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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #400 on: January 31, 2008, 01:37:23 AM »
You said that many women do not put photos on their profile. Therefor you dismiss them as a possible mate.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA well, here is a revelation for you:
When I was searching for my own wife, I obviously looked through thousands of profiles, contacted many girls, talked to hundreds. Unlike you, Bruno, I didn't just dismiss girls without photos because I was reading through profiles and realised that some very pretty girls would initially post their photos,...

arevalation for you... unlinke you !!! What make you think so... for my last girlfriend from Ukraine, i have receive a photo from her only one year after the start of the communication... and i have not find her on some dating site but on a russian forum in russian language !!!

When i make a post here, i try to make it a general post... when it is about personal experience, i say it... my own personal experience is not the way that the majority of man will use...

In these case, the majority of man will not write to a woman without a photo...

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So they decided to remove their photos and this way they were only attracting attention from the guys who were inclined to read their profile and contact them on the basis of what a girl put in there.

Eduard, have you see the majority of profile ? a few field like age, color of eyes and hair, and some other general data... and for the field "about me", sometime nothing, of one single line... very few take the time for write something more about herself...

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #401 on: January 31, 2008, 02:07:20 AM »
some of my clients are very tough guys. I've had ex-marines and ex-army guys as clients among several others who are far from being a "pussy" as you call it. Strong, smart, respectable men.
Assuming that you are a tough guy,...

 :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:

I am a ex from the army... from the Navy... have make one war in the Golf, one in Somalia and two in Yougoslavia... but having a lot of muscle don't mean be a "strong" man... some man are like a bear on the outside but inside, they are like a teddy bear... of course, women wish a strong man on the outside but the real life and long term, better a strong one inside !

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...yet you are still looking, and already been through a divorce with a RW.

Yep, still looking... like any single... but looking don't mean that i am sleeping... i have date more ladies in the last 5 month that a lot of other guys here... almost all was good or great women but no one qualify for be a wife...

About having know a divorce with a RW, don't laugh to much fast... you are only married 3 year... it can happen to you too ( hope not )...

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I realise that this is predominantly a DIY community and agency driven forum

Eduard, the two time that i was agency owner, my agency was free for both customer ( woman / man )... but nothing is really free... so sponsor is a way for earn a little money and pay charge...

In the case of these forum, yes, you have publicity... but the forum is really independant... if a guy wish complain about a agency who is one of the sponsor, he is free to make it... not edit, no censure... simply the usual rule that you need evidence from what you post... something who can be difficult for you since you have never post evidence from what you say !

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I'm not the smartest guy

Second time that i agree fully with you !

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PS. why didn't it work out with your first Russian wife?

It have work very good with my first russian wife... until she have receive her green card ( they are really green here )... once the card in her hand, she have ask the divorce and say that she don't need me anymore... so, she was a GCG... after the divorce, she have date some rich guy but we have continue have sex together from time to time since she was not happy about this with the old rich guy... so, she was a golddigger too... once i have find a other lady, i have never see her again...

Yep, i was not lucky in my choose... but it is only my personal experience... sure that all RW are not GCG or Golddigger... the risk exist that anyone find so girl but it is low...

You see, at the reverse of you, i never claim that my own personal experience is the universal truth... a other example here is KenC, married to a very young and sexy babe... large age difference in his case... but he never promote these fact, himself saying that he was lucky... yourself wrote that you have win the jackpot... but you need to realise that few win the jackpot... you own experience is only valid for yourself... trying to make your personal experience like a universal truth is really silly from you...

You see, the goal of a forum like these is to post personal experience... from this, newbies will take a little from Eduard experience, a little from Bruno experience, a little from xxx experience and build his own package...

And seriously, nobody contest your personal experience... we only contest/challenge thing non related to experience but on statistic like your ratio men/women... like have million RW wishing marry a foreign guy... etc...

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« Reply #402 on: January 31, 2008, 03:05:58 AM »
... when one of my former clients who is very happy with my service posted a comment here he was immidiately attacked for his spelling. What a bunch of BS that was!

Agree, it is BS... i have know the same situation before related to myself... was just needed to show that i have enough balls for counter attact... some have hate me, some have like me... like in real life...

