

[BillyB]

Before i knew her she was affectionate, quickly changed after i told her i didn't want marriage. it is cool now, i moved on, and i need to do me. she was a great woman, but i am not ready for this at the moment. i will just have fun, get into relationships with people i respect, and see how it goes.

Go have fun. There are plenty of ladies that will want to have fun with you but make sure they all know you don't like marriage before getting too close to them.




The virgin you met was 23 if I recall right. She probably wanted to save herself for one man but at 23 and will no qualified men asking her to marry yet, she saw hope in you. You were from a well developed country that offers opportunity and you're more financially well off than the men she has at home. Many FSU women want to have a happy family and kids that aren't going to starve so a financially secure man is one of the things on the top of the list. Obviously she opened her legs for you before getting married. She took a chance you're the one and lost. She probably feels you used her but some of the way this went down is of her own making too. Try not to hurt any more feelings on the path of having fun.

[dragonkid]

This trip was a learning curve for me, towards the end i wanted marriage, but the damage was done. There was no reverse, i will keep this in mind next time i go, not to rule out marriage, i have told others before my view of marriage, some were fine with it after they got to know the real me. But i can't bet on that, i will go in with marriage on the table, but the girl needs to ne good, it hurts because this girl was perfect, if only i didn't open my mouth. But you live and learn,  i am going to get older, and age goes well for guys, my money will increase, and i will be able to date girls much younger than myself.

[ML]

i will be able to date girls much younger than myself.

Why . . . no one else here does that?

[Shadow]

Pity the ladies of Antidate are not around to have fun with dragonkid.

[dragonkid]

Why . . . no one else here does that?

I am 24, i date girls usually 20-25, i like to be 35 and date 25 year olds. 10 year gap is great, women age terribly XD

[Faux Pas]

More proof youth is wasted on the young 

[GuppyCaptain]

Dragon, this will offend you now but read it in 10 years time and I'm confident you'll agree with me at that point.

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOU WANT!

Honestly, it's okay. You're in your mid 20s. If I were you, I'd be pulling off as much panty as possible and good on you if you can travel to the FSU to do it! Enjoy! Seriously man, enjoy! Now is the time in your life to get it out of your system and then when you hit 30 start thinking about settling down.

24 and thinking about marriage?! I could  you! With that said, please don't go hurting any lady's feelings or crushing their hopes. Just be honest with them and treat them with respect. They deserve that much. Trust me, FSU or not plenty of women around your age are still in the party phase.

[TomT]

Roosh would be proud.

[dragonkid]

Dragon, this will offend you now but read it in 10 years time and I'm confident you'll agree with me at that point.

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOU WANT!

Honestly, it's okay. You're in your mid 20s. If I were you, I'd be pulling off as much panty as possible and good on you if you can travel to the FSU to do it! Enjoy! Seriously man, enjoy! Now is the time in your life to get it out of your system and then when you hit 30 start thinking about settling down.

24 and thinking about marriage?! I could  you! With that said, please don't go hurting any lady's feelings or crushing their hopes. Just be honest with them and treat them with respect. They deserve that much. Trust me, FSU or not plenty of women around your age are still in the party phase.

thanks man,i really appreciate it. I will soon have the chance to go on 1 month trips, 2 weeks in london for business, and repeat very soon. This excites me, and i want to enjoy a few years of doing this. Form relationships, meet new people, form memories, that is what life is about, memories and moments.

Roosh would be proud.

I am not like roosh, i had 90 contacts in russia, some of the most beautiful women you could imagine. But i stuck with my ex throughout the whole trip. My next on in ukraine , i have no idea what i am going to do, but i will just have fun i guess and see how it goes. 

[TomT]

Being exclusive with a girl for a month, whilst screwing her brains out (and maintaining 90 contacts), then moving on to Bang Ukraine is a better description of opportunism than loyalty. You had better be careful in the land of easy sex; many of the previously easily treatable afflictions have become drug resistant.

