Just another example of why I am no longer interested in AW ...

[USCFAN]

This is just a clip from an ad I saw on Craig's list ... it just seems to 'sum up' the whole attitude I've run across in AW these days. Maybe you'll agree ...

Note: I’m 175 lbs, 5’ 5” And YES the average American woman weighs OVER 175 these days… (So I’m in the LOWER 50 percentile…) Geez, some guys need to get over the superficial need for a size 2!!!!

I personally don't need a 'size 2' ... but how about working your way down to a size 8-10 at least?

Gawd ... I gotta get back to Ukraine 

[2tallbill]

LOL, I got to agree with you.

175lbs at 5' 5" ????

Geez quite the petite little flower

[KenC]

This is just a clip from an ad I saw on Craig's list ... it just seems to 'sum up' the whole attitude I've run across in AW these days. Maybe you'll agree ...

Note: I’m 175 lbs, 5’ 5” And YES the average American woman weighs OVER 175 these days… (So I’m in the LOWER 50 percentile…) Geez, some guys need to get over the superficial need for a size 2!!!!

I personally don't need a 'size 2' ... but how about working your way down to a size 8-10 at least?

Gawd ... I gotta get back to Ukraine 

Aww, come on USCFan, BBW's need love too!!!!!!
 
KenC

[Mishenka]

My girl is 5'5 and weighs, 125  so  this craiglist add, at 175 and in the  lower 50% of AW is 50 pounds over,

 My Tatiana  has an athletic build, she is not skinny at all but not an ounce over weight either.   she is  firm and toned,  what I call sexy hot. Nothing shakes when this girl belly dances!  well, only in the right places......  YUMMY
  

Michael

[AnastassiaAsh]

I know this post is for fun. 

Can't help saying: Geez, whole US should need to get over this sick need for greasy French fries and bacon!!!   

Mishenka, you are quite a sweet and cute new character around here, aren't you?  Sorry for the situation you are in as i understand (from another thread)...

[Mishenka]

Asutkya, Spacibo, 
Da,  I can even see my affections in my posts here about Tanushka,  Oh well,, I'm just an affectionate man.  She loved this aboout me. But it wasn't enough.  I know what she was looking for.  Not just sparks and affection,  but a fire like I experienced when I was with Nadya,, Thats real chemistry!

You know, I think we were always meant to be close friends.  I just let my heart go to far and it needed to be adjusted. I got the cart ahead of the horse.  I think now, all is ok.  Time will tell.  I wish I understood why I get so many sweet girls contacting me and I have no interest in them. No attraction.  When I finally am interested in one, she doesnt feel the same about me.  Its like Im in on a different path than the ones I want to be with.  The wome on my path,  I don't want to be with. 

Misha

[I/O]

Gawd..............5'5" and 175 pounds. :hairraising: Wouldn't like her to fart in my last pound of flour. Wouldn't have enough left to bake a scone. (For the Brits, that's one of those uncouth Aussie sayings).

Mine at 174 (5' 8 1/2") and 55KG (121 pounds) kinda works just fine for me. Further on this subject, most of the women in the circles I move here are a pretty smart lot, but I was sitting in a cafe' in Sydney a few days ago and couldn't help listening to a conversation behind me. Two women discussing the possabilities of some guy (One was obviously interested in him) and you should have heard them dissect this poor critter. Basically it came down to the fact that he had "Poor taste" because his car was the wrong colour.

It just became too much and I turned around to give them a gobfull and both their arses were hanging over each side of their chairs. I closed my mouth and turned away thinking, why would I bother. BTW they were eating chocolate cake and..................... go figure.

I/O

[AnastassiaAsh]

Gawd..............5'5" and 175 pounds. :hairraising: Wouldn't like her to fart in my last pound of flour. Wouldn't have enough left to bake a scone. (For the Brits, that's one of those uncouth Aussie sayings).

egh...wait a sec, let me write these two gems down...and what does this mean exactly?   

[SANDRO43]

egh...wait a sec, let me write these two gems down...and what does this mean exactly?

Assuming your query refers to scones (and not to either to body measures or farts ):

The scone is a British snack of Scottish origin. A small quickbread made of wheat, barley or oatmeal, usually with baking powder as a leavening agent. British scones are often lightly sweetened, but may also be savoury

Although their Scottish origin may reflect unfavourably upon their digestibility :

The Stone of Scone, also commonly known as the Stone of Destiny or the Coronation Stone, is an oblong block of red sandstone, about 26 inches by 16 inches by 10.5 inches in size and weighing approximately 336 pounds.