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he earns a six figure income and I bet his IQ is way higher than your's!

Ohhhh.... i have a six figure income too... if you count in eurocent  :cluebat:

Since you are a business man, money is important for you... but for a RW, it is only propagande... the last few year, i have see that a lot of the high income have really difficult for pay all the bills... when the credit level is more high that the income, it is a probleme... what can count really for a RW is the disposable income....

Taking my own case... gardener, only 1216 euro month ( after tax ) seem very very low... but for my own country it is a medium income... with our high tax, we have what we call social security : doctor/drug pay at 80% back, hospital pay back at 100% ( thank to my work ), extra legal income ( food check for around 100 euro month ), pay all month the same ( holliday, ill, etc... i am pay... gardener for admistration )... children money from state, free school/education, etc... see, i have a low income when see from US... but i am able to spare 50% of what i earn... previously, i was able to support a wife and a child with a lower income...

If you take some time to search here, you will find some old topic related to income, disposable income, and budget needed for find a RW ( more important, budget/expence after the marriage )... the dating process is the cheap part...

About Iq, do you test him... or do you relate it to your own IQ ???

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either learn Russian, find someone who is a fluent english speaker (which we all know is limiting your search immensely) or use someone like me who can help him accomplish what he wanted to accomplish in the quickest, most efficient and safe way....

So much local marriage here finish with a divorce... it was with common language, common culture, etc...

But in Russia, the divorce rate between russian man and russian ladies is more huge that here... and you wish that we trust a RM to find the right lady for us when the majority of RM are not able to find the right lady for them...

Sorry, Eduard, you say previously that you are a real russian man, that because of this, you are able to find the perfect woman for us... but a lot of RM are not able to find the right RW for themself ( reference to the very huge divorce rate )... so, how can a blind lead us in the FSU dating world...

By example, our friend Possum have say that he will never accept a woman with a child from someone other... he is a true russian... and it is why some young ladies around the 25 y.o., already divorced with child in young age have difficult to find a husband... and some of them begin to seek outside the own border...

To be honest, yourself being russian is not a advantage... what is your positive side is that you are not more a 100% russian but a mix of two culture... if it have good work, you will have take the best of the two side and it will be very positive for your customer ( i call customer both ladies and men... same if ladies don't pay, they are customer )...

But from your post, i have see that you have keep some russian bad side... you are studborn... you cannot accept to loose a argument and everything is good for win... i have know the same problem with my little daughter... at school, during exam, she was giving bad antword to question at the other children of the class... when i have ask why she make this, she have explain that so, she will be the first of the class... russian like to be the first, the winner... they like it so much that the method for reach these goal is not really important... ethical is something who don't exist for russian, only result count... you seem to be like my little daughter... i have change her but several year was needed... and i have not the time and wish to change you...

You are studborn... and i don't like it... you have maybe some other quality but you don't show it ( or maybe hide it, since some of our western quality seem to be a default for RM )...

From now, i will not post anymore in these topic... i am loosing my time... you will never accept that you are wrong on some thing... and sure, you are right on some other... i hope that you can help some man to find the right lady but i am not sure that your final result will be great...

Previously, some have complain of your price... nothing is free in these world... by example, i know a little agency in France who work in a similar way that you... one time fee is around the 10000$... and they refuse a lot of man... each man need to make a interview with psy before be accepted... they have around 100 male customer in the year... but until now, each guy was married in the year... agency help before, during and after the marriage... 10000$ can seem to be a great amount of amount ( specialy for European ) but when i think about my ow case, i have spend a lot more for my own quest... and without final result until now...

About agency, you know what i wish... agency who ask money in case of success... don't care of the amount... a example is a agency from Kyrgyzstan... free e-mail exchange... but once the meeting lead to a engagment, the fee is 400$... you pay for success, not for buy contact information...

Eduard, the problem is not your business model... it can work ad i am sure that it work... the problem is how you promote your business... to much clear that you promote him, no one post about general topic... see how Jack or Richard participate in the full forum... with time, they have be accepted by the communauty... you shoot yourself in your own foot now... don't complain of the result... and a lot of time will be needed to repair the damage...

