Age difference again: a cultural variation?

[Pike]

True

but to be honset there is very little that medcine can cure

How about back problems caused from sitting at an angle on an overstuffed wallet?

[Mir]

Usually that would press on your sciatic nerve and the pain will go down the back of your buttock and down the back of the thigh.
Always take the wallet out of the back pocket when driving long distance.
As for the ultimate cure:

Thank Heaven!the crisis-
  The danger is past,
And the lingering illness
    Is over at last-
And the fever called 'Living'
    Is conquered at last.     (Edger Allan Poe)

[Zhena]

And Pike I am a dermatologist and many don't consider us to be er proper doctors

Hello,colleague We re good doctors-cos the reason which causes the skin diseases always comes from inside so you have to know really much

[Zhena]

In fact,I do not understand why some people criticize the age difference as much as a crime? Well,you dont believe there can be a love-its your right,but keep your thoughts in your head,cos they are not the true in the last instance! I am sick to hear how terrible is this-dont like it? dont look at that and do your business! The relationships of others is not your business,I just amazed how ill-bred and undelicate some people who feel they have a right to judge! Cos they consider themselves normal and if someone is different-the different is not normal,oh of course.
All our life is a one long lesson,remember that and dont think you know everything.

[Turboguy]

Nice post Zhena.   We all have our own ideas and if they work for us then it is not something others should judge us on.   

There was something in todays issue of the USA Today about black men finding the curvier look of AA women with big tops and bottoms very sexy.   Their term is "Dreamgirls"    For many of us, we feel differently but it is not for me or anyone to judge why anyone falls in love or if it is acceptable.

[vwrw]

From Pike:
I don't think you really understand what Viagra does.

Yeah. But, thank you I got it now.

From L/C:
He wants a young girl for sexual stuff,

Is it not what you want from your boy? If I remember correctly your boy must be young so as you want to use him for sexual stuff. And you did not say any other reason why men’s youth is so much important for you.

[vwrw]

From Zhena:
…some people who feel they have a right to judge! Cos they consider themselves normal

BTW I heard in clinics “Napoleons”, “Presidents”, “Mind-Readers” (sick of L/C) also sincerely consider themselves normal.

[Mir]

Zehna

Are you a dermatologist as well?

[Jazzyclassy]

           sick of L/C) also sincerely consider themselves normal   

dearest this is mutual feeling


why should I accept  the point of view some very depressed and women with complexes , who are incomplete who can not attract  the guys of their age and express envy of those who can? they do not accept my point of view so why should I do that???

People are all different  we all have our own standards and wishes , so why insult each other all the time, but I guess some "wise" women  love that so much here.......

[ScottinCrimea]

A dermatologist I worked with told me that the only emergency in dermatology is when the coffee pot runs dry.

[Mir]

thats not an emergency,it a calamity!!

[LEGAL]

"Additionally, the older a woman gets, the harder it is to find a partner. Russia has one of the lowest male life expectancies in the industrialized world - just 56 years, the same as in Bangladesh. So as women get older, there are fewer men to choose from. And they become pickier, more discriminating, as a byproduct of age and wisdom".

http://www.pbs.org/frontlineworld/stories/russia602/interview_reporter.html

[ScottinCrimea]

I think the life expectancy figure is a bit misleading because so many men died young in the various wars or due to the complications of same.  YOur arguement doea not change, as in all cultures it is more difficult for a woman to find a suitable partner as she gets older.  The more education she has also limits the field as most women anywhere prefer a husband with a similar or greater education level and income.  For men seeking a wife, those aren't usually considerations.

[Zhena]

Zehna

Are you a dermatologist as well?

Yeah

[Zhena]

dearest this is mutual feeling


why should I accept  the point of view some very depressed and women with complexes , who are incomplete who can not attract  the guys of their age and express envy of those who can? they do not accept my point of view so why should I do that???

People are all different  we all have our own standards and wishes , so why insult each other all the time, but I guess some "wise" women  love that so much here.......

As I saw until this time,the one who insults much is you. I have no idea why do you feel so superior of the people you dont know and never saw? Your posts just annoying...why do you think you so good? Why anyone should be jelaousy to you? What are you and what you have that others dont have? Why you decided the women here are depressed and cant attract young boys? I can attract a bunch of them,believe me-but I have nothing to do with them. My husband looks much better than most of them yet he got a great personality which I didnt meet before. So stop this silly arguments if you have nothing to say except others envy to you. Its ridiculous.

[Zhena]

A dermatologist I worked with told me that the only emergency in dermatology is when the coffee pot runs dry.

I dunno a dermatologist you worked with,but some people even die from the skin diseases-a pemphigus for example and that happened a couple times in my hospital,those people arrived too late and there was impossible to do anything. Some people in a really hard condition...I worked in the hospital where people stay(the wards) for the long time. Dermatology is not so easy;only that thinks so who never saw the difficult skin patients.

[Mir]

Zehna

Don't worry, Scott is just pulling your leg.It is a commone joke about dermatologists:' No one gets cured and no one dies so they have lots of patients'
Anyway do you live and practice dermatology in US now?

[Zhena]

To practice a dermatology here,I have to pass a test. It will take some time to prepare.
About the patients...yes,some never cured and just getting temporary relief;but some are cured very well-depends on disease. Did you notice many of them have the psychical disorders?

[ScottinCrimea]

Zhena,  No offense, but you displayed a characteristic that has been mentioned about FSU women before, namely their inappreciation for sarcastic humor.  It is common in the medical field to make fun of each other's specialties and we all take it in stride, usually because there is some truth to it.  If you didn't appreciate my last one, you'll probably like even less this one.  While learning dermatolugy I was told that there are really only three principles:  If it's wet, dry it.  If it's dry, wet it.  If you're not sure, cut it out.

[Mir]

Scott

Yes and when you want to learn surgery then the only principle is: ' Just cut it out.' (since a surgeon will never be sure)

Zehna

You will have to pass the exam and find a residency and it is very hard to find a dermatology residency in US, so good luck.
Yes many patients have other physical and more frequently psychological disorders.

[ScottinCrimea]

The principle of surgery is "Never let the skin stand between you and the diagnosis"

[Mir]

And cut out everything when unable to make a diagnosis (which is the norm with surgeons)

[Zhena]

Scott

Yes and when you want to learn surgery then the only principle is: ' Just cut it out.' (since a surgeon will never be sure)

Zehna

You will have to pass the exam and find a residency and it is very hard to find a dermatology residency in US, so good luck.
Yes many patients have other physical and more frequently psychological disorders.

Thanks Mir,this poor girl realizes all difficulties and knows everything about all steps I believe I can do that if will want very much.

[BC]

Age difference... A cultural variation?.. imho no.

I learned long ago that everyone has their 'price'.

May sound a bit obscene but it is so.

[Mir]

Price?
Elaborate please (in the context of Russian women marrying western men)