[dragonkid]

Being exclusive with a girl for a month, whilst screwing her brains out (and maintaining 90 contacts), then moving on to Bang Ukraine is a better description of opportunism than loyalty. You had better be careful in the land of easy sex; many of the previously easily treatable afflictions have become drug resistant.

Minatain? all those contacts hate me, because their message saying "How are you finding russia?" was followed by "great thanks, i found a girl i really like", and me making my relationship public on whatsapp/fb to prove to her i had no interest in others. I burnt all those bridges because i passed them off for my gf at the time, which is why i am moving onto ukraine, i only banged 1 girl, so don't worry about STI's. I hate myself for what i done, but her lack of affection killed it, but my actions caused that to happen, i am not mature enough to handle a relationship on that level, i realise that. But i do want something special, so i will live and learn.

[GregfromGa]

Idiot

[JayH]

Idiot

Yep-you summed it up !

i am not mature

You did not need to add anything to that-it is clear for all to see!

So -- did you come here for applause ?

btw-- it is 25 yo jerks like you from the west that leaves a lot of fsuw wanting nothing to do with them-so they seek guys with some level of maturity-be that 30 y.o. or 50 y.o.

[dragonkid]

some level of maturity-be that 30 y.o. or 50 y.o.

i laughed hard when i went on her account and saw these trying to hook up with her, stick to  your own age bracket, many hot 30-40 y.o women. gIrls in their 20's are for us young guys.

[Shadow]

I am 24, i date girls usually 20-25, i like to be 35 and date 25 year olds. 10 year gap is great, women age terribly XD

Do 14 year old girls seem attractive to you?

[abashka]

Idiot

Exact definition

[TomT]

... and me making my relationship public on whatsapp/fb to prove to her i had no interest in others.

Writing disingenuous crap on social networks or on forums doesn't prove anything... except perhaps that your writing and reasoning skills are at the 8th-grade level. You defined yourself by your actions and the girl was wise to have maintained some distance. 


You wrote that you would like a ten-year age gap because women age terribly. There is some humor in that because many women seek a ten-year age gap because men mature terribly. Perhaps you should consider a larger age gap.

[Muzh]

[BillyB]

Guys, dragonkid has come here to get something off his chest, admits fault, hates what he's done, and said he will live and learn. Beating him down more isn't going to do anything but turn him off from any good advice you have for him. Do you have some for him?

i laughed hard when i went on her account and saw these trying to hook up with her, stick to  your own age bracket, many hot 30-40 y.o women. gIrls in their 20's are for us young guys.

She trusted you to look at her account and I've had girls give me their passwords to gain my trust and affection. There can be some weird stuff in there. I remember one guy writing he likes to be tickled and he wants to find a girl that would enjoy tickling him.


Ultimately the girls get to choose. I've dated two FSU women in their 20's that have never dated a man younger than 30. I've dated FSU women that have dated a man in their 20's and never again. These young men prove to be untrustworthy, unreliable, not loyal, not focused in life, and/or unstable.


Some people are perplexed on why FSU women would consider men much older than themselves. Living in tough conditions, they don't need the additional BS in life from boys so they look for men and age becomes less of an issue. Dragonkid, if you can exhibit some of the better qualities older guys have in a young body, you can easily attract some of the highest quality women out there but if you make a mistake like you did with the lady you talked about earlier, in the end you will always lose them.

[Muzh]

Guys, dragonkid has come here to get something off his chest, admits fault, hates what he's done, and said he will live and learn. Beating him down more isn't going to do anything but turn him off from any good advice you have for him. Do you have some for him?

Heh, I just did.


What part of "Get your head off your ass" you don't understand? 

[dragonkid]

This has quickly turnt into young men bashing. i am too busy with actually communicating with females to debate this, you lot enjoy yourselves. i regret how i came across initially with her, wrecked something that would have been good. But i got to live on with my life and move forward, enjoy my life as best as i can. I will one day marry, be it tomorrow, next year, or 10 years later. i always told girls this, if the right woman came along i would consider marriage. I was stupid with her, really stupid, i ruled marriage out, and she hated that.