Your say that you have win some customer because of your participation here... but do you know how much you have loose... now, somebody seeking information about you on Google will visit these forum... read these topic... and maybe change his mind about your service... maybe you have win a few customer but you are loosing some potential customer too...

Advice : simply be honest... in the short term, it don't help to earn money... but in the long term, it make the difference and you will be rewarded with cash... when he man use a agency, he seek trust... i don't see it in your case... it is only a feeling... i really don't know if i can trust you or not in real life... but people make judgment based on own feeling... you have a valuable potential in these business but your dig hole in your own ship...





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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #403 on: January 31, 2008, 03:07:27 AM »
I actually agree that I could be a lot more beneficial to many men who are interested in RW, Russian language and culture. And I would love to share what I know with a friendly group. But it seems like most of the time I have to defend myself, which started at the very beginning of this thread because I happened to ask Scott in Crimea why he preferred livin in Ukraine when he could bring his wife home to the US and live Western lifestyle that he was more acustomed to. That started an avalanch of screaming posts. But luckily there are sensible people here as well who do get me, and I did pick up a couple of clients from here already, thank you very much.
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Eduard now you start repeating your tricks and sound like a broken record. Perhaps you did not notice but since yu returned from your trip until Dan asked you about the statistics on your site you were not attacked in any way, and had not do all that hard thinking on how to spin your words so that you would not have to admit you are wrong.
Now show me the valuable contributions you made in the time that you did not have to 'defend yourself' ?

Secondly, like you attacked me to divert finding yourself in a hole about the type of men that you need as a client, you attack Bruno in the same way.... trying to bring down the other side if they have a point you find hard to address.

So what is next ? Another client showing up to testify your greatness ? It is about time that you get some cheerleaders and I am sure you can persuade one of your paying friends to drop in.
« Last Edit: January 31, 2008, 03:09:19 AM by Shadow »
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« Reply #404 on: January 31, 2008, 12:36:03 PM »
Glad you liked it.. Maybe I'll share it with the rest of the board sometime!. :D

Please feel free to do so.

As you can see, the forum members have a sense of humor and thoroughly enjoy some of the entertainment value provided.

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #405 on: January 31, 2008, 12:41:43 PM »
there's nothing phony about me buddy.

Maybe ... and maybe not.

What we know, with certainty, is that you post bogus "statistics" at your site. Those are clearly "phony".

We know that in the face of overwhelming evidence that contradicts your claims, you refuse to accept that evidence, and instead, stubbornly defend your position. That is pretty "phony".

We know, now, that you lack the courage of your convictions to follow-up your innuendo about RWD. That too, is quite "phony".

Eduard, actions speak MUCH MUCH louder than words.

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« Reply #406 on: January 31, 2008, 01:31:11 PM »
I admit that 1:8 stats were wrong and I changed that on my webswite.
I will repeat that it wasn't the number I just came up with but I read it somewhere, and according to my personal experience seeing so many more women than men every time I'm in Russia that number made sense to me. So this was not a concious decision to decieve anybody. I'm not the only one here stating that when in Russia it seems like there are a lot more women than men! So can we agree that the ratio of AVAILABLE/MARRIAGE MINDED men to women is not 1:8 but it certainly not 1:1 ? is that fair?

Bruno mentioned that I've only been married for a bit over 3 years. That is true. But I knew exactly the type of girl I was marrying and believe me there is not going to be a divorce unless she catches me cheating or something of that magnitude. Yes Bruno, I am not the smartest man, and I'll be the first one to say that, you didn't have to throw that back at me.
Yet, I can tell an incincere/gold digger RW in a matter of one conversation most of the time. Others who are very good at acting will take me a couple of days to figure out. You on the other hand married one, and did that after communicating with her for such a long time! Now I'm not going to say that this happened because you weren't smart. But I will say that it happened because there was a language and cultural barrier even though you were able to communicate on some reasonable level.