[Serebro]

I wonder why so many AM like telling bad things about AW....
Btw, when I received letters where AM complained that AW are bad, fat and bossy I sent them(the men) into the iggy box.

[Gator]

Serebro,

My Moscow woman did the same, especially if the man was highly critical of his ex-wife.  She felt that if he spoke badly about the mother of his children, he would say she too was bad. 

[USCFAN]

I wonder why so many AM like telling bad things about AW....
Btw, when I received letters where AM complained that AW are bad, fat and bossy I sent them(the men) into the iggy box.

Serebro ... there are many threads on this board about why AM are searching for a partner from Russia/Ukraine/FSU countries ... this thread is just another example of why that search goes on ...

I've been asked by every RW/UW I've talked or written too why am I looking over there instead of in America. This was a 'real' situation which demonstrates why I personally am no longer interested in AW ...

[I/O]

egh...wait a sec, let me write these two gems down...and what does this mean exactly?   

Mrs Ash: What it means is that if a woman of those statistics passed wind, it would make Hurricane Katrina seem like a gentle afternoon breeze. 

This thread seems to be heading in a slightly PC direction, heaven forbid. You guys who think it is wrong to bag local women have something of a point in one respect. (It is something I don't generally do in any serious way) However what of the many women who lead the charge in bagging guys who search abroad? IMO they deserve to be told why. If they are a fat, lazy, lard arses with the personality of a wounded snake then I see no harm in telling them. The won't get any worse and they just might improve.

The entitlement mentality of some people (Not only women) is what annoys me.  These women need to earn their man, they are not simply entitled to any man just because they don't have balls between their legs. Of course this cuts both ways, but I simply hear too much from some elements of the feminist movement to conclude it is only isolated people who think this way.

To the lard arses (Men and women) I'd suggest they get off their arse and get some fo their arse off, then they might be a chance in the big league. If they are not prepared to do that then they should shut up.

I/O

[Makkin]

Hi,

  The way I see it is simply that an obese or large woman is not attractive to me. I dont find any physical attraction to these type women but some men do.
  The way some of them walk around malls and such places with the body language of something other than what they are sometimes bothers me. They seem to project an image of beauty and things like that but it most cases for me it makes things worse for my eyes.
  I don't know about you but for me at 6'0 tall and 190 pounds or so I cannot see myself with a lady at 5'5 175.

Makkin

[Serebro]

I've been asked by every RW/UW I've talked or written too why am I looking over there instead of in America. This was a 'real' situation which demonstrates why I personally am no longer interested in AW ...

Yes, that's EXACTLY what I am trying to say...
Those men told that when I asked them why they had decided to look for their wife abroad...
But do you really think that it shows the best of you when you tell that you look from abroad because women in your country are fat?!


Any woman who has at least a little brain will understand that as soon as she comes to the USA and gets pregnant or gains a little weight because of other reasons  or has some disease you will simply leave her and will go to look for another one because you don't like fat bad-looking girls.

This reason given by you also shows you as a loser. Noone will believe that ALL women in your country are fat and ugly. So it means that for some reason you could't compare with other men who were able to get beautiful AW, so you are a loser who didn't want to "fight" and preferred to follow the line of least resistance and just to escape and look somewhere else.
Giving primitive emplanations like this you will probably attract primitive girls or scammers who aren't normally interested in your reasons and theories.

[Misha]

This reason given by you also shows you as a loser. Noone will believe that ALL women in your country are fat and ugly. So it means that for some reason you could't compare with other men who were able to get beautiful AW, so you are a loser who didn't want to "fight" and preferred to follow the line of least resistance and just to escape and look somewhere else.
Giving primitive emplanations like this you will probably attract primitive girls or scammers who aren't normally interested in your reasons and theories.

Let us not forget that American men live in the same culture as American women and they eat the same food and are just as likely to be overweight or obese as American women. To say that all American women are fat is also to say that all American men are fat as well 

[AnastassiaAsh]

Well, this horse has been killed and revived million times on all the boards and websites we know.

Serebro, i think you are not quite right here. Are all women fat in the US? No, but majority, most, almost everybody.... I haven't been to all the states but to several and can assure you the situation is the same everywhere i was.

More over those women who are not fat but thin and athletic are golddigging b...s, those who are not all of the above have something seriously wrong with their brain, those who are not even those above have become too religious and psychotic and they love only Jesus....should i continue?

