a good woman, just not a 10

[Aya]

we should start rating guys with numbers too.... /opens antidate...

(yay triple post)

[Jazzyclassy]

Which is something that contnually confuses me. ???
There are some very bright people here, intteligent,artistic & some very talented actors & actresses, yet they choose to emulate the worst TV shows in the history of Telivision. I'm sorry Jazz but I just don't get it.
Its the same as McDonalds. It was a blight on Western societies & who is the first one allowed into Russia, McDonalds, DUUUHHH!! The worst damn hamburger ever concieved, because it ain't real hamburger & people buy it up & bloat up on it & Russia welcomes them with open arms & piggy banks. Fast food is what turned the west into a population of lazy fat slobs & now the rest of the world is set to join them!!
Sorry, but I don't get it. I thought we were supposed to learn from other peoples mistakes, not mprove on them.

Unfortunately this crazy propaganda or some fake morals fake new living standards of West made russian parrots to copy all the worst things from America

We do have talented people but for some reason they are ashamed of their culture or I do not know what, why they do not want to come back to the folk roots for example to invent some russian bliny and ponchiki which will gain mass popularity among the whole wide world.
Invent some other individual things which can praise Russia all over the world.Maybe one day it will happen but I strongly doubt it.....

Back to the topic this ratings are ridiculous and I will never understand them,I also will never understand the cult of being supermodel and how all the people should bend over them which is just also sad thing that people can not adore natural beauty, they are all into cult of huge fake boobs, fake asses, lips a la Angelina Jolie, arms like if she had never lift anything heavier than her little purse, and legs like sticks like she never ever walked and always travelled by car or something and you men adore all those  appearance qualities, these are men who create such standards for poor exhausted women, do you think women need all those fake make up and corporate ethics to shave all of her body to be absolutely identical with the other dolls?There is no freedom in such kinda life, and women do all those things just in order to be attracted by men , and instead of attraction all they  hear are slight compliments from some old farts who 'll just mumble something dodgy, do you think women were born for those ratings??? Of course not!

Women are the loving wives , keepers of their home , kind supporters of their hubbies , all they need is Love and kind attitude and  acception of them just how they are

Men wont be existing without women , the same as women wont be existing without men,so let us just not try to change each other , lets work together on our improvement for the betterif we want things to be changed, but again it is more of soul work than appearance, if you want to look great, just go to the gym  and eat properly normal home food nothing else special is required , and forget about those ratings it wont do you good.....

[Rvrwind]

Damn you all.  I was happy until i read this, now im gonna worry!!!!!

Sorry we were responsiblefor your current delimma!

we should start rating guys with numbers too.... /opens antidate...

Be my guest, the difference between men & women is, men don't care or at least most don't. You could rate me a 1 & I'd still know I was the handsomest guy my wife knows!! Otherwise she wouldn't be with me, LOL.

[Aya]

You could rate me a 1 & I'd still know I was the handsomest guy my wife knows!! Otherwise she wouldn't be with me, LOL.

no, thats man-like judgement. When a woman decides to be with someone, it isnt about appearance only(in most cases), she looks at the whole "package" maybe you have qualities that outweigh appearance. Good looks doesnt mean that a guy will be a good husband. I'd say looks, as long as they are normal, play little part when choosing a life companion For women.

[wxman]

Unfortunately men will initially base a potential mate on looks. We have a number scale of 1 to 10, because we are the crude members of this species, and secondly we have a hard time counting past 10. We're also not really capable of great conversation, our minds wander and...oooh look a beach ball.       

[mspanky]

Lots of women will settle for a guy's looks. But as soon as they are married to him try to change him to her ideal. She looks at him like a fixer upper.

I've seen women nag a man to lose weight -after the wedding
I've seen women complain about his sex drive. Too much or too little-after the wedding
I've seen women complain about his clothes,appearance-after the wedding
I've seen women complain about his behavior(does he go out with friends,drink,couch potato)-after the wedding.
I've seen women complain about the guys income-after the wedding

 Seems a lot of women will accept and even want a man they view as a fixer upper so they can have a project to do and make their man perfect for them.After the wedding. What's up with that?

[Aya]

"When a man gets married, he hopes the woman won't change and she changes. When a woman gets married, she hopes the man will change, and he doesn't change"
Thats why i nag my bf before we get married 
j/k
I think both parties should be open for some changes. Be it unshaved armpits or weight(in reasonable scales lol), or habit to put feet on table 
Communication, sense of humor and ability to compromise ftw

[Kuna]

Unfortunately men will initially base a potential mate on looks. We have a number scale of 1 to 10, because we are the crude members of this species, and secondly we have a hard time counting past 10. We're also not really capable of great conversation, our minds wander and...oooh look a beach ball.       

That's very funny....  I dunno, maybe I share your warped sense of humour or something but I've been coming back to this post for past 10 minutes just to have a chuckle...

Beach ball!  Love it!

[wiz]

Why not try to hook her up with wiz?  Maybe if you emailed him some pictures some sparks might fly.

JB

Thanks for thinking about me but after reading my story in "The Dilemma" do you think I will make a good match for her?

Personaly I would not even consider talking to a woman below forty and that is pushing it a bit......downwards.