Did you know that an average RW will act and talk different with a WM then she would with a RM?
I've been asked many times by my clients: "how come she seems a totally different person when she is talking with you - relaxed, talkative. And when her and I are communicating she seems to be in a shell, doesn't say much and just seems to have a different personality?" And by the way this was asked about girls that speak decent english and were able to go on dates with my clients without me tagging alone.  
It's the level of comfort. With me they feel comfortable and are being themselves. With a foreigner they do act quite differently usually.
Now some of you will probably scream: "another sales pitch!!!" But I am simply stating what I have observed over and over again. I'm sure that if you ask any other Russian who happened to observe RW interract with a WM they would confirm that.
So Bruno, you said something about blind leading the blind, but from where I stand that actually would apply to you and people that you give advice to. No matter what you do and and how good your prospective bride's english or french is, you will not understand her, know her, feel her vibe as good as a native Russian speaker will.

Last night this guy with a watermelon called me a phoney, but I assure you that a phoney I'm not! I believe in everything that I tell you here and I am a man of integrity.
I'm not a professional salesman, so sometimes I might be coming on too strong and to some of you it sounds like a sales pitch, but the reality is that I believe in what I say and what I say is based on much personal experience.

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #407 on: January 31, 2008, 02:46:30 PM »
I fully believe that you have confidence in your words, but so do guys who believe that their RW will arrive to their local airport. ;)
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I've been asked many times by my clients: "how come she seems a totally different person when she is talking with you - relaxed, talkative. And when her and I are communicating she seems to be in a shell, doesn't say much and just seems to have a different personality?" And by the way this was asked about girls that speak decent english and were able to go on dates with my clients without me tagging alone. 
My answer: when talking to you there they have no feeling, they do not think on how they should react or if they will say or do something that is looked at as wrong. Against a potential mate (or someone they find very different from their initial ideas) women will react different, as they want to impress and look at every move. Nothing to do with you or your personality. You could be substituted for any friend, interpreter or other person.
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« Reply #408 on: January 31, 2008, 04:40:02 PM »
I fully believe that you have confidence in your words, but so do guys who believe that their RW will arrive to their local airport. ;)
well, do back up your claim that what I say is just as naive and rediculous as that. If it was, would I be happily married to a RW and raising a 2 year old child with her? Would the other 16 men that I helped (and 5 more awaiting visa aproval) be happily married and sware by my program?


My answer: when talking to you there they have no feeling, they do not think on how they should react or if they will say or do something that is looked at as wrong. Against a potential mate (or someone they find very different from their initial ideas) women will react different, as they want to impress and look at every move. Nothing to do with you or your personality. You could be substituted for any friend, interpreter or other person.
Even if you were absolutely right about this, wouldn't a client benefit from his girl being totally open and unpretencious with me? I can guarantee you that if Bruno had me with him when he met with his ex-wife, I would have realised what she was about at most within a couple of days, but more likely within the first few minutes. Furthermore, if he used me as an interpretor from the beginning of their communication I would have picked up on her GD tendencies and would have adviced him to move on, because there are plenty of genuine and down to earth women to choose from.
When Russian is your native language you pick up little nuances, intonations, key words, facial expressions, eye movements, body language, etc. And if you pay attention to those you can tell a lot about a person within a short period of time. Now, please, do not use me for that, hire someone local if they are a good interpretor but for god's sake do not tell people that it's all nonesense and makes as much sense as expecting your RW to arrive at your local airport!
 
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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #409 on: February 01, 2008, 02:12:38 AM »
I am not telling that if there is a language gap having someone to bridge it is nonsense. What I am telling is that your sales pitch that you believe in your own words is just that. If you do not believe in your own words, who will ?
Would you come here, make all your bold statements and defend them till death against other opinions if you know what you tell is a load of baloney ? Would you defend your statistic of 8:1 unless you believed in it ?
Of course not. And there for your statement that you believe in your own words does not make those words true, just like your statistic was not true. It is great that you believe in yourself, but believing in yourself does not make what you believe in the absolute truth.
Any guy who falls for the visa and ticket scam believes that he can make a woman fall on live by mail, and believes that he will live happy with her forever. If such a belief would be enough, we would not need any advise.