Maybe it is me - but during all these 7 years that i have been here i haven't seen or known even one, not even one, truly attractive woman who got everything together in her appearance, education, morals and life in general. This situation is very sad.

If an AM who is interested in me says that he is looking abroad because all AW are fat and so on and so on, I would believe him, and i personally won't think that he might leave me if i get fat or something, because I know I won't - pregnancy fat doesn't count, this is ridiculous.

If a woman gets fat for some reason, as you say, it is her fault and she has to change that pretty quick to be attractive again, because that matters A LOT for a man, it all starts from there, if you are not an object of attraction any more, no matter how smart and everything else you are, relationship can decline pretty fast. Even among Christians i read and heard so many stories where this exactly thing happened - attraction dissapeared, because she couldn't loose weight after her pregnancy, because she is in a constant depression seeking some comfort in her fridge....Oh, dear Serebro, you have no idea how BAD it is here with women.

I can't really think of any reason that would justify a woman being fat other than pregnancy, that is temporary, and some serious health condition, but even that doesn't happen in a day and probably that woman will unlikely attract men from the beginning.

[KenC]

Yes, that's EXACTLY what I am trying to say...
Those men told that when I asked them why they had decided to look for their wife abroad...
But do you really think that it shows the best of you when you tell that you look from abroad because women in your country are fat?!


Any woman who has at least a little brain will understand that as soon as she comes to the USA and gets pregnant or gains a little weight because of other reasons  or has some disease you will simply leave her and will go to look for another one because you don't like fat bad-looking girls.

This reason given by you also shows you as a loser. Noone will believe that ALL women in your country are fat and ugly. So it means that for some reason you could't compare with other men who were able to get beautiful AW, so you are a loser who didn't want to "fight" and preferred to follow the line of least resistance and just to escape and look somewhere else.
Giving primitive emplanations like this you will probably attract primitive girls or scammers who aren't normally interested in your reasons and theories.

Serebro,
Very good point made!
Even though there is a problem in America with Americans being over weight, that was never my reason for looking abroad.  In fact my ex wife was a very trim and toned 110 Lbs @ 5'2".  She sincerely did get better looking with age too.  The women I dated after my divorce were mostly in good shape and I am not opposed to a woman with some additional weight either.  Not grossly over weight, but a few extra pounds never bothered me.

When I first ventured to Russia to meet my wife, I had absolutely no idea that RW would be any different than AW.  My conclusions only came after the fact and over a period of time.  It is true that I was very naive and did not have a negative thought pattern regarding AW as they were all I knew at the time.  What an eye opening experience it has been for me!  Here are some of my conclusions after 9 years:

RW are far more feminine than AW.  In comparason, AW are almost manly next to RW.  RW almost revel in their femininity and are proud to be women, whereas AW seem to almost try to behave and act like men.

RW are proud of their sexiness.  This is frowned upon by most AW.  To an AW, it is almost shameful to divulge their sexy side outside of the bedroom.  Our culture seems to have put a negative spin on sexiness displayed by women.  An AW that shows too much cleavage, or wears a skirt a little too short is labled as a tramp or a slut by her peers. 

RW have a different attitude regarding sex with their husbands. AW view sexual relations with their husbands as a unwanted obligation and a "gift" to the man.  RW seem proud to fulfill their husbands sexual wants and desires.

RW are happy with the traditional roles of women and men RW seem to understand that men are men and women are women whereas, AW want the roles to be exactly the same.

RW tend to be better educated than AW More to do with cultural differences and respect for education.  BTW, the same can be said for men too.

RW tend to be more cultured than AWMore to do with cultural differences and respect for education.  BTW, the same can be said for men too.

RW tend to present themselves better than AW This is not only in regard to maintaining a proper weight, but also in how they dress and the effort they put forth in just looking the best they possibly can.

I understand that my conclusions are generalization based on my personal experiences, but that is how I see it.
KenC

[KenC]

Anastassia,
There is a big difference in fitness from one area of our country to another.  The Midwest has always held the title for the most out of shape people.  Last I read, Columbus, Ohio took the title for the city with the most overweight people in the US.  I noticed a big difference when we moved from Michigan to California.  Californians certainly are in much better shape and put forth much more effort to be healthy.

The pregnancy weight you site, is usually the beginning of the end of fitness for AW.  Many do not ever lose the additional weight or at least all of it.  Having a child here seems to almost signify that the woman does not need to try to be attractive any more as she is now a "Mom."  Not all of course, but many.  My ex wife was an exception is this area as she lost more weight than she gained during her two pregnancies.  I give her all the credit for doing so too.
KenC

[Mir]

My ex wife was an exception is this area as she lost more weight than she gained during her two pregnancies

Perhaps you meant after her pregnancies?

