Wife split!

[Mod2]

There have been several personal attacks in this and other related threads that are ripe for deletion without notice.  You know who you are.  I believe nothing more needs to be said. 

[felix8787]

Wayne is alone again? It is sad but he needs to blame himself- THREE women left him.

Ok Doll, lets recap. This is what you wrote.
I have already posted a quote from Wayne about his first wife and we all know what is going on with Oksana. And here's a quote specifically about "S" who he almost married.
So in all 3 marriage's Wayne is to blame for all of this and then some?

[Doll]

Seems like "S" was here on a k-1 but never married and now she is back in Ukraine. How can both be liars when Wayne showed photos of his house and whatever else to her....

I am confused.
This is exactly what I am thinking- they both knew. One left so why is she a liar in the terms of GCG thing which we are talking of?
As for lying- all people lie, the question is much or little

[BC]

Thank goodness baseball allows only three strikes before you're out.  It's what weeds out those that can bat from those that shouldn't be swinging wood over home plate in the first place.

What are the chances of good potential husband material running into two GCG's, one after the other?

Quite slim IMHO.

Wrong height and age on a dating website constitutes grounds for a habitual liar?  That's funny.

[Doll]

Ok Doll, lets recap. This is what you wrote.
I have already posted a quote from Wayne about his first wife and we all know what is going on with Oksana. And here's a quote specifically about "S" who he almost married.
So in all 3 marriage's Wayne is to blame for all of this and then some?

Not really but it could be the food for thoughts. Not so?
What if a man  gets though marriages like gloves? 3, 4 ,5?
Women come and go, come and go. So are they all b-tches?
I am not talking of Wayne but if he was my son or friend I would recommend him to think of what he does wrong. One wrong choice, another- also wrong, the third is wrong... Then what is it? All women are b-ches , all RW are CGG?
I am just thinking.

[felix8787]

I am confused.
This is exactly what I am thinking- they both knew. One left so why is she a liar in the terms of GCG thing which we are talking of?
As for lying- all people lie, the question is much or little

Doll, I expressed a though as to why I think the reason she left Wayne, because you say that THREE woman left him. I didn't say it had to do with his house or photos that she saw. Here is his quote.

I was doing a K-1 for S.

Anyway, the visas were delayed while they did an FBI check on the other last name.  S and her Daughter came to America--but S was not satified when she saw my home and left.  Of course, I had sent many photographs of the house to S. I found out that S had a problem with lying and could not be trusted.  I believe she will never make anyone a good wife.  Now I see she has profiles where she lies about her age and height.  

 

[Doll]

Doll, I expressed a though as to why I think the reason she left Wayne

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I don't see where she is a liar

[Doll]

Ah, you mean he did send  her pictures?
First of all you can never see the whole thing just having pictures, next of all we don't know why S left (and why O left either).
I still don't think it is the house.It is something else.

[Doll]

I have a friend- a girl from Moscow in her late 30s. She came to PA and married a guy 52 y.o. with the house that I've only seen on Chiller  canal  . The guy makes very average money and doesn't look like a movie  star  at all. The house needs hundreds thousand to be fixed. So what? The woman is doing her best to get adjusted and to move on, she is optimistic.

[felix8787]

Not really but it could be the food for thoughts. Not so?
What if a man  gets though marriages like gloves? 3, 4 ,5?
Women come and go, come and go. So are they all b-tches?
I am not talking of Wayne but if he was my son or friend I would recommend him to think of what he does wrong. One wrong choice, another- also wrong, the third is wrong... Then what is it? All women are b-ches , all RW are CGG?
I am just thinking.

Food for thoughts about what, to see if Wayne was really at fault? I am not a psychologist and nit picking Wayne for an exact reason as to why all THREE left him to place fault won't do any good now.

Can't say they are all biotches, but I ran into a few. And there are men out there also that are a-holes, Wayne isn't one of them IMO.
No, all RW are not GCG's, but they are out there....waiting.
And there is nothing wrong with thinking. I do it all the time about many things not relevent to RWD.
 

[felix8787]

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I don't see where she is a liar

Sorry, I was expressing a sarcastic thought as to why she left him.

I was involved with an Ukrainan woman who is a very talented Artist, very emotional and has mood swings.  However, I would not consider her to be bi-polar. I did find out that she does not always tell the truth--so that ended the relationship!

I found out that S had a problem with lying and could not be trusted.  I believe she will never make anyone a good wife.  Now I see she has profiles where she lies about her age and height. 

If you really want to know what kind of liar "S" is, ask Wayne.

