Vincenzo's thread and Mamba debate

[Vincenzo]

The first lady is certainly better than the second one with 2 children.
I can meet 20 second ones without a hiccup. What's the purpose?

Do you know how to entice the First Lady? I don't.
You can send her your template message, adding, "I'll be in Moscow soon and I want to meet you for an hour."
By the way, her response rate is 1%. It means 100 people have written "Pruvet" and she's answered once.

[Misha]

Do you know how to entice the First Lady? I don't.

The first woman is average IMHO. Honestly, I just used the Russian equivalent of "heyyyy whazzup" and never had much of a problem getting a response. Most women will simply look at your photo and see if they could potentially be interested.  It is not so difficult.

By the way, her response rate is 1%. It means 100 people have written "Pruvet" and she's answered once.

Where do you see her "response" rate?

[Vincenzo]

It's called "Reply Rate".
I examined the first lady's profile, it mentions her very low reply rate. So, you should be very creative writing a message to her. Good luck with "whassup".

You said that a man should meet only average looking ladies.
So, 20 more like the first lady with 1% reply rate, and you're ready to travel.

[Patagonie]

Why hadn't you arranged your visit at the time when your perfect lady was available?

Because Vincenzo i didn't know that she was a match for me (may we use the word match rather than "perfect lady" ?) wich is a TEMPORARY naming till the contrary is proven.

Because Vincenzo
 i had never felt her, had never smell her, had never touched her, had never seen her moving, had never heard her voice and her breathe, had never felt her inner power, had never could appreciate her feminity
Because Vincenzo
She had never felt me, she had never smelt me, she had never touched me, she had never seen me moving, she had never heard my voice and my breathe, had never felt my inner power, had never could assess my male presence.

For all these excellent reasons, of course i would had not be able to contact her in advance.

[Misha]

It's called "Reply Rate".
I examined the first lady's profile, it mentions her very low reply rate. So, you should be very creative writing a message to her. Good luck with "whassup".

Here is a woman who is potentially very attractive, yet she has had few "visits" and yet had a relative high reply rate: http://www.mamba.ru/anketa.phtml?oid=640478474&hit=10&fromsearch

[Vincenzo]

Here is a woman who is potentially very attractive, yet she has had few "visits" and yet had a relative high reply rate: http://www.mamba.ru/anketa.phtml?oid=640478474&hit=10&fromsearch

Because she only looks for chatting. Yeah, good dating material.

[Misha]

Because she only looks for chatting. Yeah, good dating material.

You just don't get it do you.  A woman who is not married in Russia, who wants to chat, will invariably be interested in marriage if she meets the right man. In any case, good luck with the woman you will be meeting. Let us know how it turns out...

[Vincenzo]

Because Vincenzo
 i had never felt her, had never smell her, had never touched her, had never seen her moving, had never heard her voice and her breathe, had never felt her inner power, had never could appreciate her feminity

You couldn't smell or touch her, but you could hear her voice, see her moving, etc via a high-quality webcam.

What now? Are you going to follow my path of trying to do romantic things to this perfect lady?

[Vincenzo]

You just don't get it do you.  A woman who is not married in Russia, who wants to chat, will invariably be interested in marriage if she meets the right man. In any case, good luck with the woman you will be meeting. Let us know how it turns out...

or she may have a boyfriend and is looking for a company. She's quiet about her marital status.
You can find somebody on Mamba, but you have to guess a lot.

I'm asking advice on how to make our meeting delightful and what to do beforehand. So far, advice is more like, "You may not love her, find somebody else." It's certainly easier to move to another lady, but I don't like easy solutions.

[Misha]

or she may have a boyfriend and is looking for a company. She's quiet about her marital status.
You can find somebody on Mamba, but you have to guess a lot.

No, it is called having a conversation. You share stuff about you, she shares stuff about her, you ask her about boyfriends etc....

I'm asking advice on how to make our meeting delightful. So far, advice is more like, "You may not love her, find somebody else." It's certainly easier to move to another lady, but I don't like easy solutions.

Based on what I have read, you only like easy solutions. You don't want to expend any energy in the search, you don't want any competition, you want to be guaranteed that she will love you and you do not want to make more than one trip....

[LAman]

Haven't been on Mamba site for couple years. Probably works better if looking for girl close to your age AND girl is at least late 20's. "Invariably looking for marriage if she meets right man", I don't think that is girls intention, yes it could move to that point...much more a social site. For the more veteran girls, they just cut out the 'middle man' and express their needs/wants.
On the positive, I practiced my russian there....just didn't have the time anymore, it does take up much time...and the price is right!!!

[Misha]

"Invariably looking for marriage if she meets right man", I don't think that is girls intention, yes it could move to that point...much more a social site.

IMHO, if a man is less obsessed with getting married to the first woman who catches his attention, the easier it is to be social and have a woman wanting more than friendship    The paradox: the harder you try, the more this drives away most women.

On the positive, I practiced my russian there....just didn't have the time anymore, it does take up much time...and the price is right!!!

