I search the man of my dream

[Muzh]

[user=300]M&M[/user] wrote:

And she has definitely got some nerve to ask him to come here and defend her!

Actually, Snowball repeatedly said that she didn't want hin to defend her!

[Frank]

If snowball was not supposed to defend her, then why did she tell him about the website?  What kind of self respecting guy is going to hang on to a woman he knows is searching for someone else, and to compound the situation, is using his aid in the process?  Also, what kind of woman is going to drag a mans nose through the gutter in her search for someone else? I think some of us need to pay attention to Elen's words. 

There are plenty of very beautiful women of good character to choose from and they don't have to show off their bodies to find a man.  These are the ones I call "Keepers". Look for the women who have respect for themselves, don't advertise their bodies too much and appear to have principles.  If they look one way, but say something else, you may be in for lots of trouble.  The women should have the same view of men also.  Well........have I made anyone angry:)

[Turboguy]

Frank, I hate to say it but a lot of the photos I used to get from women looking for a guy showed cleavage of some sort.   About the only ones that didn't were gals who didn't have any cleavage to show.   I will say her photo was a little more suggestive than most but I did receive far worse.  

I still think that she tried to use a photo that would attract a man's attention and it definatley did that.   She is a nice gal.   I wish snowball luck.  Perhaps I should call him waterball because I think she melted his heart and the rest of him as well.

It sounds to me that snowball is totally hooked and Miss Sensuality likes him a lot but is not ready for a commitment.   That could also be taken to be that she wants to see what her options are.   We do the same thing.

[Frank]

Frank, I hate to say it but a lot of the photos I used to get from women looking for a guy showed cleavage of some sort.   About the only ones that didn't were gals who didn't have any cleavage to show.   I will say her photo was a little more suggestive than most but I did receive far worse.   
 
I still think that she tried to use a photo that would attract a man's attention and it definatley did that.   She is a nice gal.   I wish snowball luck.  Perhaps I should call him waterball because I think she melted his heart and the rest of him as well.

It sounds to me that snowball is totally hooked and Miss Sensuality likes him a lot but is not ready for a commitment.   That could also be taken to be that she wants to see what her options are.   We do the same thing.

Turb, I think the cleavage is okay.  It just needs to be a little bit more conservative- in a respectible way.  As for assessing her intentions, I cannot tell if they are okay by the words coupled with the picture. The picture says one thing, the words another. I cannot judge- only suspect the motivation.  As for "waterball":), he is likely dealing with more than he should have to.  In no way am I judging his character, only his ability to see what is healthy and fair in a relationship.  I know for myself that I would not put up with it. Yes, we look at our options, but we don't usually recruit our options in to aiding with the search.  That is very disrespectful.

[MandM]

Turb, I think the cleavage is okay.  It just needs to be a little bit more conservative- in a respectible way.  As for assessing her intentions, I cannot tell if they are okay by the words coupled with the picture. The picture says one thing, the words another. I cannot judge- only suspect the motivation.  As for "waterball":), he is likely dealing with more than he should have to.  In no way am I judging his character, only his ability to see what is healthy and fair in a relationship.  I know for myself that I would not put up with it. Yes, we look at our options, but we don't usually recruit our options in to aiding with the search.  That is very disrespectful.

Totally agree. I can't understand why if she is looking for a man she would want everybody on this forum to see a picture of her sitting on somebody's lap. I know it wasn't her who posted the picture, but if I was a man that would put me right off.

[Turboguy]

I have to agree with about everything that is said here.  I think there are some unknowns that figure into all this that we will never be in a position to know.

As far as waterball:D  My analaisis of it is that he is probably one of the nicest guys that walks the earth.  I think Miss Sinsuallity (that was an accidental misspelling but I thought it was funny enough I left it and edited in this comment) is the hottest and prettiest gal he as been with since he was a young dude and he is as deep in lust as you could be.  I see a little insecurity in his letters.   I think he is wants to wrap her up before someone else comes along and snatches her out from under him.  I would bet he lays awake some nights worrying about that.

As far as Miss Sensuality, I think she is attractive, built nice and seems to speak very sincerley in her posts.   Her photo is very aluring but I think some people could easiy take it as too suggestive.  Probabably just a bit more under wraps could have been better but I spend a lot of my time working in advertising and that is showing off your product in a very desirable way. 

Personally I think she is not totally convinced that waterball is the person she wants to spend her life with but she sees a lot of good qualities in him and is definatley not writting him off.  If she is willing to spend that much time with him she is interested.  I think he would be a good husband for her.   I wish him luck.  I hope we get to find out what happens.   This place is sort of like a soap opera sometimes.

[Muzh]

 Yes, we look at our options, but we don't usually recruit our options in to aiding with the search.  That is very disrespectful.