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« Reply #410 on: February 01, 2008, 08:03:04 AM »
I thought we were passed 1:8 thing? I explained already that that statistic looked about right to me from what I observed on so many occasions in Russia.
Anyone who spent any amount of time in Russia would confirm that that would be an impression one gets there. Some one else wrote earlier in this thread saying that his lady observed the ratio of 4 boys to 18 girls, I believe in a class, and said that it was a usual occurrence in Yoshkar Ola. No one commented on that for  some reason, care to comment, Shadow?
After looking at the government birth stats I conceded that that was the wrong number and changed that on my site. What else do you expect I wonder?
If you are so knowledgable about Russia why don't you come up with what the number of available, marriage minded men is to women there?
Or do you honestly think that it is 1:1?
You also said yourself that a RW would feel a lot more comfortable and wouldn't have to put up a front talking to me, don't you think that that could be an asset when a WM is trying to figure out what she is about? Or is waiting till she gets her green card to find out her true intentions makes more sense to you?
How long have you been married to a RW or searching for one?

Bruno mentioned that I've only been married to RW for 3 years (actually it's almost 4) and I'm yet "to find out" well Bruno, unlike most of you guys, I dated RWs since I was 15. Then after my divorce with my American wife (we spent 15 years together) I met a RW right here in Tampa Bay, FL who was also going through a divorce at the same time I was going through mine. This was an immediate attraction and chemistry was powerful. But from the very beginning I felt that her values and culture was quite different from the way I was raised. She was from Moldova and I was born and raised in Moscow. She was a stunning looking woman and after a 15 year marriage was a lot of fun and exciting to be with. Well, I spent 7 years living with her and she taught me a lot! I finally decided to break it off with her because I wanted children and didn't feel like I wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone who was manipulative, couldn't keep her word, lied on occasion and generally couldn't be trusted. She wasn't too bad of a person, but not the one that I'd want to have a family with. It was very tough for me to break it off with her, but I know that I did the right thing. I now have a woman in my life with exactly the same values and goals and Bruno, I sincerally wish that you will find the same and be as happy as I am.
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« Reply #411 on: February 01, 2008, 08:13:14 AM »
I will point out that the service that Eduard is selling is not new and is found in North America. A few months ago, there was an interesting article about a millionaire interviewing potential wives in Vancouver (Canada). This millionaire had hired a matchmaker to sift through all the candidates and find a few acceptable choices. According to the newspaper The Province:

A multi-millionaire widower in Vancouver is looking for a wife, and he has enlisted the services of a Manhattan matchmaker to help him find her.

The widower, who will only go by his first name, Bruce, is "tall, dark and handsome," said Manhattan matchmaker Janis Spindel, 50.

"He's well-traveled, extremely family-oriented and very, very sporty," Spindel said.

The millionaire, who is in his early 40s, believes Ms. Right will be found near his hometown.

Spindel will be at the Sutton Place Hotel on June 21, 22 and 23 to interview potential wives for the man, and encourages single women in the area who fit the criteria to apply.

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The ideal bachelorette should be 28 years or older, well-educated, sophisticated, athletic, preferably a non-smoker. She should also be "very attractive," "well-groomed" and in good shape.

Spindel has matched more than 760 couples into blissful matrimony since 1993 -- 40 of them this year. She said none of the marriages have ended in divorce.

Her clients are all male, well-educated, financially secure, and they're "picky, picky, picky, picky."

The cost for a bachelorette search can easily reach US $250,000. But Spindel believes she's worth it.

"They know I will never fit a square peg into a round hole. That's why they pay me the big bucks."

Spindel said she is looking for quality first, then quantity.

"I don't care how old they are, or what religion they are. They just need to be smart, gorgeous and successful. And if they're not great for him, they might be great for somebody else."