I better be carefull what I say now...the green eyes are watching me....LOL

[catzenmouse]

Unfortunately men will initially base a potential mate on looks. We have a number scale of 1 to 10, because we are the crude members of this species, and secondly we have a hard time counting past 10. We're also not really capable of great conversation, our minds wander and...oooh look a beach ball. 

NOT TRUE! I can count to twenty with my shoes and socks off... 21 if I'm naked...

[TigerPaws]

A very interesting thread and yes I have read through it incompletely,

 Ladies lets be honest for most men looks matter far more than they do for women, women have different wants, needs and desires and are more than willing to accept more in the way on compromises than most men. A 40ish RW who is not very attractive will have far less of a chance attracting any man (unless she is very well off) than a 40ish lady who is very attractive. Like it or not ladies in general (most) successful AM in the mid 40's who have decided to look to the FSU for a lady are going to be looking for a lady in their mid to late 20's and men in their mid 50's will be looking for ladies in their early to mid 30's. As to what the women these same men will look for will look like will be different for each man but in very broad general terms the ladies will be attractive (7's and up?).

 We have over the years had a number of my wifes friends and some family members ask us to help them find a gentleman in the U.S.A. With the exception of my wifes sister we have politely said no.

 As for the numerical rating system (1 to 10) personally it works for me and will will add a distance figure to that system, (she looks better at 50' and 100').

 

[Gator]

To the FSU women who are offended by a 1 to 10 rating system, I have been to several times to your land and almost all women are 7 or above.   

In my ratings, I reduce a "9" to a zero if she is argumentative or other qualities that I could never live with.

[ScottinCrimea]

Of course the definition of a "10" in Texas is a "4" and a 6-pack.

[catzenmouse]

Of course the definition of a "10" in Texas is a "4" and a 6-pack.

They better be Tall Boys or better still quarts...

Of course the next morning you might just wake up with a severe case of "Coyote Arm" 

Ken

[Jazzyclassy]

     Ladies lets be honest for most men looks matter far more than they do for women, women have different wants            

so you are trying to say that you are a woman and you know what according to your speech here, you sound like a russian woman married to a foreign guy


the things which you claimed here approve your  own marriage I clicked to the link kindly given in your profile and  it gave me some hint a little bit about your ratings:P

but you know if you think like that , that does not mean it is good and it is the model of how it should be!

[Aya]

you know what i dont get? this scale 1 to 10 is an attempt to unify un unifiable. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whats a 10 for one, is a 5 for another. You say "she is a 6" by your taste, but she might be a 8 or a 2 for someone elses taste. So it is wrong by definition to provide some number. Unless there are written standards. If there are, i'd like to take a look at them. Or photo examples of each number. Anyone?

Examples of male 9's and 10's: http://studio54.ru/photo.html - do you all look like that? If yes, you can go ahead and imprint your stamps of 1 to 10 on girls. If not, then not Most of people are way too far from ideal to be anyone else's judges. I mean you can judge for yourself, but you can't tell someone else she is a 7 or w/e

[Daveman]

you know what i dont get? this scale 1 to 10 is an attempt to unify un unifiable. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whats a 10 for one, is a 5 for another. You say "she is a 6" by your taste, but she might be a 8 or a 2 for someone elses taste. So it is wrong by definition to provide some number. Unless there are written standards. If there are, i'd like to take a look at them. Or photo examples of each number. Anyone?

Examples of male 9's and 10's: http://studio54.ru/photo.html - do you all look like that? If yes, you can go ahead and imprint your stamps of 1 to 10 on girls. If not, then not Most of people are way too far from ideal to be anyone else's judges. I mean you can judge for yourself, but you can't tell someone else she is a 7 or w/e

But Aya..  men are warthogged faced buffoons... we don't think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we see it as a direct ratio to the amount of drool dripping from our mouths.  And another thing, we don't always... hey.. wxman's beachball 

[Aya]

oh if the amount of saliva is the only criterion then im not worried lol

[SANDRO43]

And another thing, we don't always... hey.. wxman's beachball 

Here you are, dear ... you were saying ?

[Rvrwind]

Examples of male 9's and 10's: http://studio54.ru/photo.html - do you all look like that?

Actually when I was their age, yes, I did look like that. Lets wait & see how they look when they get to my age!!
As with women the same is with men, it don't last forever!

[mspanky]

so you are trying to say that you are a woman and you know what according to your speech here, you sound like a russian woman married to a foreign guy


the things which you claimed here approve your  own marriage I clicked to the link kindly given in your profile and  it gave me some hint a little bit about your ratings:P

but you know if you think like that , that does not mean it is good and it is the model of how it should be!

OUCH!!!

[wxman]

Actually when I was their age, yes, I did look like that. Lets wait & see how they look when they get to my age!!
As with women the same is with men, it don't last forever!

Yep, as men get old, everything sags. It's not all bad, for when we reach that stage, we can truly say, "it's only 4 inches from the floor"     

[LEGAL]

Thats why they make suspenders
Its sad now we have to be very careful what we say

LEGAL

[ScottinCrimea]

Legal,  Just what type od suspenders are you talking about, and where can I buy some?

[LEGAL]

I am afraid to answer the cyber police are watching. Remember Hogans hero's


LEGAL