Trip Report: The Dominican Republic

[Anonymous One]

I apologize for interrupting but I play golf today.....

Page 1 had a RW angle.  Page 2-5 are all about ....well, I could substitute Danish 21-yo, 1980s and Essaouria Morocco and it would be my fling (except at our beach a bunch of young boys came running from the dunes laughing - maybe DR boys are more polite).

So where is the RW angle - some view of her Russian soul? 

Please continue with your reminiscing.

So true, Bucky.

It could have been any girl from any country, and that's what was wrong with this meeting.  I took the girl out of Russia, and she was blinded by the white sands and aqua waters and lost most of what made her Russian...or at very least it was hidden.

That's why I decided to post this, which will be a warning not to do what I did..

Disclaimer:

Before I tell you what
transpired after I got home,
it is my responsibility to say
say something very important
to newbies.

I got it all wrong.  I broke all
the rules.  Don't read this
and think it's ok to do what
I did.  Cuz it's not.

It was stupid of me to write
only one girl and to bring her
to the DR for our meeting.

In hindsight, I know I was
purely lucky.  Very lucky.

Ira turned out to be a great girl,
and we had fantastic chemistry together.
What are the odds of that? 
I'd say 100 to 1.

I know, because after Ira,
I met 100 more girls
before I found another girl like Ira. 

And fortunate for me, I found someone better.
Much better.

I had a good time with Ira,
maybe even a great time. 
But over the next 9 months,
 I was to learn more about her personality
and see her stubborn streak intensify.

You see, my mistake was believing
I could see the true girl
when I had her in an exotic location
on a dream vacation.  I did not.

I should have not taken her to the DR. 
Instead, I should have met her in her hometown,
and I should have had backup
in case our chemistry did not click.

I had dumb beginner's luck. 
And I did not even realize it until much later.

[Bruce]

So, how did your relationship with Ira continue or not continue after the Dominican Republic vacation?  How did you or she break off your relationship? 

No need to present pictures.  Reality would for surely spoil your story  . 

[IAmZon]

An important point concerning the nature of a Russian woman: emotional, strong minded, etc.

It seems to me that I like my women a little strong minded (maybe even bitchy on occasion).  That is OK.  But I imagine that there is a warmer side to?!?!  (because of the equal stereotype that the women defers to the man).

If, on the other hand, it is more common for the strong minded opinions never to find a resting place ... that is bad news, indeed.

Any comments?

[Anonymous One]

So, how did your relationship with Ira continue or not continue after the Dominican Republic vacation?  How did you or she break off your relationship? 

I thought a lot about her after I got home.  I was so mesmerized by her beauty, her accent, her sexy body, and I knew I might be blind.

My logic told me it was too quick and that she was too young for me.  I knew I was infatuated by her.  I promised myself to go slow.

But when I called her, she was really mushy and told me how great the trip was and that she wanted to continue the relationship.

I told her I did too, but we needed to move slow.  She did not like these words.

But to her credit, she never used the "L" word.  The big one.  But she did say the little one--  "I Like you a lot."

[Anonymous One]

Over the next few weeks, we talked every day by phone and shared countless text messages and emails.

I told her I wanted to come to her home town over the Christmas holidays to meet her family.  She laughed and laughed and told me I would freeze.

So instead, we made our plans to meet in Costa Rica.

 

[Anonymous One]

(hey guys, I'm out of steam on this TR; I don't know if it serves any purpose)

I thought I wanted to share this because the 2nd and 3rd meetings with this girl were in wonderful places-- Costa Rica and Ecuador.

Plus, I thought there might be a connection point or lesson about what happens when a long term relationship goes bad.

But i do feel a little guilty about even writing this, given I now have the best girl in the world as my wife, and I don't want to be untrue to her.

So~ what do you think?  End it here?  Or tell the final chapter?

[William3rd]

TELL the final Chapter or the membership will put you on permanent ignore, burn you in effigy, and nominate you for Congress. . . .

[jb]

TELL the final Chapter or the membership will put you on permanent ignore, burn you in effigy, and nominate you for Congress. . . .

That's not how most of us feel.  I'd prefer you just bow out somewhat gracefully.

End it here and now,,, don't tempt fate.  If you've found that very special one person,,, be glad and happy.   Don't screw it up with something as dumb as this as you attempt to spill your guts to a bunch of guys who really don't give a crap.  No need, or compunction to confess, will overcome the cry of happiness you will feel later if you swallow your story and just get on with your life..

[Bruce]

I resoundingly second JB.  Quit while you are not completely dead and buried by the board pundits  .

[tim 360]

The safe bet is to quit now.  But,  if you're feeling adventurous and want to risk being drawn and quartered....keep writing.