Gentlemen:

I'm at a loss.  Most of the posters here are looking at "girls" at least 20 years younger than them but want these girls to dress and behave at least 30 years older than what they are.  If you want a "conservative-looking woman" look for a 40 something YO babushka.

Let me give you a small hint.  A 20 year old will behave childish compared to a 45 year old man.  And please don't give me that crap that young RW behave older than their age.  Here is Marina, a 23 year old cuttie behaving her age, and because she is behaving her age she is disrespectful to a bunch of people in here.

We have a saying back home: Don't expect apples from a pear tree.

And this BS about recruiting our options being disrespectful?  What are the biggest selling points of you guys on this and other lists?  Better living, no drunken fool since ALL RM are, big house, children.  Children, yes.  A fifty something old fart changing diapers and sleepless nights.  HA!  Cable TV, two cars, more money, airplanes, yatchs, romantic getaways to exotic paradise.

She offers her cleavage and legs in return for a better living, etc, etc.  Isn't that what we have been doing for generations?

Double standards???

[Elen]

She offers her cleavage and legs in return for a better living, etc, etc.  Isn't that what we have been doing for generations?

Double standards???

But she didn't speak about "exchange" she spoke about love and "traditional" family values  (though it's strange but even in my "childish" 20s I had another representation about these things :? Obviously I was "babushka" even in those times)

Any way I'm off from this thread to some place with funny stories about scammers:P

I count to see you there guys;).. soon

[Frank]

Double standards???

 

Muzh, this is not double standards.  Would you appreciate a lady you really are emphatuated with recruiting you to help her in her search for another man?  I don't think so. Would you put out the effort to help her?  Some guys and some gals both use each other.  Some people are willing to be abused in order to get what they want.  I would not allow it.  I don't abuse (emotionally) and don't wish to be abused.  "Waterball" seems to be very attached and loyal.  I don't question his intentions or loyalty, just wether or not his emphatuation is misplaced.   Yes, she is a young lady and obviously is selling this feature, but that is not my big concern.  My big concern is her keeping him on the line and using him to fish for others.  I fear she is using him as her door mat.  If a man uses only the physical for criteria for finding a life mate, he is not thinking the head on his shoulders.  He will likely be restarting his search again in a few years.  What is in the heart and mind?  That is what matters.  I don't think poorly of anyone.  I just think this guy needs to get some commitment or let her go.  I also think she needs to stop using him to aid in her fishing, make a commitment or let him go. 

As far as what I have to offer; love, kindness, respect, honor, politeness, trustworthyness, loyalty, as well as many other qualities.  "Things" in life don't matter to me.  They don't bring happiness.  I did not use "Things" to attract my wife. And yes, my wife is damn gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D  Do you know what?  She is also damn smart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D

[best-snowball]

Sorry guys you are all wrong. She was with me from 25th March to 11 April That is why she did not write

If you have been writing to her for months, asked her to marry you, she did not say yes or no, she was with you from March til April, why is she posting here (in March) to find a good man?  Something here does not make sense.

Is it the obvious?
[/quote]
Well in the first place she posted this back on the 7th of March At that time we where just writing to each other seeing what we liked and dislike what we had in common so on and so on. When she posted this we did not know if I was going to see her. She had just been hurt by some dumb jerk that lied to her about everything they will fid these things out when you apply for the visa. After she accepted his preposal for marriage he start treat her like she was dirt and that she should thankful to him for wanting to marry her. Well that traught her a lesson now she is very careful of any man. She did not know me in real time only though e-mails and phone calls. So why wouldn't she keep her post up until she knows for sure that I am the right MAN for her.

[best-snowball]

Yes:D For me it was all obvious from the beginning:P

After reading all your negative comments it is very obvious that you hate all Beautiful girls.

[best-snowball]

[user=300]M&M[/user] wrote:

I thought I was the only one who was puzzled by this!

Obviously, she doesn't think snowball is good enough for her, but still keeps him handy just in case no-one better comes along. And she has definitely got some nerve to ask him to come here and defend her! She might be smart, intelligent and whatever else snowball said about her, but I agree with Elen - whatever she is wearing (or not wearing, for that matter) is inappropriate if she is searching for good husband. Very appealing for sex tourists though!

Well here someone else that jumps in the middle of something without reading all the posts first. Had you read them you would had known that I had said that she DID NOT want me to write anything on this broad. She thinks these comments are funny. Well when I know some one is bad mouthing some one that they don't know anything about and I just so happen to care for that person I will stand up for that person. I was traught to have respect for people if you can not say anything nice about them then don't say anything. There is nothing wrong in the way that she is dress. With the hundred's of thousand of women on the internet you have to do something that will catch men eyes and you have to admit that whether you like it that way are not I Russian beautiful women dress very sexy but in their country it does not mean they are sluts. Some one is frocing you to like her or to look at her. Every person has their own taste that's what makes this world so great. It would be a sad world if we all liked the same thing. She has 1000's of letters and offers but as I have said before she is very smart. Right now we are working on our relatioship and where we are going to take it. There will always be plenty of guys who would gladly take my place but that is not what she is looking for. She is very serious about what she is wanting for a husband and I tell you there are men out there but they are very few.

