Vincenzo's thread and Mamba debate

[Vincenzo]

Yes, a real meeting can destroy everything.

Compare these two situations:
1. You've written a girl a couple messages, you've never seen her on video.
2. You've written a multitude of personal letters, you know her real appearance, you've sent flowers to express your feelings.

You won't look as a complete stranger after you've done things listed in the situation 2. It's a great boost.
Of course, an alpha male can do nothing and succeed.

[Patagonie]

Yes, a real meeting can destroy everything.

Compare these two situations:
1. You've written a girl a couple messages, you've never seen her on video.
2. You've written a multitude of personal letters, you know her real appearance, you've sent flowers to express your feelings.

You won't look as a complete stranger after you've done things listed in the situation 2. It's a great boost.
Of course, an alpha male can do nothing and succeed.

I choice this option : "Of course, an alpha male can do nothing and succeed."
 
So i economize stamps, flowers, ink and paper.

[Patagonie]

Yes, a real meeting can destroy everything.

Compare these two situations:
1. You've written a girl a couple messages, you've never seen her on video.
2. You've written a multitude of personal letters, you know her real appearance, you've sent flowers to express your feelings.

You won't look as a complete stranger after you've done things listed in the situation 2. It's a great boost.
Of course, an alpha male can do nothing and succeed.

This is the correct form

[Vincenzo]

This is the correct form

It's correct only if you don't get the feeling of joy when you see your lady on video and send her flowers.

I agree that you shouldn't present flowers if it's a mamba or agency girl. Most are not serious or even real.

[Jack]

Vincenzo I for one know that all men are different, just as all women are different. Their are very few "exacts", very few, if any, "always" in this most wonderful pursuit.  To me it's obvious you have your prefered methods, prefered means about pursuing a Rus/Ukr wife.  Which is fine.  Each and every guy should go about this in the means and manners he feels most comfortable with.  You certaintly are.  But I will say this based on many things you have written,  ....  you don't know schit!

[ML]

Agree with Jack's last sentence.

[Patagonie]

Vincenzo I for one know that all men are different, just as all women are different. Their are very few "exacts", very few, if any, "always" in this most wonderful pursuit.  To me it's obvious you have your prefered methods, prefered means about pursuing a Rus/Ukr wife.  Which is fine.  Each and every guy should go about this in the means and manners he feels most comfortable with.  You certaintly are.  But I will say this based on many things you have written,  ....  you don't know schit!

+1 

[Vincenzo]

Yeah, I  know nothing.
My statement was "While searching on Mamba, you'll waste tremendous amount of time."
So far, I've heard numbers: wrote to 1,000 girls, spent a month in a city meeting, etc.
 

[Sky_Blood]

Mamba is good place to find, as it was mentioned, one nite stand.
I have my profile there and i get many messages everyday...i never considred it somewhat serious. So if I had my mind set my on international marriage and was looking for something long termed...it wouldn't be Mamba
Good luck to those who gonna check it out

[Alex from Ukraine]

Sky_Blood, you can find what you are looking for on MAMBA, one-night-stand or long term and marriage. I met several that I liked, was living with one of the girls for few months, got a break for a year, and got married to another one when I was not really looking It all depends on what you are looking for! So don't say that the girls on that site are not serious, please! And it's far more better than pay-per letter sites where you get pre-written letters all the time sent out bulk by local agencies who deal with bigger ones

[Misha]

Mamba is good place to find, as it was mentioned, one nite stand.
I have my profile there and i get many messages everyday...i never considred it somewhat serious. So if I had my mind set my on international marriage and was looking for something long termed...it wouldn't be Mamba
Good luck to those who gonna check it out

Yes, if you are a woman, strategically mamba is not a good choice if you are specifically looking for a foreign husband. There will be too few foreign men and they will likely be cautious if a woman writes first. However, for men, it is another story. It is possible to use it to find either a one-night stand or a wife. I found the latter, a beautiful wonderful woman who has been with me for five years...

[Jack]

Why are hurricanes normally named after women?

     Have you ever heard of a himicane?

[Sky_Blood]

     Have you ever heard of a himicane?

Nope) I would appreciate if U helped me to enrich my vocabulary

Sky_Blood, you can find what you are looking for on MAMBA, one-night-stand or long term and marriage. It all depends on what you are looking for! So don't say that the girls on that site are not serious, please! And it's far more better than pay-per letter sites where you get pre-written letters all the time sent out bulk by local agencies who deal with bigger ones

Agreed that it all depends. And I don't say girls there aren't serious) I am there myself and believe me I am super serious  To tell u the truth, I am prejudiced against Mamba, but glad for those who found what they were looking for there

Yes, if you are a woman, strategically mamba is not a good choice if you are specifically looking for a foreign husband. There will be too few foreign men and they will likely be cautious if a woman writes first. However, for men, it is another story.