(source: http://www.canada.com/theprovince/news/story.html?id=dbb1c728-2071-4498-b636-a857eb530be7&k=39742)

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« Reply #412 on: February 01, 2008, 08:25:22 AM »
I thought we were passed 1:8 thing? I explained already that that statistic looked about right to me from what I observed on so many occasions in Russia.
Anyone who spent any amount of time in Russia would confirm that that would be an impression one gets there. Some one else wrote earlier in this thread saying that his lady observed the ratio of 4 boys to 18 girls, I believe in a class, and said that it was a usual occurrence in Yoshkar Ola. No one commented on that for  some reason, care to comment, Shadow?
After looking at the government birth stats I conceded that that was the wrong number and changed that on my site. What else do you expect I wonder?
If you are so knowledgable about Russia why don't you come up with what the number of available, marriage minded men is to women there?
Or do you honestly think that it is 1:1?
You also said yourself that a RW would feel a lot more comfortable and wouldn't have to put up a front talking to me, don't you think that that could be an asset when a WM is trying to figure out what she is about? Or is waiting till she gets her green card to find out her true intentions makes more sense to you?
How long have you been married to a RW or searching for one?

Bruno mentioned that I've only been married to RW for 3 years (actually it's almost 4) and I'm yet "to find out" well Bruno, unlike most of you guys, I dated RWs since I was 15. Then after my divorce with my American wife (we spent 15 years together) I met a RW right here in Tampa Bay, FL who was also going through a divorce at the same time I was going through mine. This was an immediate attraction and chemistry was powerful. But from the very beginning I felt that her values and culture was quite different from the way I was raised. She was from Moldova and I was born and raised in Moscow. She was a stunning looking woman and after a 15 year marriage was a lot of fun and exciting to be with. Well, I spent 7 years living with her and she taught me a lot! I finally decided to break it off with her because I wanted children and didn't feel like I wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone who was manipulative, couldn't keep her word, lied on occasion and generally couldn't be trusted. She wasn't too bad of a person, but not the one that I'd want to have a family with. It was very tough for me to break it off with her, but I know that I did the right thing. I now have a woman in my life with exactly the same values and goals and Bruno, I sincerally wish that you will find the same and be as happy as I am.
having a baby is an unbelievable experience for me. It opened up the whole new dimension in life and gave my life the new purpose, the new direction.

>>I thought we were passed 1:8 thing? I explained already that that statistic looked about right to me from what I observed on so many occasions in Russia.
Anyone who spent any amount of time in Russia would confirm that that would be an impression one gets there. Some one else wrote earlier in this thread saying that his lady observed the ratio of 4 boys to 18 girls, I believe in a class, and said that it was a usual occurrence in Yoshkar Ola. No one commented on that for  some reason, care to comment, Shadow?
After looking at the government birth stats I conceded that that was the wrong number and changed that on my site. What else do you expect I wonder?
If you are so knowledgable about Russia why don't you come up with what the number of available, marriage minded men is to women there?
Or do you honestly think that it is 1:1?<<

Unless you are capable of performing an in-depth study of the legitimate statistics you have seen - or are prepared to commission that study - that FACTS are that the ratio of men to women in Russian and in Ukraine is, for all intents and purposes 1 : 1.

Now, since you want to diddle with the statistics, you will need to:

* focus on specific age groups
* possibly focus on specific regions, so as to confirm/refute possible regional variations
* bore into the statistics to determine numbers of married versus non-married
* bore into the statistics to determine differences in ALL statistics and parsed statistics to differentiate the sexes.
* possibly correlate OTHER data sources to determine number of women interested in foreign men
* most probably develop/find alternative sources to corroborate conclusions/hypotheses

Even with all this (and more), if you are to present your conclusions HONESTLY, you would need to characterize the results of your study AND ITS LIMITATIONS.

Eduard - this is a classic case where you were asked the simplest of questions - simply to cite a reference. A feeding frenzy ensued because you were (and seemingly, still ARE) so locked-on to your belief, you refuse to accept the evidence which is all around you. If you had been the least bit open-minded, you would have accepted the FACTS, and simply returned here to say; "OK, I cannot find the previous stats - what has been presented here is compelling - I have changed my site to reflect it - sorry for possibly misleading anyone with what I wrote previously." If you made such a statement - and you 'sort of' came to that conclusion after 3 or 4 pages and 4 or 5 days of arguing, then you would have seen a VASTLY different response.

Of course - I am still waiting for you to develop some courage and address your insinuation about RWD being an "agency driven forum."

- Dan

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #413 on: February 01, 2008, 08:56:20 AM »
What a crock. How much longer is this BS going to flow?