[best-snowball]

And she has definitely got some nerve to ask him to come here and defend her!

Actually, Snowball repeatedly said that she didn't want hin to defend her!
[/quote]Thank you at least some people do read these before they speak Thank you again

[best-snowball]

If snowball was not supposed to defend her, then why did she tell him about the website?  What kind of self respecting guy is going to hang on to a woman he knows is searching for someone else, and to compound the situation, is using his aid in the process?  Also, what kind of woman is going to drag a mans nose through the gutter in her search for someone else? I think some of us need to pay attention to Elen's words. 

There are plenty of very beautiful women of good character to choose from and they don't have to show off their bodies to find a man.  These are the ones I call "Keepers". Look for the women who have respect for themselves, don't advertise their bodies too much and appear to have principles.  If they look one way, but say something else, you may be in for lots of trouble.  The women should have the same view of men also.  Well........have I made anyone angry:)

Now there you go assuming that she told me about the site sorry to blow your bubble but came across the site all by my little self. When I talk to Marina about it she thought that some of you was funny. Well I look at things just a little differently. I respect people and I feel that we should all respect each other. As I  have said before if you can't say anything nice then don't said anything.

[best-snowball]

Frank, I hate to say it but a lot of the photos I used to get from women looking for a guy showed cleavage of some sort.   About the only ones that didn't were gals who didn't have any cleavage to show.   I will say her photo was a little more suggestive than most but I did receive far worse.  

I still think that she tried to use a photo that would attract a man's attention and it definatley did that.   She is a nice gal.   I wish snowball luck.  Perhaps I should call him waterball because I think she melted his heart and the rest of him as well.

It sounds to me that snowball is totally hooked and Miss Sensuality likes him a lot but is not ready for a commitment.   That could also be taken to be that she wants to see what her options are.   We do the same thing.

Thank You for very true thoughts. All some of these guys got to do is go on the web and Marina will look like she is dress for church. I even had one girl that was writing to me to tell me to go to a webpage that she posted I would not beleive my eyes. Now all these people that are talking bad about Marina well i GUESS THEY WOULD JUST DIE Because Marina was just hurt by this other jerk she wants to make sure that she is not going to let that happen again and I respect her for that I don't have to like it but that is what happens when you have jerks out here screwing over beautiful LADIES.so I will respect her wishes and hope that I will prove to her that I am not a jerk and that I am a very honest and open MAN and I will always treat her with great RESPECT Again thank you

[best-snowball]

[user=46]Frank[/user] wrote:
Turb, I think the cleavage is okay.  It just needs to be a little bit more conservative- in a respectible way.  As for assessing her intentions, I cannot tell if they are okay by the words coupled with the picture. The picture says one thing, the words another. I cannot judge- only suspect the motivation.  As for "waterball":), he is likely dealing with more than he should have to.  In no way am I judging his character, only his ability to see what is healthy and fair in a relationship.  I know for myself that I would not put up with it. Yes, we look at our options, but we don't usually recruit our options in to aiding with the search.  That is very disrespectful.

I was NOT recruited in helping her to look for anyone. As someone had said if I was recruiting for her why would she allow me to put pictures up on this broad showing her and I together?? I personally put those pictures up so people would know that I was telling the truth about being with her. She knows that I have written on this broad even those she asked me not to brother. She probablly does not realized that I posted the pictures. The one picture of her by herself I posted so you would all see what a Beautiful Lady Marina really is even all covered up. 

[best-snowball]

I have to agree with about everything that is said here.  I think there are some unknowns that figure into all this that we will never be in a position to know.

As far as waterball:D  My analaisis of it is that he is probably one of the nicest guys that walks the earth.  I think Miss Sinsuallity (that was an accidental misspelling but I thought it was funny enough I left it and edited in this comment) is the hottest and prettiest gal he as been with since he was a young dude and he is as deep in lust as you could be.  I see a little insecurity in his letters.   I think he is wants to wrap her up before someone else comes along and snatches her out from under him.  I would bet he lays awake some nights worrying about that.

As far as Miss Sensuality, I think she is attractive, built nice and seems to speak very sincerley in her posts.   Her photo is very aluring but I think some people could easiy take it as too suggestive.  Probabably just a bit more under wraps could have been better but I spend a lot of my time working in advertising and that is showing off your product in a very desirable way. 

Personally I think she is not totally convinced that waterball is the person she wants to spend her life with but she sees a lot of good qualities in him and is definatley not writting him off.  If she is willing to spend that much time with him she is interested.  I think he would be a good husband for her.   I wish him luck.  I hope we get to find out what happens.   This place is sort of like a soap opera sometimes.