[Gator]

AO,


You have a good and relevant story to tell. Most AM after mindless sex ask the RW to marry them.  In contrast, you recognized the need to go to the next level where you obviously saw, through the fog of orgasms, something that prevented you from popping the question.  What was that “something”?

I say “keep writing”, with more on feelings and reasoning rather than how many times a day you had sex.  BTW, how do you count?  Is it:  In (one), Out (two), In (three) etc.

Other reasons to keep writing:
-   reminiscing with you as I have taken beautiful women to the same three locales
-   previewing too as I have two trips planned in the next 3 months to DR and CR.
-   many may be living your story vicariously.

Now if your story featured a couple of fist fights and spending a sunny day on a secluded beach with four nude Russian models, then I would know your identity - you are the Gameranger from 5 years ago

[Mir]

Looks like his wife found out.
For his sake I hope it was quick.
She probably was more upset that while he made love to that girl 5-6 times a day he only did that 5-6 times a year with her.

[aikorob]

LOL   Gator
Mentioning Gameranger brought back memories---I remember thinking "is this the next Bond script?" while I was reading that TR

[Anonymous One]

Still pondering the next step
and rather to allow myself
to drift back mentally,
if not emotionally to those
days
*shrugs*

And yes, I do have pics
of those 4 Russian babes
on the beach and i suppose
i could post it?

The beach was beautiful,
BTW 

Some may also remember
my story of the eruption(s)
in Costa Rica and how
we had to dodge the boulders
that were thrown from the
mountain?

Exciting but scary days 

Life is much more settled
these days
*grins*

[Anonymous One]

I've decided not to do the
other trip reports in the
conventional manner.

Why?  Because I have
a great girl now and I
feel guilty writing about
past events before her.

So here is what I
WILL do...

I'll close the story of my
relationship here in this post,
just to end the story.  That
is only fair.

Then later, I may post
travelogue type TRs
that do not involve
the relationship, but
will detail places to go and
things to do in a couple
of exotic locations to
our south.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I spent the holidays with Ira
in Costa Rico.

We had a great time and
grew even closer together.
I did start to see the clinks
in our armour those 15 days--
we were both stubborn and
both wanted to lead.

In March, I met her in Jamaica.
Once again, it was great.  The
motto there was "no problem, Man."
I liked their spirit. 

In April and May we met both
in Ecuador and the
Galapagos Islands.

In June, I broke up
with her.  She was
simply too stubborn and
I always had to fight her
for leadership.  It was
difficult, but I decided I
did not want to spend the
rest of my life fighting her.

And she was
SO STUBBORN!
And picky.
I would take her
to a 3 star hotel
on a white sand
beach and she
would not like it!
So we would drive to
two more places she
also did not like, and then
return to the first place.

Not marrying her was
the the right decision.

I took 3 months off from my
search. I thought it would
be easy to find another girl.

But to my surprise, I found
that other girls did not compare.

I searched through more than 50
girls without finding another girl
who was even close to Irina.

But the story has a happy ending.
I won the lottery...
I now have a beautiful, kind hearted
girl who loves me and wants to
please me.  And I want to
please her, too.

I'll close by warning all the
one week wonders.  You have to
spend LOTS of time with a girl
to really get to know her.  Don't
rush the engagement.

[Turboguy]

I0am glad you search had a happy ending. Some times when we find someone special we think we will never find another. I am happy you did. I,for one, would find the travelog interesting and hope there are some good comparisons. VWRw & I are trying to decide the location of our next meeting.  Jamaica, D.R. and Costa Rica are 3 of the 4 places we are considering. Information that could help us choose would be very helpful.

[Anonymous One]

Thank you, TurboGuy.

I'll put on my travel cap now and get to work.

Bringing your FSU girl to South America makes a lot of sense; it's very beautiful and a new environment for both of you.  No visa is required, and cost are low.

Look for my report on Ecuador later today.

A.O.

[Anonymous One]

That damn Mir is at it again, disrupting another guy's TR in the Estonia strand.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=3274.75

Here is what he said about this TR, and me...

Groov

Well I have no idea what you look like but I will also be polite to you.
If you really believe the TR by AO about his visit to Dominican rep then I think you will believe anything.
However I see no reason for me and you who don't know each other to get into an argument over someone who has to hide behind shadows to post his TRs.
Gave a nice day

I don't want to respond there and further disrupt DKMN's TR, so I will respond here.

MIR-  Here is the stamp on my passport that proves I did indeed go to the DR, and to Ecuador as well.

And as for as your comment that I am anonymous, so are you.  And everyone else here.  Do you want to publish your home phone number and street address?

I choose not to, either.

Anon

[Mir]

AO

The stamp is passport only proves that the holder of the passport did go to DR.I have no idea who the passport holder is.Most likely it is you but then.....

And I have not disrupted anyone's TR except your Dominican Republic one which was obviously an old mans fantasy. 

Have a nice day in anonymous land