Eddie- you need to shut up and genrerate something positive. To claim ignorance of already disproven agency scheiss does not make you look well at all. You look at best like an amateur.

you actually look like a hack right now. sounding just like another scumbag big agency owner trying to pry some hard earned shekels with some desperate advertising and trying baffle with BS.

This is what you look like. It may not be true but this is what you look like. And as far as attacking people to try to make your points-do not waste your time. Many of these people will still be here long after you have worn out your welcome.

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #414 on: February 01, 2008, 09:23:21 AM »
Eduard, unlike you I do not like to be a broken record and repeat myself. You asked the same in reply 222 and I gave you the answer in reply 229.
My example with the 8:1 thing was to prove that confidence in your own words do not make them true. Instead you move again to make it looked like I attacked the interpreting instead of the sales pitch. I already made it clear that if there is a barrier any interpreter will be of great help, and gave an explanation why it is for people more easy to talk to an interpreter as to talk to their dates.
Regarding the college in Y.O. I did see a reply of someone that if you look in a technical college you will find the exact opposite (25 guys on 1 woman was mentioned).

All I expect you is to stop digging that hole before you reach the other side of the planet.

Good that you changed the information on your site, it shows that you are capable of learning. ;)
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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #415 on: February 23, 2008, 06:26:43 PM »
This came in email from a RWD member who is my client now.
I couldn't have said it better myself! This is just the beginning of the letter and he did give me permission to post it here:

Hi Eduard,

I've been reading your posts on RWD and I agree with your views completely. I don't waste my time posting on RWD because I feel I have better things to do than argue with a bunch of know-it-alls. Most of those guys couldn't get a decent girl in the USA if their lives depended on it and they act like they are the only ones who have the GAME to get quality women.

I am interested in your services and would like to know about costs. I am a consultant and I have my own business. I start a new project tomorrow and it is scheduled to end at the end of June. July would be a perfect time to travel.

I like your idea of meeting women that are not on the dating sites. I am a high-paid consultant and my clients see the value of my expertise. So I place value on someone like you who has the experience and expertise in finding a good wholesome girl and avoiding the scammers and pro-daters. I did alright on my own in the past but I feel with your help I will get better results than if I did it on my own again.

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« Reply #416 on: February 23, 2008, 08:14:56 PM »
This came in email from a RWD member who is my client now.
I couldn't have said it better myself! This is just the beginning of the letter and he did give me permission to post it here:

Hi Eduard,

I've been reading your posts on RWD and I agree with your views completely. I don't waste my time posting on RWD because I feel I have better things to do than argue with a bunch of know-it-alls. Most of those guys couldn't get a decent girl in the USA if their lives depended on it and they act like they are the only ones who have the GAME to get quality women.

I am interested in your services and would like to know about costs. I am a consultant and I have my own business. I start a new project tomorrow and it is scheduled to end at the end of June. July would be a perfect time to travel.

I like your idea of meeting women that are not on the dating sites. I am a high-paid consultant and my clients see the value of my expertise. So I place value on someone like you who has the experience and expertise in finding a good wholesome girl and avoiding the scammers and pro-daters. I did alright on my own in the past but I feel with your help I will get better results than if I did it on my own again.


Ohhhhhhh SUUUUURRRRE- Like we all really, really, REALLY believe you now. Did you write that one yourself or did you have your child do it? The flavor is just you and your alter-ego supporting the unsupportable.

Eddie- you have NO CRED. . . . . . .

PLEASE go away- and take your pseudo-members and proto-clients with you.

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #417 on: February 23, 2008, 08:46:42 PM »
Wm3rd,

I don't think Eduard wrote it. 

The writing style seems very much like that of one man who has posted a few times at RWD but not recently. 

Executives with limited time could use a good service.  This begs the question of why would a man want to marry a woman selected not by himself but found, groomed and tethered by someone else. 

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« Reply #418 on: February 23, 2008, 09:16:41 PM »
This came in email from a RWD member who is my client now.
I couldn't have said it better myself! This is just the beginning of the letter and he did give me permission to post it here:

Hi Eduard,

I've been reading your posts on RWD and I agree with your views completely. I don't waste my time posting on RWD because I feel I have better things to do than argue with a bunch of know-it-alls. Most of those guys couldn't get a decent girl in the USA if their lives depended on it and they act like they are the only ones who have the GAME to get quality women.