[BC]

Here's an older, but interesting thread about GCG's

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=845.0

I still kinda stick to the line that a golfer runs a risk of getting struck by lightning on the course.. but twice or more, giving fault to the golf ball is a stretch..

[Doll]

I still kinda stick to the line that a golfer runs a risk of getting struck by lightning on the course.. but twice or more, giving fault to the golf ball is a stretch..

Agree

[Sculpto]

Wayne made one big mistake.  he did not look in the mirror and ask himself if what he was doing made sense or was realistic.  

That should be the lesson all of us yet to be married men get from his story.

The woman.. if Wayne's accounting of the story is factual, is a manipulative liar with low moral and ethical standards.  If Wayne's story is true it is women like her that make me hope Karma is real so she will get her come-uppance.  

If she is as evil as Wayne has suggested:
Instead of sending her back to Siberia naked I suggest she become drug addicted and end up a $15 hooker working the UPS docks in Manhatten in the middle of winter as her "stereotypical hollywood pimp" sits across the street to keep her scared and working.  Later when she is old and toothless she can service the homeless in exchange for a hit of crack.  That is a better curse I am sure of it.  

[felix8787]

next of all we don't know why S left

And we will never know.

[felix8787]

Honestly, if karma does come back on her, it should be her giving all of her love to man and then the man doing exactly what she did to Wayne. That would be karma to the fullest.

[GoodOlBoy]

Amen Felix8787, I agree completely.

"What goes around, comes around".

[BC]

If she is as evil as Wayne has suggested:
Instead of sending her back to Siberia naked I suggest she become drug addicted and end up a $15 hooker working the UPS docks in Manhatten in the middle of winter as her "stereotypical hollywood pimp" sits across the street to keep her scared and working.  Later when she is old and toothless she can service the homeless in exchange for a hit of crack.  That is a better curse I am sure of it.  

Lets say a guy arrives here on board, reporting that he sent 50 bucks to some woman in FSU for medicine her grandmother needed.  He then moves on to post her on every scammer board on the net, posting her picture, address and telephone number etc etc.

We tell him to cut his losses and forget her, that it serves no purpose whatsoever to persecute a scammer.

What is soooooo different when the border has been crossed?

Is a perverted sense of satisfaction such a worthwhile endeavour?

[Doll]

I'm sure there are some that some women might want to use a failing relationship to their advantage as the end nears, but true  premeditated GC intent?

I dunno.. Given the possibility of the few hundred extra bucks scamming vs finding a 'mule' I think the scam would be the easier and more lucrative choice.

Thoughts?

My thoughts, BC, are that to come to this country with this intent is close to a suicide unless women have tons of money, and even though a good husband is what they are looking for. It is hard to survive here if you are an immigrant, it is times harder if you have a kid. The chance for premeditated GC intent is quite slim.

[Doll]

Instead of sending her back to Siberia naked I suggest she become drug addicted and end up a $15 hooker working the UPS docks in Manhatten in the middle of winter as her "stereotypical hollywood pimp" sits across the street to keep her scared and working.  Later when she is old and toothless she can service the homeless in exchange for a hit of crack.  That is a better curse I am sure of it.  Wink

Russians say the curse is on the one who wants the curse for somebody, they say "it falls on his head"

[Doll]

And we will never know.

Then why are you talking of karma?

[Admin]

No No No- The GCH gets her residency card (which she planned for) and THEN leaves? She should never been allowed here in the first place and should not be allowed to remain. To set the scales right. . . .

BTW- the only elaborate fabrications are of doll's making- trying to defend her GCH sister. Birds of a feather. .

Not too sure what this particular acronym means (though I have a suspicion). If it represents the pejorative insult I think it does - it has no place here - particularly in reference to another member.

Would appreciate it if you all can bring topic back 'between the banks' so that no intervention is required.

Thanks,

- Dan

[OlgaH]

The chance for premeditated GC intent is quite slim.

Every AM knows about DVC machine and it is just enough to drop hints about DVC and how his life can be screwed...

Talked to the attorney and before I did something I talked to my husband.

What could I do illegally? Everything is legal. If I did each and every thing according to law he would be screwed. This DVC machine needs to just be started then it won't stop.

[Doll]

Every AM knows about DVC machine and it is just enough to drop hints about DVC and how his life can be screwed...

so?

[Doll]

Olga, dear, are talking of apples or oranges? I said it (you quoted) about my son's and mine  staying in a shelter after we were locked out with no money and no place to live. Does your quoting make any sense?