[KenC]

Perhaps you meant after her pregnancies?

of course.

[tim 360]

Serebro & Anastassia,  To think that all women in the USA are overweight is a fallacy.  Yes, there may be many but it depends where you live and where you have been.  It is a big generalization and some geographic areas or states do have a disproportionate amount of overweight and obese females and males.  You will find maps on the internet that display this information.

In my area, for instance if I go to my health club I see a few people overweight with the vast majority being in the normal weight range.  Maybe 3% are overweight and trying not to be.

If I go to the big supermarket maybe 10%-15% are overweight and this varies depending on the visit.  BTW:  I seldom see overweight people in the fresh produce section, but in the dessert and frozen food sections I see many more.  And some are obese, very much overweight.

[Mishenka]

KenC excellent posts here, I agree 100%,  hope to see you later on.

Michael

[mspanky]

Serebro & Anastassia,  To think that all women in the USA are overweight is a fallacy.  Yes, there may be many but it depends where you live and where you have been.  It is a big generalization and some geographic areas or states do have a disproportionate amount of overweight and obese females and males.  You will find maps on the internet that display this information.

In my area, for instance if I go to my health club I see a few people overweight with the vast majority being in the normal weight range.  Maybe 3% are overweight and trying not to be.

If I go to the big supermarket maybe 10%-15% are overweight and this varies depending on the visit.  BTW:  I seldom see overweight people in the fresh produce section, but in the dessert and frozen food sections I see many more.  And some are obese, very much overweight.

 I agree . I don't see that many overweight people where I live. But I know when I go to the Midwest or even Las Vegas I see fatties everywhere from other states.

 
  I have to say to Annastasia there are women who have everything in the U.S..They are rare,but they exist.

    This Sunday I had to chance to meet up with a very good friend. He has 3 beautiful children. His wife is probably one of the most physically beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life. I am in awe of her flawless beauty evertime I see her. This is with her hair pulled back and no make-up. If she weighs more than 110lbs at 5'4" or 5'5" I'd be surprised. I've also seen this woman in a bikini this summer and was in shock at her stomach as there were no stretch marks and it was firm. The baby will be 2 soon, but that's her 3rd.

 Anyway, not only is she very sweet and a great mother. She is also a Science teacher at one of the best High Schools in the country. She went back to work not because she wanted to. She was a stay at home mother for 5 years before that. But because her husband tried to opne his own business after leaving his last comapny and the  biz is  taking a huge hit. But she looks happy as always regardless.Always smiling. There is a light in her eyes I rarely see in any woman. I am in awe of her and still can't believe my very "average" friend snagged such a Goddess.

  I think woman like her are rare everywhere. Very few people have it all! Good heart, great looks,intelligence,great mother and wife. Happy,optomistic.If I can find that combination I will marry her ASAP! But I have yet to find it.

   

[mspanky]

Yes, that's EXACTLY what I am trying to say...
Those men told that when I asked them why they had decided to look for their wife abroad...
But do you really think that it shows the best of you when you tell that you look from abroad because women in your country are fat?!


Any woman who has at least a little brain will understand that as soon as she comes to the USA and gets pregnant or gains a little weight because of other reasons  or has some disease you will simply leave her and will go to look for another one because you don't like fat bad-looking girls.

This reason given by you also shows you as a loser. Noone will believe that ALL women in your country are fat and ugly. So it means that for some reason you could't compare with other men who were able to get beautiful AW, so you are a loser who didn't want to "fight" and preferred to follow the line of least resistance and just to escape and look somewhere else.
Giving primitive emplanations like this you will probably attract primitive girls or scammers who aren't normally interested in your reasons and theories.

 There are not only an abundance(no pun intended) of AW in the U.S. But there are many FW too. I keep my options open while in the U.S. I have dated girls of every single nationality. This is the part I love about living in the U.S.  Asian,latina,Brazilian,Eastern European. Most of my friends date many FW here too. None have traveled to meet FW but me. When I tell them about my great trips,some of my friends look at me as though I'm on drugs because they think the U.S. is loaded with immigrants.

  Perhaps I have not had much luck marrying a  U.S. FW because they get e bit picky when they're here.LOL!!! But I still persue women everywhere. It's a big world and life is an adventure.