I am interested in your services and would like to know about costs. I am a consultant and I have my own business. I start a new project tomorrow and it is scheduled to end at the end of June. July would be a perfect time to travel.

I like your idea of meeting women that are not on the dating sites. I am a high-paid consultant and my clients see the value of my expertise. So I place value on someone like you who has the experience and expertise in finding a good wholesome girl and avoiding the scammers and pro-daters. I did alright on my own in the past but I feel with your help I will get better results than if I did it on my own again.

These are the two things that jumped out at me.  How does he define "I did alright"?

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« Reply #419 on: February 23, 2008, 09:56:41 PM »
Wm3rd,

I don't think Eduard wrote it. 

The writing style seems very much like that of one man who has posted a few times at RWD but not recently. 

Executives with limited time could use a good service.  This begs the question of why would a man want to marry a woman selected not by himself but found, groomed and tethered by someone else. 
Gator, you are absolutely correct. I didn't write that, just copied and pasted. you have a much better perception than Billie. I trully regret that this man doesn't want to post his opinions here, but he told me that he doesn't want to be dragged into this and I have to respect his wishes.
in regard to this statement: This begs the question of why would a man want to marry a woman selected not by himself but found, groomed and tethered by someone else. 
I think you missunderstand what it is that I do. I do not select women, I do not groom women for them and I do not tether anyone or anything.
I simply perform searches applying a client's criteria, read through profiles that come up in search results, contact the women that fit CLIENT's criteria (not mine) and if and when I get a positive responce I forward all the profile info and photos to a client. If HE is interested in a girl they start writing each other and I strictly act as a translator and advisor (I will advise my client if something she writes sets off a red flag or on some cultural issues) It is HIS choice to take my advice or to leave it.
Basically all i do is remove the language and cultural barriers, but my client is completely in control.

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #420 on: February 23, 2008, 11:35:56 PM »
 :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:

Are you guys ready for this????

Do you want to hear the punchline???

Want to know who wrote it? This is really too ridiculous for words and once I name the person two people will deny it (The writer and Eddie) and the rest of us will just laugh our butts off!

Eduard...  those who'd "been successful" can see through you and those who are still dreaming really want to believe you...  sadly,  most of us know it's just a scam and the process of posting anonymous letters is just a part of "the confidence trick".

Do you want to name the mysterious letter-writer or should I?


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Come to think of it...  there's potential for this to turn into a vwrw/mila/turbo fiasco...

Eduard, please continue!   ;)

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Re: Ask me, I've done it! and have been married for 3 years happily!
« Reply #422 on: February 24, 2008, 04:11:59 AM »
Perhaps we can offer a challenge to Eduard. We name a client and he can show his talent by getting this client hooked up.
How about.... Prince Alfie ?  :P
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« Reply #423 on: February 24, 2008, 05:49:05 AM »
Come to think of it...  there's potential for this to turn into a vwrw/mila/turbo fiasco...

Eduard, please continue!   ;)

The fiasco was only something you were dreaming about, when you had your psychical crisis and begun to talk to yourself.

Eduard, the best way to deal with this clown exposing himself as mighty dick is to ignore him. As we say in FSU, one should not be upset/frustrated/offended with this… kind of people.
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« Reply #424 on: February 24, 2008, 06:39:03 AM »
The fiasco was only something you were dreaming about, when you had your psychical crisis and begun to talk to yourself.

Eduard, the best way to deal with this clown exposing himself as mighty dick is to ignore him. As we say in FSU, one should not be upset/frustrated/offended with this… kind of people.


Foul, disgusting... AND deluded!

You may want to reinvent history but you were the one that played that little charade out...  now don't be so offensive or we may not believe you're the wonderful, innocent little RW like we are asked to believe!

 :ROFL:

Tick Tick Tick...  only time will tell with you!   ;) 

Shhhh... and it's OK, I won't tell anyone if you don't! 

 

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