LOL! You can't beat free 

[LAman]

IMHO, if a man is less obsessed with getting married to the first woman who catches his attention, the easier it is to be social and have a woman wanting more than friendship    The paradox: the harder you try, the more this drives away most women.



LOL! You can't beat free 

Misha, I only spoke of a girls intention on a social site....I found many looking for friendships not relationships.......depending on where they were in their lives.

[Vincenzo]

No, it is called having a conversation. You share stuff about you, she shares stuff about her, you ask her about boyfriends etc....

Based on what I have read, you only like easy solutions. You don't want to expend any energy in the search, you don't want any competition, you want to be guaranteed that she will love you and you do not want to make more than one trip....

Nah.
My solution is hard home work. I prefer to spend some time every day sending letters, entertaining the girl, doing romantic things, exploring the hobbies and characters of each other. It doesn't seem very hard because I enjoy it and get wonderful responses. For me, love is about small romantic things.

One trip to her place, other trips can be somewhere else because she likes traveling. You see, I know her desires.

I did some homework on these Mamba ladies.
I don't want to waste time conversing with the third lady. She is overweight, doesn't know languages, doesn't look for marriage...

I would say that only the first lady is worthy. She knows 4 languages, her profile is smart, she has many real photos...
Because it's Mamba, she receives many messages and doesn't reply. But you can always try to send your whazzup letter.

[Patagonie]

You couldn't smell or touch her, but you could hear her voice, see her moving, etc via a high-quality webcam.

What now? Are you going to follow my path of trying to do romantic things to this perfect lady?

If she spend so many time to move behind the camera :

Are you sure that you lady don't have a blasted cystitis ?

Or something is perhaps not well isolated in her flat and she gets short circuits ?

[Misha]

Because it's Mamba, she receives many messages and doesn't reply. But you can always try to send your whazzup letter.

Dude, I did and I am married. Just for you, here is a photo of my wife, taken the year we met. I will leave it up for an hour-or-so...

[Patagonie]

Dude, I did and I am married. Just for you, here is a photo of my wife, taken the year we met. I will leave it up for an hour-or-so...

romantical photo with the superposition on roses

[Misha]

romantical photo with the superposition on roses

Merci!

[Muzh]

Darn

[Vincenzo]

Of course, you're married because you have a Russian name. The original author is also Russian.

Millions Russians, Ukrainians, etc meet each other on Mamba, loveplanet, vkontakte, etc.
I don't argue.

Is it good for a long-distance relationship? Not so much. Most women on mamba don't want to meet even men from a nearby city.

[Vincenzo]

If she spend so many time to move behind the camera :

Are you sure that you lady don't have a blasted cystitis ?

Or something is perhaps not well isolated in her flat and she gets short circuits ?

I downloaded a few videos with her dancing. So beautiful.
She promised to teach me Argentine tango. Sorry, I'll have no time for other ladies.

[Patagonie]

I downloaded a few videos with her dancing. So beautiful.
She promised to teach me Argentine tango. Sorry, I'll have no time for other ladies.

If you saw her dancing, it's fine, i'm happy for your. And Argentine Tango is and sensual and a male dance. Good kino escaladation for the future, good point Vincenzo.

[Misha]

Of course, you're married because you have a Russian name. The original author is also Russian.

Millions Russians, Ukrainians, etc meet each other on Mamba, loveplanet, vkontakte, etc.
I don't argue.

Is it good for a long-distance relationship? Not so much. Most women on mamba don't want to meet even men from a nearby city.

I am not Russian, though I do speak Russian.


It is fascinating how you speak about the women on mamba in sweeping terms, yet it does not seem to me that you have much experience meeting women from mamba, and I do not know what kind of woman you were looking for...


The thing is, the women on mamba are pretty much like the women you meet in real life in Russia. Some are patriots and would never want to date let alone marry a foreigner. Most aren't looking for a foreigner, but many would be willing to go out on a date with a foreigner if only out of curiosity and others would be willing to marry a foreigner they fell in love with....


Yes, I know, you did not have much luck with mamba. Fair enough, but you are clearly overgeneralizing. Yes, you met some women who were not into you, but that does not mean that all the millions of women on such sites automatically won't be into any foreigner simply because you did not have much luck when you tried....

[Vincenzo]

Now, that you know, Patagonie, who is your Lady Number One, do something romantic.

Get her address in Moscow and send a beautiful bouquet with a charming note.
Ask her to send high-quality photos, print the one that you like and keep on your table.
When you skype, recite her a love poem in French. She will understand the word "amour" for sure.
Send her a hand-written letter and put love stamps.
What about this whole block?


She gave you a chance, she expects your action.

[Alex from Ukraine]

Hey, how did this thread got split in 2? I guess I missed something. Anyway, does anyone know why some of USA guys can't get REAL status on MAMBA site? It is only problem with US numbers and not with all of them. Do they have some kind of limitations or filters for messages coming from the Internet???