I believe U. Never been a foreign man looking for girls)

[Jack]

Nope) I would appreciate if U helped me to enrich my vocabulary

    It is old joke Sky  blood.   When I was a kid the joke was  "why are hurricanes always named after women"  as they were at that time.     And the reply was "Have you ever heard of a  himicane"?       Get it Sky blood?     Her icane,   Him icane? 

[Sky_Blood]

    It is old joke Sky  blood.   When I was a kid the joke was  "why are hurricanes always named after women"  as they were at that time.     And the reply was "Have you ever heard of a  himicane"?       Get it Sky blood?     Her icane,   Him icane?

  yeah i get it now lol
 Never heard it before) TY

[Misha]

How is it possible to mail to 1,500 women without using templates?

If you're in love, she feels it. A man acts differently.
Why not? What's good about sitting lonely in your room? They you call her and her smile lightens the room.

Are you already in love when you write your first message? This is what you seem to be implying: you fall in love with a photo and that is why you do not want to write to any more women. The way it works when you write 1500 women is as follows. You write a few dozen women. A few will reply. You will then chat with them and discover that most are not what you are looking for or you are not what they want. You then start all over until you find one or some women that you want to meet. You will need to send hundred of introductory messages, not "love letters," to find that one or those few potential candidates. Then, when you meet in real life, it may be a bust, so you will have to contact even more women...

[Alex from Ukraine]

Misha, I think that some men who use "anastasiadate" type of sites beleive that women will jump on them as soon as they get out of the plane in Ukraine or Russia! Ha ha ha )))) So why bother writing 1500 introduction letters?????

[tim 360]

How is it possible to mail to 1,500 women without using templates?

If you're in love, she feels it. A man acts differently.
Why not? What's good about sitting lonely in your room? They you call her and her smile lightens the room.

1500 intro letters?  Vinnie you are ambitous, I'll give ya that. 

[Vincenzo]

1500 intro letters?  Vinnie you are ambitous, I'll give ya that. 

It's not me. Quotes:

On my last trip to Novosibirsk I wrote to hundreds of women.  Perhaps 500 or 600.  Tons.

Last year in setting up a WMVM trip, I sent first message to perhaps 500 gals on Mamba in a particular city.

[Vincenzo]

Misha, I think that some men who use "anastasiadate" type of sites beleive that women will jump on them as soon as they get out of the plane in Ukraine or Russia! Ha ha ha )))) So why bother writing 1500 introduction letters?????

How do you know? Anastasia girls don't meet anybody at the airport unless their visitors pay.
 
 If I write 1,500 letters to a special girl, after I selected her among others, she'll definitely meet me. It's not very difficult if you add SMS messages + Skype.

[Misha]

If I write 1,500 letters to a special girl, after I selected her among others, she'll definitely meet me.

How do you she is special before you write her? My only conclusion: you were infatuated with a photo, wrote her and now you are "in love" before meeting. Maybe you'll be lucky, but that is quite the risky proposition based on my personal experience 

[Alex from Ukraine]

Vince, I see that you don't have much experience. Yes, sure, Anastasia girl will meet you even if you wirte 1 letter to her! Many agency girls  W O R K  for their agencies and they get commission on everything. You pay $20 an hour for interpreter, the girl gets $5-$7, you pay $70-$100 for apartment, the girl gets $10-$20, you send $300 for English classes, the girl gets $100 and so on and so on... Now imagine there are 10 guys like you chasing one girl, she makes more money than you do man


Do you really think there are thousands of girls 18-20y.o. looking for a foreing guy up to 50-55???? There are so many of them because they got recruited by local agencies at night clubs, streets, shopping centers. They are students who have no money and they don't mind to make few $$$ on a side, they don't need to do anything, just go for photo session once in a while, go out with some guy and smile. 

[Vincenzo]

How do you she is special before you write her? My only conclusion: you were infatuated with a photo, wrote her and now you are "in love" before meeting. Maybe you'll be lucky, but that is quite the risky proposition based on my personal experience 

Not only a photo, hundreds of photos, also videos and online Skype, her letters, etc.
Yes, my sister told me that the girl was very beautiful and I could get burned. That's life, at least I should try.

How to make her fall in love with me and maintain the fire? That's my biggest problem now. When I go there, I'll be at the same level as local men. I must do something beforehand.

[Vincenzo]

Vince, I see that you don't have much experience. Yes, sure, Anastasia girl will meet you

At least, if you pay money for a date with an Anastasia's girl, she'll show up and her look will be close to her photoshopped photos.
Will a Mamba girl show up? 50%. What about her photos and description?

[Sky_Blood]

Do you really think there are thousands of girls 18-20y.o. looking for a foreing guy up to 50-55????

  True. Here r NO such girls.
Not only foreign, but even local. Young girls mostly look for wealthy good looking guys in their mid thirties.
Well if super wealthy...then yes some girls may go for it. 
Real feelings? Chance is 1 to 1.000.000