Again thank you. I will let you know how it goes if she will let me:)

[best-snowball]

Double standards???

 

Muzh, this is not double standards.  Would you appreciate a lady you really are emphatuated with recruiting you to help her in her search for another man?  I don't think so. Would you put out the effort to help her?  Some guys and some gals both use each other.  Some people are willing to be abused in order to get what they want.  I would not allow it.  I don't abuse (emotionally) and don't wish to be abused.  "Waterball" seems to be very attached and loyal.  I don't question his intentions or loyalty, just wether or not his emphatuation is misplaced.   Yes, she is a young lady and obviously is selling this feature, but that is not my big concern.  My big concern is her keeping him on the line and using him to fish for others.  I fear she is using him as her door mat.  If a man uses only the physical for criteria for finding a life mate, he is not thinking the head on his shoulders.  He will likely be restarting his search again in a few years.  What is in the heart and mind?  That is what matters.  I don't think poorly of anyone.  I just think this guy needs to get some commitment or let her go.  I also think she needs to stop using him to aid in her fishing, make a commitment or let him go. 

As far as what I have to offer; love, kindness, respect, honor, politeness, trustworthyness, loyalty, as well as many other qualities.  "Things" in life don't matter to me.  They don't bring happiness.  I did not use "Things" to attract my wife. And yes, my wife is damn gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D  Do you know what?  She is also damn smart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D:D
[/quote]See this is whats get to me. You all only are talking about her outer beauty I have been with Marina and seen all of her inter beauty She does not have me on any string. I am NOT help her for anyone else. She had this post up before we got seriously involved. There is no reason for her to take it down until she makes that commitment to me. It is my job to prove to her that I am Not a jerk like many are that trys to insalve these girls. You know there are nice girls out there looking for their mate just like we are looking for our (for the ones that have not found their better half) So you see she has to be very sure about me before she takes that big step of marriage. To her she wants it for lifetime as do I but because she was lied to by someone that she thought she was in love with and he truned out to be a jerk she was lucky to had found out before it was to late So that jerk has make it very hard for me because I have to prove to her that I am not like him. She doesnot want to get hurt again and I will show her great respect for that

[Donna_Pedro]

:D:D  You guys need to have pity on the  poor creature - she must have spent most of her salary  just for that lacy hose of hers. Its easy for you to  discuss, and do you know how much does the whole odeal cost? Just to buy the outfit and  pay to the photographer, so she could  sit there with a well trained "Take me, I am hot" look FOR YOU?  Sort of a "hunger today will bring a full belly later" thing...:cool:

 

[Donna_Pedro]

seen all of her inter beauty

 

inter is the one that lays under the hose? or the one that stays when you wipe out  that sl..t- ish look and wash out the make up? 

Ok, I am following Elen to read the funny stories.. I should not have come here anyway.

[BC]

[user=115]Donna_Pedro[/user] wrote:

Ok, I am following Elen to read the funny stories.. I should not have come here anyway.

b.s. Donna! you're welcome here anytime! I've always enjoyed your posts

btw.. Whatcha doing in Moscow(in your profile).. thought you move from AL to Florida..?

[Frank]

Snowball just doesn't get it.  It's not about the pictures.  It's about intentions, respect and using other people.  If she's not jerking him around, he's jerking himself around.  I'm not going to look at this thread any longer.  It's going nowhere:shock:

[best-snowball]

Snowball just doesn't get it.  It's not about the pictures.  It's about intentions, respect and using other people.  If she's not jerking him around, he's jerking himself around.  I'm not going to look at this thread any longer.  It's going nowhere:shock:


I really think that YOU don't get it. I am NOt jerking her around and she is NOT jerking me around. You know the way you are bad mouthing her now yet you was going to turn your friend onto her man what a friend I would not want a friend to turn me onto some one that they were bad mouthing all the time. I think your ego was hurt when you found out that there was some one that had some respect for this girl and was involued with her and really KNOWS whar kind of girl she is in REAL LIFE not some ones mind

[Turboguy]

I can't see anything in her posts or snowballs posts that definately indicates anyone is jerking anyone around.   People get engaged after one week and the are idiots for being one week wonders and they want to think it over to make sure they are doing the right thing and then they are jerking someone around.

Do I see a possibility off it.  Of course, but who can say what is really going through her mind besides her and she is a women.  What goes though a womans mind and out her mouth are often two diffent things and neither is something a guy will understand anyway.

[BC]

Best Snowball,

funny your nic reminds me of rolling a little snowball into a huge bottom part of a snowman.. unfortunately reaching a certain critical size the snowball always fell apart.

Moral of the story is don't defend yourself to death here fighting windmills.. believe me, I've been there and done that to no avail. Che sera sera, with or without the drama.