She knows I have full custody of my children and loves that. (I think that is what got her attention)
For a court to give a father full custody over a mother says something. She recognizes that but there has to be more about you that she likes. She probably likes the way you talk that keeps her interested. Although you think you're normal, she may find you very attractive.
Her complaint about EU men is they have used her for her money in the past and expected her to provide.
Don't ever tell her you got used by a woman or scammed by agencies thinking you're going to get the same sympathy that you're giving her when she was taken advantage of. We make mistakes and grow wiser so what happened in the past will not repeat in the future, right? She needs to know you make good decisions and not a man that gets ran over by others.
I also have to continue to reassure her that I'm interested!!
Don't overdo it and don't give her the impression you're in awe of her. When girls like you, they are not likely to end the conversation. I always end the conversation with ladies first and it leaves them wanting more. Don't ever get to the point of talking too much and making them want to hear less.
Have you two talked about visiting yet? She may be the first to bring it up. Do not rush and say "yes" until you figure her out to where you're comfortable you can live with her. Have you read enough hear to understand when people debate hot topics such as politics, abortion, or the roles people play in marriage lead to people hating each other? I like most people here but I probably couldn't live with 95% of the people on an everyday basis. Don't flood her with tons of questions but bring up serious questions every once in a while. Women will like it when you are asking serious questions because it means you're serious about them and you will not just marry anybody. Make sure you don't give your answers to your questions first. Figure out what's in O's mind without you influencing it.
Some other things I talk about to ladies aren't serious but it gives the ladies the idea I've got skills. I may fix a toilet, repair or change the oil in my truck or building remote control airplanes for a hobby and let them know what's on the agenda for the day. The ladies we communicate with value our minds and abilities more than we value theirs.
How far out are you from being able to fly to her? Once you determined she's a winner, you need to make a move fast. It would be unfair to her to put her life on hold if you tell her to wait 4 months for you to arrive. There have been guys that waited too long and their lady ends up choosing another man that makes things happen.
More info- O has shared family photos, natural photos, photos from magazines she's appeared in etc.. I'm truly more or less in shock but trying hard to play it cool with her without seeming disinterested.
You have found a girl I like to tell men to find before getting on a plane. She is sharing her life with you and happy to talk to you on a regular basis. Have you shared your life with her in photos?
